Masturbating women.

I would concur with the bolded-

I think when the relationship is still a blank canvas and you're meeting up for the excitement of sex, it can be easier for folks to focus on their own needs, and their partner is more receptive to doing whatever it takes to capture their new love's attention.

I know that later in a relationship, often times, we feel settled, the chase is gone, we both know that if we simply stick to the routine, the other person is most likely to stay.

Why rock the boat?

Well.... I am afraid that sometimes relationships fade and unmet needs bubble to the surface. I have many unmet needs from my past 20 years of relationships, exclusively with one woman, then a different one.

I have not had a chance to explore them and that's the best years of my adult life, most of my youth. I'm not old yet but I want the next relationship that I have to be as passionate and meet as many of mine and my partner's sexual desires as possible.

I thought being here on Literotica would help me meet someone compatible. I will keep up the search.

I feel if a woman is comfortable with performing masturbation in front of me, she will be more open about what she wants, and what she needs, the ways in which she has orgasms, the things she fantasizes about in order to cum.

If I can watch and listen to her describe all that and also, watch her masturbate, maybe I can be the one who meets all her sexual needs that she can get from one person.

I must also admit, I am a little afraid of asking for this, or offering to simply masturbate in front of someone, because... I am wanting for us to get closer together, and in my experience, you do that by touching each other, feeling each other's bodies, cumming on and inside each other's bodies.

Still.... I think this is worth a try. Will discuss.
Definitely worth a nice discussion.
 
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