men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend

[muycurioso]

at first she liked it, later she threw it in my face.

Men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend? What did she say? How was her reaction?

I have done this with quite a few women and there reaction has been pretty negative for the most part. Just wondering if you have had the same experience.att

 

[muycurioso]

mine caught me watching gay porn and just laughed...said I knew it...now she just calls me names...and it makes me get off so hard...

nice! what names?

 

[muycurioso]

Yeah....I dated a woman that was all for it initially, she brought it up....then she went thru the change and was suddenly not interested...she used my bi interest as a reason for leaving. So I'm not telling any woman again...

it was one more nail in my coffin(divorce) she think I might be gay. Nothing wrong with that, but I am not gay, I still want pussy. I am curious about cock and sucking a cock.

 

[canogagrizz]

I'd love to come out, and tell my wife that I really get off watching gay porn, and think of sucking cock. That there are a few guys I fantasize about sucking off, even though I believe their all straight. I know she would say " that's sick, don't tell me your gay now?" And I'm so afraid she wouldn't look at me as a real man anymore.

I would also like to tell my wife the same thing. Just to see if she'd even gaf. I don't think she really would care anymore and would probably tell me to go find a guy & get some head if I can because she doesn't want to do that anymore. I can totally hear her saying that to me if I was to tell her I watch gay porn a lot.
But I wont' tell her. Because like you said I know 100% that she wouldn't look at me as a real man anymore. Not that that matters anymore either really but it still wouldn't sit well with. It would just give her another excuse to shit on me & treat me more like shit than she already has. Plus my wife has a big mouth when it comes to talking with a couple other family members that run their mouths. Yeah so that would be a HUGE NO for me ever mentioning I watch gay porn & like it.

 

[OldFred65]

Men have you talked about same sex activity with your wife or girl friend? What did she say? How was her reaction?

I have done this with quite a few women and there reaction has been pretty negative for the most part. Just wondering if you have had the same experience.

Talked about it? My wife encouraged me to do it.

 

[sterculius]

I am currently engaged in an ongoing, episodic discussion with my wife regarding my lifelong love for sucking cock and my, until recently, undisclosed history of having enthusiastically performed oral sex on numerous men.
I had confessed to her a few years back, that as a teen I'd been my best friend's personal cocksucker all through high school and used to give him blowjobs whenever and wherever he told me to. At that time, I left her with the impression that was my only same sex oral experience.
A few weeks ago, I further admitted to her that It hadn't ended then and that even as an adult, I have sucked the cocks of many men at my job and that during my previous marriage, I maintained an ongoing arrangement with a neighbor to give him weekly blowjobs. I told her that in every case, I was the sole Cocksucker. At my insistence, none of the men was ever required or expected to return the favor. My wife now concedes that, as a result of my revelations, she now sees me in a different light. She claims she still loves me, but I fear she may no longer respect me as a man. I still haven't told her the full extent of my oral obsession or of the many instances of which she remains in ignorance. She doesn't know that I'm still an insatiable and compulsive cocksucker and that I routinely arrange to meet with men to suck their cocks whenever the opportunity presents itself.

 

[klippert]

Yes I’ve talked with both two girlfriends and my wife. Wife chalked it off at youthful experimenting.

Both GFz. Were into it

 

[jakie69]

I hadn’t until we started experimenting at her insistence. My past and my sexuality were a secret. Once she wanted to explore and experiment it was only a matter of time until it came out.

 

[smoothwiener]

Wife actually said she'd like to see me take it up the ass and in the mouth at the same time while swallowing their loads.....but no kissing and no violence or even agressive language. Threat of STDs was enough to stop her from wanting me do do it for her, I only casually thought of it before then, before she got nervous and backed out I had gotten psyched up to do it for her, now I really want to know what's it's like... because I got psyched up and was told stop, can't proceed because of her fears.

I still want to do it to at least put that though to rest. May find my opinion is Meh, nothing special, or ok, hey I really like this. Just haven't found anyone close to what really gets me going so far.. and it's got to check off as many of my likes to get me to get excited enough to enjoy. I mean it's not exactly a first time, but would be a first time that wasn't aborted early and at that time my head wasn't really in the right place yet, friend that liked giving me head talked me into it, but had a work emergency so had to take off about 2 minutes into it. So I don't count that as a first.

 

[OldFred65]

Wife actually said she'd like to see me take it up the ass and in the mouth at the same time while swallowing their loads.....but no kissing and no violence or even agressive language. Threat of STDs was enough to stop her from wanting me do do it for her, I only casually thought of it before then, before she got nervous and backed out I had gotten psyched up to do it for her, now I really want to know what's it's like... because I got psyched up and was told stop, can't proceed because of her fears.

