Married women wanting anonymous encounters with women

[iDentelle]

what I don't understand is why this is so hard, and so scary. I was much more casual about sex with men. This seems so much more meaningful

It is bizarre isn't it? I'm find my relationships with women have been long term, more intense in every way, and hurt more when they ended. I have no idea why it seems more meaningful but I totally get it.

 

[AussiesRock]

so many of us want to be seduced

I'm up for being seduced bigtime.
Maybe we should have a seduction global meet!

 

[Horseylover]

Mmmmmmm I'd be up for that, would love to meet a sexy aussie!!

xx

 

[Blue_Eyed_Grl36]

I don't quite know what to say except hello. And that I would much rather have intimacy than anonymity

I completely agree with this too.. having a real connection makes all the difference, or It's just not going to happen otherwise.

 

[PurpleJade]

I completely agree with this too.. having a real connection makes all the difference, or It's just not going to happen otherwise.

I totally agree. I don't think I'd want to have sex unless there was a real connection. The idea of an anonynous encounter may make a nice fantasy (in the sense of there being such an over-whelming physical attraction), but in reality, I don't think I could do it.

 

[ViviDreamer]

Hi, everyone. I'm glad there are others here today

 

[ShyLana]

Her fantasy -- in a department store dressing room

Meet a gal online and within an hour or so I had picked her up in my car - went to a department store lingerie dept and had fingered fucked her and she did me. Quietly...didnit even get her name. She did n't want to see me about - just the thrill of this expereince

 

[Kiljoy91]

Random question....does anyone live in central minnesota?

 

[weegiebabe79]

Random question....does anyone live in central minnesota?

I think my position on this has changed. IF I was ever actively pursue this, I would like to build up some sort of friendship with a woman, be slightly selective and not just spread my legs for the first person that shows interest, see if anything happens but if it did, I wouldn't want a long term relationship or even a regular thing. That's what my husband is for!

 

[amyforfun]

Meet a gal online and within an hour or so I had picked her up in my car - went to a department store lingerie dept and had fingered fucked her and she did me. Quietly...didnit even get her name. She did n't want to see me about - just the thrill of this expereince

That is a fantasy of mine....dept store changing rooms.

 

[PurpleJade]

I think my position on this has changed. IF I was ever actively pursue this, I would like to build up some sort of friendship with a woman, be slightly selective and not just spread my legs for the first person that shows interest, see if anything happens but if it did, I wouldn't want a long term relationship or even a regular thing. That's what my husband is for!

I agree with the first half of that statement, but if I built up a friendship with a woman, it moved onto sex, and it was good, why not make it a regular thing? As long as your husband was ok with it, why not have both? Of course, he may not be ok with it.... which would suck.

 

[hotyogal]

I'm in my mid thirties and married...happy to know others have had similar urges.

The anonymity is not necessary for me though. I'd love to be seduced by a close friend..who understood the importance of being discrete.

Lunch dates with desert at home with a girlfriend would be much more fun...Just being on here and typing this makes me feel like a bad girl. I like it!

 

[curiousisjane]

I'm in my mid thirties and married...happy to know others have had similar urges.

The anonymity is not necessary for me though. I'd love to be seduced by a close friend..who understood the importance of being discrete.

Lunch dates with desert at home with a girlfriend would be much more fun...Just being on here and typing this makes me feel like a bad girl. I like it!

Ohhhh, yes, sensuous and slowly seductive relationship, lots of flirting...You bad girl.

 

[SultryDesires]

I had to think about this before I posted but I realized that the majority of my fantasies about women have always included the fact that we know one another before getting down and dirty. Physical attraction is a plus, however, mental attraction , at least for me , is extremely important and required.

Also, I realized that I have never jumped into a hot cyber session with a woman that I just met online. I like to exchange messages, emails, to get a feel of who she is, what she desires, basically to see if we " click". The " click" factor is very important to me. Lack of it can greatly hinder future play activity .

 

[ViviDreamer]

Good morning, everyone! Keeping cool?

 

[SultryDesires]

Good morning, everyone! Keeping cool?

Good morning to you too!
Keeping myself cool as in temperature, yes, my home office has a great air conditioner. However, in the sexual sense, ummmm NO. I am always on the HOT side, especially, after logging into Lit and reading stories, posts, messages, etc.

 

[Sabrinalesbos]

Hi ladies... I started this thread but as many of you have had me reflect without a connection intimacy diminishes. I'm married with kids and love that.... As I reflect the time I've spent here as opposed to investing in my "real relationships" (kids/husband) I have to shake my head and say " what the hell was I thinking?".
So I'm going to disappear back into the world that truly sustains me. My problem was my attempt to protect my identity brought dishonesty into both worlds... Dishonesty prevents true intimacy as I reflect. To those I've talked to online good bye... I'm done.
Best... Sabrina

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

I had to think about this before I posted but I realized that the majority of my fantasies about women have always included the fact that we know one another before getting down and dirty. Physical attraction is a plus, however, mental attraction , at least for me , is extremely important and required.

Also, I realized that I have never jumped into a hot cyber session with a woman that I just met online. I like to exchange messages, emails, to get a feel of who she is, what she desires, basically to see if we " click". The " click" factor is very important to me. Lack of it can greatly hinder future play activity .

Well said Sultry!

 

[hottalyssa]

good morning sexxy ladies. i hope you all are well today.

 

[ThickInlove]

One of my favorite fantasy's is to be seduced by another woman!

 

[hottalyssa]

One of my favorite fantasy's is to be seduced by another woman!

definitely a lovely fantasy. now if we could just make this a reality.....

 

[SmallandSexy]

I'm in my mid thirties and married...happy to know others have had similar urges.

The anonymity is not necessary for me though. I'd love to be seduced by a close friend..who understood the importance of being discrete.

Lunch dates with desert at home with a girlfriend would be much more fun...Just being on here and typing this makes me feel like a bad girl. I like it!

Ooh that sounds so nice. Since my husband is completely on board with me exploring my interests in women, it would be interesting if it was someone who was also our friend. Possibly more complicated long term but still I like the idea

I'm not sure about anonymous - though it might be an interesting first time for me. Maybe even just a kiss...

 

[Fire_Queen]

I don't think I could do completely anonymous... but I have had sex with a few close female friends. My husband is fully aware though... and fully aroused by it, hehe

 

[PrincessMomCher]

I'm curious also

 

[WaitWhatt]

That is a fantasy of mine....dept store changing rooms.

Eck. I find it skeevy for some reason.