Natural Reactions

[lil_slave_rose]

This is true too. Good point. Hehe, ok, i take back my last 2 comments.

Whether something is fair or not depends on what the individuals themselves deem as fair. i still don't think that the shivering example is very NICE but it is FAIR because technically i would be going against his demand if i didn't stop shivering. Disobeying a command deserves punishment. If my Dom decides that some offense is punishable, i will accept that as his submissive.

i think in the 'shivering' example, it's not 'fair' in the sense it doesn't seem at that point He's taking care of His properties needs. it is a natural reaction and if she is cold enough to be shivering, (for me it takes a lot) then maybe He needs to make sure she is ok, or stop the 'play' until she is warmed a little. *shrugs* maybe this comes from me having a more nurturing Dom but i would think if shes' cold enough to shiver, then she's cold enough to potentially become sick.

 

[lne_iii]

great thread, especially enjoyed your latest post mis.

 

[Etoile]

Aren't most mindfucks based on some sort of lie? i heard about someone else (here on lit, i think) who was told that she was being released even though she wasn't. It was a mindfuck. It was a lie. Mindfucks don't work without lying in one form or another, right?

Yeah, that was probably me. It was indeed based on a lie, and it did indeed suck royally.

I am also enjoying this thread.