Married women wanting anonymous encounters with women

reading through these posts I felt a desire to to comment on yours. I am not sure I have ever felt sexually emotional like a woman. I am a woman, but seperate sex and feeling aspect..my husband stated that I am more of a man than he is with my drive and my attitude. I was often hit on by other women so many time I cannot keep count, but never followed that path. when I met my then boyfriends not so secret crush..it was complicated I started to have feelings that left me confused. she was beautiful...to me. one time she came to me and made me a proposition. I regret not taking her up on it..I was shy and inexperience in that way. I think that I would like to make out and touch a woman...I am deffinately a breast kind of girl..but when it comes to the actual sex..that is where I feel unsure and question myself. I do not know if that is normal or not because I had many gay guys friends, but only one bi female friend..that I knew of. but that is my story and I am sticking to it..I am a little tired so I hope it makes sense.....
 
Read this thread and enjoyed, I agree with so much expressed here, some not so much. I do enjoy reading others opinions and experiences though, thank you ladies!
 
I often think about being with a friend of mine. When she and I met another friend for a girl's weekend, we all joked around and kissed each other. It was very, very exciting. They both said it was fun but they would never do anything else ad I agreed with them....BUT I kept wanting one of them to make a move. I told my husband and he thought it was very exciting and we talked about it a lot since then.....I don't know if I can make the first move but I would love to explore. One of my friends is coming to visit in October and I am wondering if we will play again.
 
I'm 44, and have been having fantasies about being with another woman for about six years now. I've fooled around one time while drunk with a really good friend, but didn't "go all of the way." I wish we had -- it was very sexy.

Me too. It's making me nuts.
 
I have just found this thread, are there so many of us out there and why...? The thought of another sensuous woman lay next to me, breast to breast, kissing and caressing each others soft skin is ever so erotic.
When alone and shopping I am easily distracted, yes, distracted from shopping, and see someone who appeals I can go weak at the knees, to the point I often follow them, watch them and wonder....what if, does she, all questions go spinning through my mind.
Lovely tingly feelings in my tummy.

I have found myself fantasizing so much lately. I want to be kissed and held and nuzzled and stroked as only a woman can. I'm in a sexless marriage and it's ok. I love my husband, but sex has never really been good, so we just stopped. More and more I wish I had a friend and it turned more into than that...I think about it all the time. This is so hard.
 
I have wrestled with that for a couple years and still haven't come up with a good answer.
 
It wouldn't be an easy decision, certainly. Perhaps under the right circumstances, and understanding each other...
It would be terrible if it was destructive to a marriage though.
 
I have more than a couple good friends that are sooo unhappy in their marriages or so unsatisfied and they tell me they want so much more and most all of them have no idea about my alt lifestyle.
 
That could be something that makes it worse for them.... I don't think I could let that happen. I suppose we never know what really goes on in a marriage but I'd hate to think that something like that, that I wanted to experience, effected someones life badly.
 
That's prolly the biggest reason I keep my other side private to those that know me best. Most if not all would accept it without hesitation or judgement but I would feel bad if I made their situation worse. For some reason I just never gave much thought to an affair all the years I was married. I don't think it was from a moral viewpoint really I just didn't think about it. Who knows tho if I'd had the opportunity to act on buried desires there's no guarantee I wouldn't have taken it.
 
I feel so much the same... somehow a "fling" with a woman doesn't seem like cheating, no relationship would possibly come of it for me. I haven't acted on it, mostly out of fear or uncertainty but if something happened, I think I would.
 
Your not alone at all, I find myself thinking of being with women all the time. Not sure how to go about it though. : ) One day maybe! I did meet a nice women at a park I take my puppy!
 
Back
Top