Mouth, Swallowing -vs- marking my body w/his release...

Contary to some advices I don't think something forced would work.
I do think, however, that it is a mental problem.

But there might be something you could try anyway.
You didn't mention how you think about deep throath. And it doesn't matter if you like this kind of play.
But the training methods for getting over the gag reflex might work in your favor. Plus you can do this without your husband. Even next to the toilet at first maybe.
 
Doctor, Doctor, i need some medicine!

ahhhhhhhhhhhhh

okay. that's out of my system. on a serious note, i can sympathize with the OP. having a strong gag reflex is not fun at times. i will refrain from the bad stories. all i know is that if i can do it, and learn to love it, i have faith you can as well. the mental aversions can be overcome with lots of play therapy. my vote is for just deciding that you are going to swallow, get to it, relax a little, and..... swallow. don't stall. go after it. drink that cock! you can do it!
 
much appreciated...

The advice that I managed to 'weed' out of the posts were much appreciated and I can't thank you all enough for reading and taking the time to post... and even the sick bastards that seemed to enjoy the biased unkind posts... I get it, different strokes-different folks...

I also DO understand to many I am being childish, anything you've thought and said, I've thought it ALL myself, times 100... and I'm a big girl and know it's time to put my big girl panties on and just get over it... I suppose it's possible I just needed to be heard... understood and made fun of too; although I am not one to react kindly to being made fun of... just my personality.

As for weather I am a Dom or a Sub... that's difficult to say, as of now, I seem to want to try both ends, however, I do find myself being more "top" then not. I want some control, however, I definitely want it taken from me as well. I have introduced myself, just days ago as being relatively new to this lifestyle... okay, well, maybe not "new" but understanding that I have a label... prior I just assumed I was wrong or tried to push certain feelings down... obviously it didn't work and when I hit my peak, or rather the beginning of it (mid-30's) I started to explore and my curious, gotta know mind started discovering there was this world I had no clue I fit into like a missing puzzle piece fits that certain puzzle... I know pretty cliche` but... it's it TRUE!

I am not trying to make excuses for myself; hence why I was and am grateful for all posts... even (like I already said) the ones that weren't quite as useful as others might have been.

AND... my apologies for missing the #3 post... my oversight; I only have myself to blame for that miss... and the fact that I am and was on a lack of sleep bender... I am an insomniac and after a very long weekend I wasn't running on all cylinders... so thank you for pointing that out.

again... thank you. I am unsure if anyone is curious or not... but when I DO get this handled in the way I see fit ( and I WILL ), I will definitely update further...
 
This thread is just outstanding. I don't know what's more entertaining to contemplate.

A - a pervy twist on The Taming of the Shrew (everything laced with jizz, she'll cave when she gets hungry enough), or

B - slow grin. "What's so funny?" "Did you enjoy your salad, dear?"


A.

Please.

:devil:
 
The advice that I managed to 'weed' out of the posts were much appreciated and I can't thank you all enough for reading and taking the time to post... and even the sick bastards that seemed to enjoy the biased unkind posts... I get it, different strokes-different folks...

I also DO understand to many I am being childish, anything you've thought and said, I've thought it ALL myself, times 100... and I'm a big girl and know it's time to put my big girl panties on and just get over it... I suppose it's possible I just needed to be heard... understood and made fun of too; although I am not one to react kindly to being made fun of... just my personality.

As for weather I am a Dom or a Sub... that's difficult to say, as of now, I seem to want to try both ends, however, I do find myself being more "top" then not. I want some control, however, I definitely want it taken from me as well. I have introduced myself, just days ago as being relatively new to this lifestyle... okay, well, maybe not "new" but understanding that I have a label... prior I just assumed I was wrong or tried to push certain feelings down... obviously it didn't work and when I hit my peak, or rather the beginning of it (mid-30's) I started to explore and my curious, gotta know mind started discovering there was this world I had no clue I fit into like a missing puzzle piece fits that certain puzzle... I know pretty cliche` but... it's it TRUE!

I am not trying to make excuses for myself; hence why I was and am grateful for all posts... even (like I already said) the ones that weren't quite as useful as others might have been.

AND... my apologies for missing the #3 post... my oversight; I only have myself to blame for that miss... and the fact that I am and was on a lack of sleep bender... I am an insomniac and after a very long weekend I wasn't running on all cylinders... so thank you for pointing that out.

again... thank you. I am unsure if anyone is curious or not... but when I DO get this handled in the way I see fit ( and I WILL ), I will definitely update further...


Nobody's making fun of you

:)

I really do hope that you get it sorted out.. and also think you just need to associate it with something positive, to undo/replace that negative association. You'll get there.
 
