Meeting a couple tonight

Unfortunately, for now, this hasn’t gone any further. The husband informed me that my age is an issue for her. I’ve messaged her a few times, but she wouldn’t message me back. She’s only replied once to me and that’s it. I’ve been thinking about trying one more time, not sure what to say though
 
You've been played. Chances are this was never going to go further. Happens all the time.
This happened to me a couple of times also.

Two different couples were planning a holiday in my city and both visited and failed to take the big step of contacting me.

Both couples had seen my photo and were happy with everything until the time came and they appeared to chicken out.

It can be annoying, but you just have to accept.
 
You've been played. Chances are this was never going to go further. Happens all the time.
Hmm I don’t think I was played. I just think the age difference bothered her a little. When I met her for the first time at the club, she was already a little tipsy, so obviously she’s more open. The next day, she sobered up, and probably realised that she wasn’t feeling the age difference.

I’m not bothered though, I have another couple lined up for a meet soon :)
 
Hmm I don’t think I was played.
You may be right. I know I have been, more than once. Like the couple who are all into everything when you chat online, then as you get closer to a meet more obstacles get in the way and you start to realise it's probably some sad fuck who's wife isn't actually even aware of anything, or maybe doesn't even exist.

Had one couple, we met socially 5 or 6 times, got on like a house on fire, had similar interests, then they went quiet. I messaged and asked what's up? Like, if you're not interested that's fine, but communication is nice.

They'd got cold feet but didn't like to say.
 
You may be right. I know I have been, more than once. Like the couple who are all into everything when you chat online, then as you get closer to a meet more obstacles get in the way and you start to realise it's probably some sad fuck who's wife isn't actually even aware of anything, or maybe doesn't even exist.

Had one couple, we met socially 5 or 6 times, got on like a house on fire, had similar interests, then they went quiet. I messaged and asked what's up? Like, if you're not interested that's fine, but communication is nice.

They'd got cold feet but didn't like to say.
So true. So many love the idea, but get cold feet the closer the time comes. But I try to reassure them that this might happen and that I understand the first step is the hardest. But well worth it when they take that first step.
 
So true. So many love the idea, but get cold feet the closer the time comes. But I try to reassure them that this might happen and that I understand the first step is the hardest. But well worth it when they take that first step.
I finally got to talk to them about it, Their whole thing was that they wanted a bi guy to play with. We came as a couple at the time. They were into the idea until the wife thought "what's in it for me?". She's not bi. and didn't want to play with my partner, got off on the thought of me and her husband going at it but didn't like the idea of him fucking my partner.

If they'ds have voived that at the outset rather than her trying to convince herself that it would be ok, things would have been happier all around. Honesty is cool.

We have a female friend we've known through the scene for a couple of years. I joked about us being in the friendzone, and that we knew each other too well as friends to fuck. She said well actually... cool.

A week or so later she called me up and said sorry, I don't really want to play with you. but I'd love to play with your partner... I liked the honesty. I'd feel awful if we'd fucked just because she was too polite to say what she really wanted.
 
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