I still want to do it to at least put that though to rest. May find my opinion is Meh, nothing special, or ok, hey I really like this. Just haven't found anyone close to what really gets me going so far.. and it's got to check off as many of my likes to get me to get excited enough to enjoy. I mean it's not exactly a first time, but would be a first time that wasn't aborted early and at that time my head wasn't really in the right place yet, friend that liked giving me head talked me into it, but had a work emergency so had to take off about 2 minutes into it. So I don't count that as a first.

Too bad she backed out. As I have said before, my wife encouraged it and we didn't worry about STDs. Maybe that has to do with her background as a prostitute.

 

[CuriousMind68]

Years ago we shared we both had curiosities but we never went further. I still feel the same way but afraid to bring it up again. She no longer has any interest in sex due to menopausal.

 

[2tallpaul]

According to Her that is the difference between a sissy and a cross dresser. She is the one that wanted sissy to become a sissy.

I never planned on being a sissy but at a set at a time it happened. I love pleasing her and her partners.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Hmm, perhaps this is why my wife has not let me see her naked in years and does not touch my clit. She watches me masturbate with my lighted viberater but does not say anything as I either rub my limp thing to cut or push it inside and finger fuck while making sure she can see . She lays her head on my shoulder and plays with my A brest. After i cum she talks about what we will do the next day. .

 

[TallOne]

Do cringe a bit about those that don't tell because their woman wouldn't view them as a real man anymore. Either there's some projection of their own shame there or it's even more important to do so. Show the remaining bigots in near 2023 that the LGBTQ are members of their own family, that they love. Presuming they are physically safe to do so.

 

[LeeKee]

I tried once

I tried once to tell my wife that I thought I might be bisexual. Her response was a textbook "if looks could kill" moment. The look she gave me was so hateful as she responded angrily with "well, ARE you?" I just said I wasn't, and left it at that. Now, I am so embarrassed I ever brought that to her attention, especially when she referred to that moment as "that time you thought you were queer".

I envy the men whose wives accept their sexuality, and even participate, especially when the wives are bi, also. I can only imagine what it must be like being in such as safe and trusting relationship.

Yeah my wife is morphing into an insufferable bitch as well. Can’t speak to her about anything let alone have her empathise anything. Wtf. Probably has to do with her side interests.

 

[LeeKee]

Wow reading this thread made come to the realisation my marriage has been over for some time now.

 

[Travler99921]

I came out to my wife before my first gay encounter. That lead to about a month of wide ranging discussions. One day while we were having dinner she told me I should try gay sex. I later found out she wanted me to know if I was gay or bi. I soon found out I was bi. She was OK with that as long as i did not neglect her sexual needs. If anything I became more attentive to her needs.

After several encounters with men she told me she was excited by my homosexual activity. She never watched, but she always wanted to know what i did when I was with a guy. Then we usually had sex.

 

[Twistedkink]

Only about women that have come on to her, which she rejects. I always ask for more details to see if she might open up about being more receptive, but no luck so far. She would freak if I brought up any male bi activity.

 

[valpo1029]

No Way!

 

[ChrissyCD64]

We do it together, me with the guys, her with the ladies.

 

[muycurioso]

Wow reading this thread made come to the realisation my marriage has been over for some time now.

if you are not having sex it is.

 

[Astroman72]

I told one girlfriend. She was bi, very sexually experienced, and very open about her bisexuality.

I was not very experienced or open about it, so I mentioned it kind of timidly. I think I said something like "I guess I'm a little bi--I mean, I enjoy my own (pointed to my cock,) why wouldn't I enjoy another guy's?" I figured it would be better to introduce the subject that way, rather than with the truth: "I'd love to give about 5 blowjobs a day, every day!"

Given her experience and desires, that was pretty low on her list of shocking things to hear.

 

[Bathtubbill]

I once suggested pegging to my wife. She got very upset, said I didn't love her and talked about divorce. I didn't mention it again.

 

[lc69hunter]

Just recently started dating a new woman. By the third date, we were talking about past sexual experiences. I mentioned that in a previous lifestyle (much younger) I had taken a number of husbands at the request of their wives (both fucking and getting head). Her only question? Do you prefer men or women? The question actually shocked me a bit, as I was sitting with her and semi-flirting with the cute bartender, and not up the street at the local gay bar.