Men’s Bath House Club Experience?

There is still one in San Jose that I started visiting in the mid 80’s. There were private rooms, a pool. A steam room and a large community room with several monitors playing porn continuously. The steam room was constant action with guys giving head or fucking. So it was easy to sit and stroke while watching or suck a cock when it was offered or select a willing partner, there were many, and fuck or be fucked.
 
I’ve been to a few men’s bathhouse clubs, and it’s a pretty exciting experience. It’s not your average day at the spa, but it has charm. The atmosphere tends to be pretty laid-back, and you'll get a mix of relaxation and socializing. The main thing to know is that you’re expected to follow certain etiquette, like showering before using the pools and keeping things chill. Some places also offer massages, which can be a nice treat. If you're near 신림셔츠, I’d recommend checking out the local spots there. It’s not for everyone, but if you’re open to it, it’s a solid way to unwind and meet new people.
 
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Who has experience with this type of establishment. I’m wondering if might be a worthwhile to visit one if I am looking for a “first time” encounter.
Is there open sexual activity?
The club I’m looking at has private rooms with TVs. Sexual videos?
Would likely partners walk around looking for “playmates”.
There is no mention of gloryhole action.
If you are a “one and done” type guy would you hold back and visit? This club has amenities like a hot tub, gym, private rooms, sauna, etc.
Is there a protocol that discourages cum "all over" and creating a mess? Obviously swallowing or taking a load in the ass would, generally avoid the mess. But if you a watcher jacking off to the scene, then what?
 
Is there a protocol that discourages cum "all over" and creating a mess? Obviously swallowing or taking a load in the ass would, generally avoid the mess. But if you a watcher jacking off to the scene, then what?
The places I have visited have no protocols for cum messes. They do have a team that goes around sanitizing, cleaning and mopping floors and surfaces. That means areas might be closed for a short time, but the place stays pretty clean. In the private rooms, cum is either taken in orally, anally or shot on someone's face, torso or ass allowing for personal clean-up. Sheets can be messy, but again the staff changes beds after clients leave.
 
The places I have visited have no protocols for cum messes. They do have a team that goes around sanitizing, cleaning and mopping floors and surfaces. That means areas might be closed for a short time, but the place stays pretty clean. In the private rooms, cum is either taken in orally, anally or shot on someone's face, torso or ass allowing for personal clean-up. Sheets can be messy, but again the staff changes beds after clients leave.
I've never been in one that had sheets, just vinyl that can be wiped down. You've been to higher class joints than me, obviously 😉
 
I've never been in one that had sheets, just vinyl that can be wiped down. You've been to higher class joints than me, obviously 😉
The sheets covered the vinyl mattresses. High class indeed! Kept the fellows fucking from slipping off the mattress! LOL!
 
I've avoided them because of above average HIV rates in my area, and know some people positive who shouldn't go will and then risk everyone negative
 
I've avoided them because of above average HIV rates in my area, and know some people positive who shouldn't go will and then risk everyone negative
I don’t know what your medical care situation is like, but PrEP is a very effective defense against new HIV infections, and real easy to get, for at least some people.
 
I've been to several. Quality and cleanliness varies. Take shower shoes :)

If it's literally a "first time" gay thing, you might be a bit overwhelmed. But, breathe and chill. You can hadle it.

Remember, you are in charge of what your body does and what is allowed to happen to it. Set your boundaries.

There is usually public play and private play in small rooms...depends on the place. If there is a hot tub, don't cum in the water!

Most clubs say condoms are required. Some actually enforce the rule. Most don't.

If you go, try lasting as long as you can before you cum so you get your money's worth and really enjoy as many guys as possible (which is why I'd go). It's common for first timers to cum quickly, then flee the scene. Most won't judge...we've been there.

It's okay to just suck cocks for a while, and not have yours played with. It's also okay to let many guys play with your cock, and stop before you cum, "I'm not ready to cum yet. I want to play around for a while." You'll hear that yourself while trying to earnestly get someone off. Relax. Enjoy the less frantic nature of a club.

As far as public sex goes, in general, bath houses and sex clubs are less urgent and more relaxed. People aren't trying to "get off" quickly like they do in bookstores or public settings.

It's all a journey. Every guy in the place had their "first" at some point, so unbuckle and get in there!
nicely summarised. yes i went from doing nothing on my first visit, to full on vinyl mattress sex with audiences over a period of weeks.. you soon feel ok and your limits.. i could attract the older guys pretty easily and i think face down with a peachy bum on show seemed to be enough of a signal as to what i wanted.. i did fall asleep once and was woken by a guy fucking me, basically rape of a sorts, even though i was lying in a private cabin with my arse on show. i remember waking up and realising and just said have you got a condom on. he said, yes darling.. and continued to fuck me until done. was very thrilling and the guy on the desk said did you have a good sleep? and smiled.. i think it was either him or he was watching.. i purposely never looked up to see who it was.. i’m sure the experience increased my love of being humiliated used and then forgotten.
 
It has been a mix of hit and miss with slightly more miss than hit. But a few hits were awesome, amazing and what kept me coming back for hopefully more.
I very rarely visit now as lately they just don't seem to be any fun. In fact has been a few years.
 
Been visiting them occasionaly for about 15 years, never had a bad experience (a few mediocre ones to be fair).
Mostly had a fantastic time, its going through the door the first few times that is the hardest bit, once inside everything came naturally (pun intended).
 
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