Jerseyshore
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I'm tempted, but I confess to having never used Silverdaddies. While most of my more recent experience has been with guys close to my own age (just turned 63) , the most awesome sex I've had within the last two years, maybe forever, was with a guy 30 years my junior in Las Vegas (another traveler, not a local).
It just seems that many guys around my age, especially those who are "bi" and married, are flaky when it comes around to getting serious about a real meetup. Maybe part of that is because I live in rural area, where everyone knows everyone, and thus locals are more paranoid. I can't tell you how many "talk the talk" but balk at actually "walking the walk". They come up with excuses, they're no-shows, and some just disappear from the site when talk becomes too serious. Since I've had more luck meeting up with "younger" guys than those closer to my age, I feel like a site that specializes in catering to older guys just limits my opportunities too much.
Over the last decade I've tried half a dozen different gay dating sites, and the only one I've stuck with is Squirt. On Squirt, and especially if I'm willing to step a little beyond my immediate locale, I've been able to find companionship of all ages and have had especially good luck in finding companions when traveling to larger cities...and especially Las Vegas.
One more thing, and call me shallow, but I've also found that the self-desrciption presented by slightly younger guys is more likely to match real life. I don't know when 5' 10" and 220 pounds or more supposedly became "average" or "stocky" for older guys as opposed to the reality of being obese. Come on guys, lets have a more realistic self image.
Part of the reason many older men are reluctant to honestly describe themselves is our bad view off agung in general, especially regarding sexual performance. However, there is an advantage to taking a bit more time in enjoying sexx.
As a couple in our 60s, my husband and I see this regularly. Neither of us is a prime athlete, but we find this is not a problem with many younger men that want to enjoy our exoerience. These men do not as a rule have a prejudice against older men, but look forward to an experience with older, gentler, more experienced men.