'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?

[peter49parker]

Giving it a try

My two cents on technique:

1. start with a finger so you can locate the prostate, and 'warm it up'.
2. once the precum is leaking a lot (I don't leak much normally), I grab a p-spot toy with a vibrator.
3. I have not yet oozed a big stream from p-spot only, but after working it for 5-10 mins with the toy, I'll masturbate just a bit, edge myself, and then stop stroking. I found I can work it from the prostate and 'finish cumming' without having a full orgasm which results in a big oozing stream for 10 seconds.
4. Take a 60 second break, then start jacking it again and I can edge up and ooze another long stream.

Tonight I'm going to see what else I can learn

I would love to give this a try, tonight. Should I have my coffee cup nearby to catch all the cum?

 

[pplwatching]

One thing, my prostate is enlarged already - I'm not a young buck - and I hope that it will still be receptive to this sort of stimulation. Guess I'll find out, eh?

If your prostate is enlarged then I'd strongly suggest talking to your Dr first. One of the concerns about prostate massage is that palpating the gland can metastasize pre-cancerous cells or any infection that might be present. If she gives you the OK then enjoy playing with your toy.

 

[sepulchre52]

A wise if disappointing point. Talk to my doctor, eh? Well, he's not a she (unfortunately). And if possible he's a more curmudgeonly old fart than I. Not sure I want to broach the subject with him - I really don't know how open minded he is. Not very, I'm thinking. Maybe I could approach him in a medical vein; a "would massaging it help the swelling?" sort of thing. I'd hate to have to find another doctor. I don't live near a large city any more so pickins are slim, so to speak.

 

[pplwatching]

A wise if disappointing point. Talk to my doctor, eh? Well, he's not a she (unfortunately). And if possible he's a more curmudgeonly old fart than I. Not sure I want to broach the subject with him - I really don't know how open minded he is. Not very, I'm thinking. Maybe I could approach him in a medical vein; a "would massaging it help the swelling?" sort of thing. I'd hate to have to find another doctor. I don't live near a large city any more so pickins are slim, so to speak.

Sorry to be a buzzkill. I'll offer a suggestion to make up for it : There's been a gazillion TV shows and Internet articles about women slipping in a finger to massage the prostate during a BJ to spice things up. You might try saying, "We've seen this tip all over the place and want to know if it's okay to try it with my condition." He might be a curmudgeon but if he's a professional he'll field the question and be glad his patient felt he could ask. You could ask "Would it help the swelling" but he might just answer "no" and not give you anything useful in the way of an answer. :-(

Good luck

 

[sepulchre52]

Hey, that's pretty good. I might be able to ask it that way. See, it's not really what he thinks that matters... okay some, but it's what I have the courage to ask. Guess I need to make an appointment.

Thanks!

 

[thinkmanthink]

Don't be discouraged if the results are not instantaneous. A lot of trying and frustration can suddenly give way to a surprising and intense orgasm. The last time I had a prostate induced orgasm I thought I was just warming myself up, then I started bucking a bit uncontrollably and ended up whipping out a huge shower of cum all over the place ( I am usually pretty clean, so this freaked me out a little bit.)

 

[Mr.G]

Safety

I completely concur with the call to CAUTION if the prostate COULD be infected or cancerous. Get checked prior to any pokin around down there.

I would also caution BEGINNERS AWAY from the use of toys. A finger works fine, reaches the proper area with no problem but MOST importantly the poker can FEEL what they are hitting and how hard so they don't have to fully rely on the pokee to tell them where and how hard. The prostate is an ORGAN and poking it too hard can do damage. With a toy you just can't feel where the tip is. With a finger you can.

Have a bowl of soapy water nearby or some alcohol to disinfect fingers if they aren't covered in rubber gloves. Some love the feel of skin on skin and others are squeamish of what may be lurking up there and feel better in gloves. Whatever turns you crank but stay away from TOYS, PROBES, VIBRATORS etc etc etc at least until you know where the prostate is EXACTLY and how hard it can be rubbed or poked and you will only get that from fingers and feedback.

