new 18/f sub/slave.

[MisterSir]

They are drinking earlier and having sex earlier. So they know earlier about the risk of ice cubes in their ass. Simple.

Oh TV Tropes, how I love you sometimes.

 

[00Syd]

Hey, I think everyone should watch this video of a very smart guy I know's presentation called "Sexual Adultism: The tragedy of youth sexual oppression." It can be found here: http://vimeo.com/7783159

I think it touches on some issues that have come up in this thread, and could be enlightening for some.

 

[JMohegan]

Hello Everyone.
My name is Katherine Elizabeth or Kate
Im 18 yrs old.

Im new on here and just wanted to get to know people that share the same sexual taste as I do. Or if there is a master out there looking for a new slave, Im more than willing.

also, Im a sadomasochist.
no pain = no pleasure
If that helps any.

Assuming this is all sincerely presented, my reaction to the "no pain = no pleasure" comment is to assume: 1 - that Katherine has never been involved in an emotionally intimate relationship in which profound emotional expression may render tender loving episodes physically fantastic, and 2 - that apart from any relationship issues, Katherine's only pleasurable fucking to date has involved some measure of SM. Spanking, clamps, whatever.

None of that seems far-fetched for an 18 year old female.

Of course, fucking and sustaining a relationship are two different things. It seems highly unlikely to me that an 18 year old has any real conception of what it means to give up control in a broader relationship context, and even less likely that said 18 year old is ready/willing to commit to non-bedroom responsibilities inherent in most adult, non-Internet, control-based relationships.

So what? Let her do whatever the heck it is that self-identified M/s college kids do with each other these days. Her expectations, interests, and focus will shift right along with her life experiences. Same as they did for all of us.

 

[00Syd]

So what? Let her do whatever the heck it is that self-identified M/s college kids do with each other these days. Her expectations, interests, and focus will shift right along with her life experiences. Same as they did for all of us.

Right on!

I wish that more people would just let the natural processes of learning and exploring happen, rather than shutting the young down by telling them that they are too young to be trying this stuff, or that they don't know what they want, etc. Everyone has to figure it all out somehow, and the one way of doing that is, simply, doing it.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

... So what? Let her do whatever the heck it is that self-identified M/s college kids do with each other these days. Her expectations, interests, and focus will shift right along with her life experiences. Same as they did for all of us.

Bravo!

 

[kinkyging]

You? I doubt this, too.



They are drinking earlier and having sex earlier. So they know earlier about the risk of ice cubes in their ass. Simple.

ouch. i guess you read that thread.

without using me as an example (and my dumb mistake with sharp ice cubes), your answers seem to contradict each other a little? so they do know earlier? or don't they? obviously i shouldn't have used myself as an example.

 

[Firebrain]

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[Velvet Bubbles]

Welcome, Kate. Good luck. Be safe. Have fun. And don't forget to go read the library. And ask questions! After the FAQ. I'd tell you to feel free to PM me, but I'm not on here so much of late. So you might not get a response for a year! <blushes>