national identity....

[Xelebes]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: national identity....

Are you implying he has the fastest hand in the west?

No. The fastest hand down south.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Fast FU

No. The fastest hand down south.

South of where ... our shared border, the equator, which?

 

[Xelebes]

Re: Fast FU

South of where ... our shared border, the equator, which?

Down south, down under, same thing.

 

[NCShin]

Maybe you were not informed well when you were in Japan.

Actually all classical housewives in Japan appear to be obedient, but that is only a matter of formalism and has nothing to do with reality. This fact appears to be absolutely irrelevant.

Much more imporant is that we get trained to do every thing perfect and also to be perfect in perception and in enjoying. This is while when you find a real sub, then she is perfect. but dont be blinded by mere conventions

ok, guess that there is no submissiveness in "being trained" to do something perfectly....

anyway....

I think that the point of the thread was to get outsider's views of countries other than thier own. You might not see how submissive women in japan are compared to other countries since to you, it's just how it is.

 

[LunarKitten]

I think cultures can lean in certain directions.

Having lived in Japan for a number of years and seeing thier culture it's easy to see how submissive and subservient women are there. At the same time they have a major reputation of "topping from the bottom" too.

visiting Oz, I'd say that the men there are in general more dominant than men in the US, but I don't think I'd say that the women are any more or less submissive.

As for inside the actual BDSM scenes, I couldn't say. I only went to one fetish club in Sydney and nothing like that in Japan.

Master agrees about the Japanese women lol He lived there for a few years...but he says there are houses there you can go to for play. You have to know the right people to get in though - he trained in Shibari there

 

[LunarKitten]

Re: Re: national identity....

Oi! Just because my hair sticks up in the mornings... *mutter mutter*

I actually find that comment a little ironic, as the last woman I played with decided she didn't want to play anymore as I wasn't scary enough. Go figure.

Psst...that's cause your a Kiwi, not an Aussie *runs and hides*

 

[LunarKitten]

*loosing hope and sobbing into my keyboard *
xx

Maybe one will migrate there to your part of the world

 

[LunarKitten]

I am curious to know what catagory you all put canadians. Just from another country's perspective.

Eh?

Ya'll are cool...just like Americans, with a different accent...

*runs and hides cause she knows a girl from the Mags who would kick my butt for that comment lol*

 

[LunarKitten]

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Nope, i didn't paddle her. I played with her when I was recovering from a migraine, and really wasn't up to much. So I spanked her, but not terribly hard. And there wasn't a repeat engagement, so I never got to beat her pretty backside for saying that about me.

I get playful with Master when he doesn't feel well...but I'd never expect him to "play" with me when he is You're supposed to take care of them when they're not up to speed, not expect them to "do you"

 

[LunarKitten]

who

Don't know him....but I know his cousin, What

 

[LunarKitten]

Hmmm German and Italian men...born with it.

I agree

 

[Slut_loves_pain]

being the sexually underdeveloped country

that NZ is, I find a proliferation of wanna be's who think they're domme's when all they've ever had was a kinky fantasy.
I've also found especially down south where I am an incredible underground and I mean 50 miles underground culture of D/s relationships that you just about have to get a map, instructions, clues and have a password tapped out to get into.
Domme's real ones in this country are very very good and take a lot of time to inform and educate themselves in my opinion.
Another weird thing, every local Dom I've met has been into rope play, a coincidence????
Subs, dont know any. I'm the only female sub I know. Met a few males but nope, just me.

 

[FungiUg]

Re: being the sexually underdeveloped country

that NZ is, I find a proliferation of wanna be's who think they're domme's when all they've ever had was a kinky fantasy.

I try to make the distinction between "Dommes" and "Dominant women". They're not always the same thing (I feel) -- my partner, for example, being the latter but not the former.

Another weird thing, every local Dom I've met has been into rope play, a coincidence????

I'm not keen on rope play -- much prefer leather restraints. But maybe that's because I'm a Jafa?

Subs, dont know any. I'm the only female sub I know. Met a few males but nope, just me.

I've chatted to a few subs from "down south", so they are there.

 

[Miss Diva]

I am curious to know what catagory you all put canadians. Just from another country's perspective.

Being a Canadian I wondered about that also. I always feel we are like sheep. Just follow and don't complain and do as you are told.

But then again we are at the forefront of many social issues like legalizing gay marriages. Yay Canada!!

 

[Etoile]

Maybe you were not informed well when you were in Japan.

Or maybe you misunderstand what NCShin meant? I thought the issue was just the general subservience of Japanese women, not the quality of Japanese subs.

 

[Etoile]

from observation it seems to me that Daddy Doms are far more common in america than anywhere else.

Hmm, really? I know of several Daddies (of all genders) in Australia and Western Europe.

 

[witcha]

Re: Re: national identity....

Hmm, really? I know of several Daddies (of all genders) in Australia and Western Europe.

Western Europe?? *suddenly wakes up* and out of curiousity....where exactly do they live???









witcha

 

[graceanne]

Re: Re: national identity....

Hmm, really? I know of several Daddies (of all genders) in Australia and Western Europe.

Now you've done it. lol And how many PM's have you recieved since posting this asking where all those daddy dom's are hiding?

 

[Etoile]

Re: Re: Re: national identity....

Now you've done it. lol And how many PM's have you recieved since posting this asking where all those daddy dom's are hiding?

Heh! None, actually, just witcha's comment above.

I guess you just have to know where to look...