 

[sepulchre52]

Okay, it takes forever to get in to see my doctor but I have made an appointment. But I must relate that when he told me (yes, 'he' ) it was enlarged - he did the exam, and a thorough one it was - he said it was normal enlargement for my age and not to worry about it being cancerous.

Searching online I could find nothing about any dangers of massage, barring infection or cancer, of course. In fact there are those who consider massage a treatment for it. Apparently there are doctors that offer such treatment. It is my most sincere hope that, first of all, I will be cleared for take off, and secondly, that I can figure a way to entice my wife to, er, help out with my health.... in a very sexy way. She has come around a bit to the idea of using toys - we've tried out hers with great success but not mine.. yet. So perhaps if I play my cards just right she may oblige me after all. We both work in the health industry, sort of (we're caregivers for disabled folks) and as such we have a long familiarity with gloves and their use. And once she does it is my hope that she will derive a degree of pleasure from it as well. I have been hearing you ladies correctly, have I not, that you do enjoy doing this for (or to ) your man?

So please wish me luck at the doctor's office... and in the bedroom. I think I may need it more in the latter than the former. If there are any suggestions in that area I would certainly welcome them.

And I'd like to thank those here for having this forum and particularly this thread. I don't know if I would have ever come to this point without you all. Thanks!

 

[habilis]

Thank you for a more in depth description of what I should try for. I really appreciate.. and can't wait to try it out!!!

The thing to remember is that, once your finger(s) or toy are in his butt, the prostate is TOWARDS THE BELLY-BUTTON. It is funny to see milking vids where she is pressing fingers or a toy toward his spine. There is nothing there, but the anus is rich with nerve-endings, so you will get some response, but it's not milking the prostate.

 

[Mr.G]

Yup

""It is funny to see milking vids where she is pressing fingers or a toy toward his spine. ""

Same thing with many of the G-SPOT videos. There are one or two that appear accurate but most of them don't have a clue what they're doing. They must be university researchers working on gvmnt grants. Those dudes need to get out of their fucking ( imagine that? The proper use of the word for once) labs and actually DO some stuff.

sepulchre52 suggested that massage may actually be a treatment. I have mentioned that a few times earlier in this thread. The problem with prostates when they get old(er) is that the pores into the urethra plug up and the fluid collects and festers. This comes from greasy foods and inactivity. Men with jobs where the prostate is rattled generally have a lower number of problems hence if you have a partner who is willing to get in there and make sure it gets rubbed the wrong way, squished, vibrated, poked and massaged then the fluids drain, the pores open and all that fluid that needs to be replaced by fresh stuff gets done.

Besides it is load s of fun and gives the guy a feeling like he is just about to cum (almost as good as the actual orgasm) for an hour or more if you're with a truly evil woman who likes to tease.

 

[sepulchre52]

Excellent news! My Doc says my prostate is no longer enlarged, at least not nearly as much as it was a year ago. He also said a little stimulation would not be a bad thing as long as it's not too rough - no bruising, etc. He's a bit conservative so he didn't go overboard on the therapeutic value of it, but he certainly didn't rule it out.

So now to gently nudge my wife in the right direction a little at a time. Maybe she will come around to the idea. She knows I like anal stimulation but she's not too thrilled about it.

 

[pplwatching]

Excellent news! My Doc says my prostate is no longer enlarged, at least not nearly as much as it was a year ago. He also said a little stimulation would not be a bad thing as long as it's not too rough - no bruising, etc.

That is excellent news, both on the size and the green light for a little bit of massage play! I hope the two of you can find a way to add it to your play.

 

[Mr.G]

HAPPY NEW YEAR (and a wee BUMP)

For my 2nd fav thread.

Hope you ALL have a HAPPY HEALTHY SAFE and PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR

 

[jakereeder22]

Bcncmckckkfidid

 

[LockedDarius]

This is actually one of my goals for myself as I embark on some chastity experimentation. I got my first chastity device this week and I'm trying to wear it more and more each day to get used to it. (I still haven't slept in it or worn it to work, but those days are coming.)