He can blast her across the face all well and good and messy (you know, with droplets in her eye lashes, a bit in her hair, something on and/or in her ear, then she can take her right index finger (as her left hand is still holding his cock), rub his jizz into her face a little bit and then lick her finger clean. As she gets used to it, she can lick up more and more.

That's an interesting one.

I love swallowing...... but give the jizz two seconds to cool on skin/whatever, and I will NOT want it anywhere near my mouth.

Hot from the cock and straight into my mouth is wonderful. Anything else and it's an icky cold slimy thing.
 
The advice that I managed to 'weed' out of the posts were much appreciated and I can't thank you all enough for reading and taking the time to post... and even the sick bastards that seemed to enjoy the biased unkind posts... I get it, different strokes-different folks...

I also DO understand to many I am being childish, anything you've thought and said, I've thought it ALL myself, times 100... and I'm a big girl and know it's time to put my big girl panties on and just get over it... I suppose it's possible I just needed to be heard... understood and made fun of too; although I am not one to react kindly to being made fun of... just my personality.

As for weather I am a Dom or a Sub... that's difficult to say, as of now, I seem to want to try both ends, however, I do find myself being more "top" then not. I want some control, however, I definitely want it taken from me as well. I have introduced myself, just days ago as being relatively new to this lifestyle... okay, well, maybe not "new" but understanding that I have a label... prior I just assumed I was wrong or tried to push certain feelings down... obviously it didn't work and when I hit my peak, or rather the beginning of it (mid-30's) I started to explore and my curious, gotta know mind started discovering there was this world I had no clue I fit into like a missing puzzle piece fits that certain puzzle... I know pretty cliche` but... it's it TRUE!

I am not trying to make excuses for myself; hence why I was and am grateful for all posts... even (like I already said) the ones that weren't quite as useful as others might have been.

AND... my apologies for missing the #3 post... my oversight; I only have myself to blame for that miss... and the fact that I am and was on a lack of sleep bender... I am an insomniac and after a very long weekend I wasn't running on all cylinders... so thank you for pointing that out.

again... thank you. I am unsure if anyone is curious or not... but when I DO get this handled in the way I see fit ( and I WILL ), I will definitely update further...
Not making fun of you, just a bunch of pervy bastards having fun on your thread.

Since it doesn't seem likely that your husband will step up to the plate, you'll have to figure this out on your own. Can't offer any suggestions, as I've never swallowed the stuff myself! But there are some fine females cheering you on here. Heed their advice, and best of luck.
 
Y'all are a bunch sick fucks!

That's why I like hanging out here! *LOL* :D
 
The advice that I managed to 'weed' out of the posts were much appreciated and I can't thank you all enough for reading and taking the time to post... and even the sick bastards that seemed to enjoy the biased unkind posts... I get it, different strokes-different folks...

I also DO understand to many I am being childish, anything you've thought and said, I've thought it ALL myself, times 100... and I'm a big girl and know it's time to put my big girl panties on and just get over it... I suppose it's possible I just needed to be heard... understood and made fun of too; although I am not one to react kindly to being made fun of... just my personality.

As for weather I am a Dom or a Sub... that's difficult to say, as of now, I seem to want to try both ends, however, I do find myself being more "top" then not. I want some control, however, I definitely want it taken from me as well. I have introduced myself, just days ago as being relatively new to this lifestyle... okay, well, maybe not "new" but understanding that I have a label... prior I just assumed I was wrong or tried to push certain feelings down... obviously it didn't work and when I hit my peak, or rather the beginning of it (mid-30's) I started to explore and my curious, gotta know mind started discovering there was this world I had no clue I fit into like a missing puzzle piece fits that certain puzzle... I know pretty cliche` but... it's it TRUE!

I am not trying to make excuses for myself; hence why I was and am grateful for all posts... even (like I already said) the ones that weren't quite as useful as others might have been.

AND... my apologies for missing the #3 post... my oversight; I only have myself to blame for that miss... and the fact that I am and was on a lack of sleep bender... I am an insomniac and after a very long weekend I wasn't running on all cylinders... so thank you for pointing that out.

again... thank you. I am unsure if anyone is curious or not... but when I DO get this handled in the way I see fit ( and I WILL ), I will definitely update further...

i'm glad you posted, and i have loved the thread. i may get a bit enthusiastic about the topic. :eek: it's um.... one of my favorite things. swallowing and being splatter painted. i really wish you the best of luck. i'm looking forward to the updates!
 
That's an interesting one.

I love swallowing...... but give the jizz two seconds to cool on skin/whatever, and I will NOT want it anywhere near my mouth.

Hot from the cock and straight into my mouth is wonderful. Anything else and it's an icky cold slimy thing.

