Meeting People from Online, In Real time

[xxxdover]

MOST GOOD

Hi Spanktress,
Well i think I've been very lucky meeting up with Ladies I've met through the net as only one had been a disaster the other 6 were fantastic and still chat to most now.Some were through straight sites but most have been through kinkier sites as playing games is more exciting as I have many interests in different things that turn me on and most had interests in things I like.Will be meeting a new lady in 3 weeks and hope we click.

 

[CourtesanBeryl]

I've met 3 males and 2 females...

... on a different forum than this one, it is history interactive writing oriented.
All three males (29, 40 somethin' and 64) were consumate web smooth talkers. In the course of one year, I was very much in love with these three men, had sex with the older ones. I broke up with them as I found out that they had used the web to their advantage: the younger one was married and imature (the first person I met from the web, though), the second one was a female abuser (almost killed me), the third one was a lot more involved with his ex than he admitted and was really interested by my wallet.
No problems with the two women I met, they are wonderful friends - and that's all that was expected from the start.

So you ladies out there, beware! Be a lot more careful than with RL encounters.

 

[MrFla]

I've met several people from online. Most have wound up in some sort of sexual context, but nothing more ever developed.

The first was a woman in Pennsylvania, a 25 year old school teacher who lived with her parents and I wound up getting a blowjob from her in the hallway while her parents sat in the living room just around the corner. But alas she wasn't my overall type, though she had a very strong oral fixation. I was bad, she was lonely and I took advantage of it and didn't call her back (bastard that I was).

The second was an idiot. She told me she was the hostess/manager of a resturaunt and invited me out. It turned out to be a pizza place in the middle of no where. She also thought the Bar Examination was to become a bartender. Beat a hasty retreat.

The third was an eighteen year old (I was 24) who told me she was 21, go figure. Upon leaving her parents house, me being rather sheepish around dad, she insisted we go back to my place to watch movies, instead of going out like we planned. Sure enough, wham bam thank you. It was mutual and though it was a day of oral pleasures, nothing became of it, only one date

The fourth was an executive secretary in Manhattan. I was 26 at the time. She lived in New Jersey and after a day of driving in the country we wound up back at her place for some fantastic sex. It was the first time I had traveled the back nine and I saw her for a few months, but found the only thing we truly had in common was great sex.

Number five was a blonde swedish bombshell from Minnesota. She flew out to meet me for a weekend and to see the play
Rent. We didn't see the play (which was fantastic by the way, I saw it at a later date, absolutley the best!!!) but we did have some nice conversation and I took her to a party my friends were having uptown. It went well, all my friends drooled over her, she was a big hit, and damn cute. She had an early flight the next day so I tried to call it an evening around 2 as we had to be up at 6 to make the airport. She wouldn't hear of it and threw a temper tantrum the likes of which I have never seen in front of about 40 people...oops. Needless to say, I slept on the couch and absolutely made sure she made her flight in the morning.

The sixth was a photo editor for a large magazine who lived n the Village in Manhattan. She was one of the best people I met from online. Once again, after a wonderful evening of dancing and talking and a few cocktails we wound up back at her place and one thing lead to another. Over the course of the next several months I found that I was doing lots of moving and heaving and hefting and building. (I moved all the new furniture she purchased at IKEA and assembled it all. Disassembed her loft and moved it to the person's apartment she sold it too and reassembled it. Funny thing is when the work ran out so did our steam. The routine had been to do something productive and then play two backed beast for the rest of the day and night and next day. We had a general good time for two months, everyday of which we found some way to see each other and sleep together, however it just fizzled out, once again the best part was the sex, but she was cool in general. There were no hard feelings, just kind of looked at each other and were like...yeah...okay...see you around.

The rest weren't sexual. I've met a few people offline since living in Florida. One ended up in a gunshot, one just drove off when we met (I mean you'd think I was Quasimoto or something, she peeled out and flew.) One was two weeks ago and although both attracted each other physically, there was some kissing, we just both knew. We enjoyed the conversation but the chemistry wasn't right.

I've learned a few things. First, nothing beats real live human contact to see how you really feel about things. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO SUBSTITUTE. I don't care how much you state you like each other.

Second, there are subtle qualities about a woman that you just cannot get a good perspective on without real contact, and I guess that's why for dating I prefer meeting someone from offline, but for sex someone online...now if I could just combine the two...

I've had good luck offline with both, but online just has seemed to be some sort of lonely twisted sexual festival, not that I minded, I'm a man and I know my mind and it suited me at the time.

Now I'm a little bit older, and though having never been married, I feel like I may be missing out on something, though time will tell. However, I'm skeptical as to meeting someone from online for something serious, and even considering it to be serious without at least substantial physical presence. I'm a little old fashioned when it comes to the emotional side of marriage or serious relationships, it's work, hard rewarding work and considering divorce rates I require a longer courtship and dating period before I would even consider considering asking someone to marry me or to be my significant other long term. Though one should never say never.

 

[Guest]

*bump*

 

[bubman]

well as for me i have only met one person i met on line (so far next week that will change ) but the one i did meet was very good, we dated for about 6 months when i asked her to be my wife......... she said yes and we had a great 4 years. but as all good things come to an end so did we... but if you ask me if i would do it again, like i said ask me about it next week,
good luck to any who tri it............
life is short and you might just fall in love

 

[Up Too Late]

I have!

I've met a handful or so of people from the net. No one from this site but there are a few that I wouldn't mind meeting.

Mostly off of AOL chat rooms. Been from Washington to Florida, I've traveled all over the country and its been quite fun.

If I met someone from here, I won't hesitate to met them in person!