My goal is to get to 7 days and then milk myself to see what it's like. I've heard that it's a very unique sensation...a mix of a weak orgasm and peeing. The reason I'm doing this in conjunction with chastity is so there is no temptation during the milking to play with myself, turning it into a regular orgasm.

Wish me luck, and if anyone has any tips, let me know.

 

[Mr.G]

Darius. Like most things sexual it feels good by yourself but almost everything feels a LOT better with a partner. Your goal should be to find a partner who can "play you" like a familiar guitar! The feeeling really is quite spectacular.

Good luck.

 

[Ngata]

Excellent news! My Doc says my prostate is no longer enlarged, at least not nearly as much as it was a year ago. He also said a little stimulation would not be a bad thing as long as it's not too rough - no bruising, etc. He's a bit conservative so he didn't go overboard on the therapeutic value of it, but he certainly didn't rule it out.

So now to gently nudge my wife in the right direction a little at a time. Maybe she will come around to the idea. She knows I like anal stimulation but she's not too thrilled about it.

if your wife doesn't cooperate for whatever reason, I would suggest researching which sensual massage providers in your area provide prostate service. Where I live there are quite a number of them that give a fantastic 'happy ending' massage that includes a prostate massage

 

[Mr.G]

Just A Wee

** BUMP **

I like to keep my two fav threads close to each other. MANY MANY women when their partners go to the trouble of discovering the where and HOW of G-SPOTS and MULTIPLES want / NEEED to pay him back some how and THIS technique is about as close as they're gonna get without killin him.

 

[Que]

I wonder if this thread and it's companion above wouldn't have been better off in the How To, rather then lurking here in the cafe?

 

[RedheadedSlutL]

This one i can't see. My guy would definitely freak at the idea and honestly i am not sure it has appeal for me...It sounds like it feels good and i can get why it would but unless my guy that was really enthusiastic...i can't see bringing it up.

 

[Mr.G]

This one i can't see. My guy would definitely freak at the idea and honestly i am not sure it has appeal for me...It sounds like it feels good and i can get why it would but unless my guy that was really enthusiastic...i can't see bringing it up.

Many guys would freak. Lotsa posts re: "I ain't no queer."

MY response to that is that if your partner has no penis but does have breasts what the two of you do is NOT homosexuality. Dumb idea that stimulating ONE part of ANY guy's bod will mysteriously "make" him gay!

If he's one of them. Fine. His loss.

For couples who are secure in themselves and into making each other feel good then it is something I recommend. It is a somewhat weird feeling when it first happens but once that prostate gets excited it is hard to feel anything other than WOW!!

It produces a feeling that most guys have the last 15 seconds or so right before they cum - and that's a GOOD thing. If his partner can stretch THAT feeling out for 10 - 15 or 30 minutes HE is gonna have one memorable orgasm when that does happen.

Psychologically there is also a bit of weirdness for most guys because he is the one being penetrated and the even minor (finger or dildo) intrusion will provide the experience that usually ONLY she experiences during sex. Like I said it is NOT a GAY experience if you're with your wife or girlfriend. It just gives a different perspective to what usually happens and that, in itself, can be hugely exciting on a mental level - let alone the feelings being produced by that finger!

 

[Mr.G]

Some

GOOD GRAPHICS FOR THE FANS.

http://prostatemilking.tumblr.com/

 

[rod43]

This was a great post, Mr. GGG. By bumping this, I hope we can get some more contributions to this thread, more firsthand experiences.

As a newbie to this thread I can only say that I wished I had read this about 40 years ago! Kudos to you Arden and GGG!

 

[Byteman]

well... if u cant some one needs to tell my Princess...

 

[awired50]

From our blog "By this time I am moaning and flinching uncontrollably and I can feel the rising up my cock.
She continues to coax me and tell me not to rush myself and enjoy the ride.

At this point I am bucking and lifting myself up from the bed, She is watching the head of my cock anticipating my orgasm.

I cross over the edge and the fluid starts to flow from the head. Not shooting like a regular ejaculation but more oozing and overflowing in copious amounts.

She continues her tugging and pushing through my orgasm .I lay still and enjoy the waves and vibrations for another five minutes or so after the fluid had stopped flowing."