I am in complete agreement on this.

Tolerability and jism are tied to whether it's warm or not.
 
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Have you thought of licking his cum off of him or your fingers? That way you can control your intake...

ugh! hot from the source please! cold cum is like warm beer.

Just dubious that I'm going to get along with someone who has a hard time satisfying me in a way that's important to me.

is swallowing really ~that~ crucial to a relationship?

Or one of those O-ring gags with teeth protectors that force and hold the mouth open. Restrain her and just O in her mouth until she gets used to it.

that is actually really really hot. I don't know why, but the idea turns me on.
A shot glass with a little bit of neutral-flavored oil, like canola, serves the purpose. With the added lubrication, the live seed won't stick to the glass, but just go down smooth like a raw egg.

*pukes*

Who let the pervs out!?

you did, you sick fucker!

as to the bones of the OP, I tend to gag as well but with practice if you can get it right far in the back of the throat, like bunny and rosco said, you don't taste it. it's a matter of practice getting the angle right and those more pointy cocks are much easier because you can deepthroat better than if it's thicker at the end. even so, a good tilting head angle can ensure it goes past the mouth and also reduces the gag reflex. It takes practice but once you get the hang it's not hard.

Also pineapple, strawberries and bananas make for more tasty cum as does a veggie diet and not smoking or drinking too much.
 
is swallowing really ~that~ crucial to a relationship?
All kidding aside: Yes. At least in my case. If you can't take my essence, how am I supposed to believe that you'll go the extra mile to please me?

It's an important symbol.



Also pineapple, strawberries and bananas make for more tasty cum as does a veggie diet and not smoking or drinking too much.
I've tested this empirically with a talented oralist, one of those "oenophile oralists" I described above. Cutting out alcohol reduced the bitterness somewhat, but none of the other recommended changes, including fruit and vegetarian diet, seemed to make any difference. I'd like my cum to taste fine and sweet, but looks like it ain't gonna happen.
 
All kidding aside: Yes. At least in my case. If you can't take my essence, how am I supposed to believe that you'll go the extra mile to please me?

It's an important symbol..

I think I get this and I'm willing to bet a lot of men of a purely vanilla persuasion would feel much the same.

I know that any man who was weird about licking my pussy if I had the temerity to get juiced up.... well, I would feel somehow rejected/alienated from him.
 
I think I get this and I'm willing to bet a lot of men of a purely vanilla persuasion would feel much the same.

I know that any man who was weird about licking my pussy if I had the temerity to get juiced up.... well, I would feel somehow rejected/alienated from him.

That's exactly it. I don't want to over-verbalize it because it's an emotional instinct, but when a woman milks a man lovingly with her mouth and takes his (let's admit it, rather foul) seed into her body, she's accepting his insides, his nasty side, his gnarly essence. Not only accepting but coaxing it out. It all has a spiritual dimension to me. Like you say, the opposite of alienated.

Some say I just talk a good game in order to get my jazz swallowed but to them I say pfooey. What do fools know of the true intimacy of oral service?
 
All kidding aside: Yes. At least in my case. If you can't take my essence, how am I supposed to believe that you'll go the extra mile to please me?

It's an important symbol.




I've tested this empirically with a talented oralist, one of those "oenophile oralists" I described above. Cutting out alcohol reduced the bitterness somewhat, but none of the other recommended changes, including fruit and vegetarian diet, seemed to make any difference. I'd like my cum to taste fine and sweet, but looks like it ain't gonna happen.


I knew a guy who wouldn't ever have oral because he considered all sperm to be sacred and the only place it could go was in the cunt.

and strawberries and pineapple have made a distinct and noticeable difference in three vessels of ejaculate. maybe yours just tastes as good as it can?
 
Evil Geoff said:
Y'all are a bunch sick fucks!

That's why I came in here. Now I am one amongst many.

Kybele said:
strawberries and pineapple have made a distinct and noticeable difference in three vessels of ejaculate

How so? Sweeter? Thinner? What? Details!


I know what garlic does. Ew. Kills off desire.
 
I knew a guy who wouldn't ever have oral because he considered all sperm to be sacred and the only place it could go was in the cunt.

and strawberries and pineapple have made a distinct and noticeable difference in three vessels of ejaculate. maybe yours just tastes as good as it can?

Here's my theory on that: you don't put the wine and the wafer up your snatch, do you?

No, you kneel before the priest and take them orally.
 
There is a photo of me tied to the bed on my back, with him kneeling over me and fucking my mouth, deep. He took it and it's a sort-of blowee's-eye-view of it. An aerial shot, if you will, and wonderfully symmetrical.

If only I didn't want to be anonymous I'd post it on the oral servitude thread.
 
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