Meeting your Dom for the first time

[Evil_Geoff]

... I have never understood online D/s.

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[the captians wench]

At the risk of creating an e-tempest in an e-teapot, I have never understood online D/s. The intensity from being in a R/T relationship with someone would appear to be missing when conducted online. Isn't it a lot like skydiving, minus the airplane and parachute?

I think it really depends on the parties involved. Online can be very intence and just as much so as r/t. Or it can be just a place to role play, get a wank out and move on.

For a better clue into this, you may want to check out the Distance Domination thread. There are a lot of us there in LDRs who rely on a lot of online comunitcation and such. I've been in said type relationship for almost a year and a half now, and interactions with him are just as intence and real as any with my friends or previous relationships. But that's largely because of how we see it. The net brought us together, and is our main sorce of comunication, but we fully intend on bringing things offline, as soon as I can hop a rainbow.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

At the risk of creating an e-tempest in an e-teapot, I have never understood online D/s. The intensity from being in a R/T relationship with someone would appear to be missing when conducted online. Isn't it a lot like skydiving, minus the airplane and parachute?

it's nothing like that, and it is VERY intense, maybe more so than meeting in 'R/L' first...all the anticipation, the wanting for so long, the needing, and then finally meeting face to face and getting to do all of those things you talked about for so long. Master and i have been in a LDR for 3 years. we met face to face for the first time September 28th '06.

the day before He was to arrive, i was a nervous wreck, making sure everything was in order etc...i took a friend with me to the airport (no wasn't afraid that He was going to kill me or anything it was an hour and a half drive to the airport and i don't like to drive that far alone) we were late leaving my house because of a visitor that stopped by and wouldn't shut up. His plane was to land at 5:50pm we ended up getting to the airport at 5:45, luckily His plane was delayed a little so i had some time to get my thoughts together. i told my friend i could not sit and needed to walk around so we walked around a bit through the stores and such, and then sat back down. my cell phone rang and it was Master telling me He was on the ground and just waiting for them to let 'em out. so, my friend and i decided to go into the sun glass hut that was there and watch for Him to come down the jet way.

it seemed like FOREVER that i stood there, waiting to see Him, wondering if i'd know Him (yes i'd seen pictures, watched Him on cam etc..but still the thought crossed my mind) i was very nervous and that is part of the reason i 'hid' in the sun glass hut, i wanted to see Him before He saw me, somehow i felt more comfortable that way, anyway, finally, i saw Him, He didn't see me right off so i watched...unable to move and whispered to my friend 'that's Him' she said well go then! lol..so i walked out of the store i was standing in and He turned around right at the same moment and saw me, His eyes locked on me and mine on Him and honestly, we just stood there looking at each other, not saying a word, not sure either of us COULD say anything. He handed me the rose He had brought to me (it was one of His roses from His own rose bush and He had travled with it all the way from Cali, ask Him about it sometime *giggles*) and then grabbed me and kissed me and i swear i thought i was going to melt into a huge pile of subbie goo right there at His feet.

we went and got his luggage and then out to the parking garage, when we got to my car, he pinned me against the back of the car and whispered in my ear 'Mine' and i melted all over again, as He fondled me a little through my clothes right there in parking garage *blushes* we then decided to go driving around Indianapolis and when we parked the car in another parking garage, i had forgotten my cell phone, so i leaned back in the car to get it out, and He smacked HARD on the ass, and right then, right there, i KNEW i was owned, it sent through me something i had NEVER in my life felt before. it may sound silly, but it is OH SO true. i won't go into the details about later that night at my house, but i think somewhere there is a post of what happened there ..i think it's in the 'distance domination support thread' but anyway, He definantly took control of me that night and me never having this kind of experience before, took alot of things i wasn't sure i'd be able to.

so no, the intensity that is in a "R/T" relationship is NOT lacking in an LDR....by no means. He will be back in just 5 days and i cannot wait! i went tonight and looked at the hotel we will be staying in, got the pricing and all of that, so everything is ready, just waiting on Him *smiles* and that's our story of our first meet.....

 

[MasterPhoenix]

The story of the rose... Oh damn.. THAT was a bit of an ordeal...

OK, just as I was leaving for the airport I cut a rosebud off of My rose bush to give to My rose. Knowing that the TSA had just lifted some of the restrictions on liquids, I thought of a plan on how I could get it there. O kept it in a water bottle from my house until I got to security. I asked the security guard IF I brought My emthy BK cup though security and put water in it inside the secure area if it would be OK, she said yes...

Easy enough... As I was passing onto the jetway to board the plane one of the attnedants told Me I could not take that cup on board with Me... I tried to tell her that the security said it was OK... BEFORE I could get that out of My mouth she was screaming "TSA TSA" so I gave the cup to the attendant to throw it away...

Finally whilst in the air, I requested and was given a water bopttle from a flight attendant and there was no problem from then on...

Until rose had handed it to her freind to watch over, and well... that was teh end of the rose that had accumulated many air miles...



Actually, it was a yellow rose...