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Bellatrixie
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I am Bellatrixie, 38 years old, Canadian and mom to four kids. I have recently woken up to the fact that I am submissive and have been discussing some of my wants/desires with my husband of thirteen years but I am beginning to wonder if he has a dominant bone in his body (and thinking the answer is no...which explains a lot of our issues). So I am stuck currently with trying to decide if this is something I can live with, negotiate for access or move on. In the meantime I read boatloads of erotica (mostly m/m of late) and write when I get the chance. So this is me. Not a troll...definitely not an expert and mostly muddled and confused but I love thinking through the ins and outs of D/s and talking and listening to others talk (okay more of the listening at this point because I feel like I have limited ideas to offer).
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stormyrhaine
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hi, i'm mistie! 40yo unsatisfied mwf. very much a newbie to bdsm, no o/l or r/l experience and very little knowledge. have recently come to the conclusion something is missing in my life, just not quite sure what that is yet. an email friend told me about this site and i have found that the bdsm stories interest me the most. wanting to learn more and make friends.
niteshade
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Good luck to you, and I hope you enjoy the forums!
I am also married and just within the last year discovered my need to submit. My husband will have no part of this...so I have secretly ventured off on my own. I knew nothing of this lifestyle, but lucky for me I was found by Master John who has patiently taught me and molded me into the sub I am today.
Its not the life for everyone and it can be difficult to manage a secret life...but its not something I want to give up. I feel I was born to do this and I havent regretted it for a moment. Most people will never understand WHY...but I do!
Good luck on your journey
Welcome from another canadian! I imagine 4 little ones keep you guys busy! One thing about being with a person a while is that your tastes may change and if the other doesn't understand or fit into the situation it then makes it tough to deal with. I've come to realize a couple new things in my life and unfortunately my wife doesn't share my excitement about it. She basically tolerates talk about it but would be a lot more enjoyable if she was on board. What's a person to do...
Enjoy the site and the reading, there's lots of great people and stories here! A good thing to keep a person warm with winter right around the corner!
Know a bit and would be glad to help if I can
I have been a Slave for 3 yrs now. I am collared and married the cpl (since I found I was bisexual). If you want to talk mail me. I may not be all knowing yet but I will gladly help when and if I can. I am always trying to talk to my sister about what her role is and how she would be punished less if she would just listen...lol....she is a bit too spunky at times and gets into hot water with our Master.
Tweetyb76
I am a new sub...here to learn and maybe get a little support sometimes. This life can be very confusing.
I have been a Slave for 3 yrs now. I am collared and married the cpl (since I found I was bisexual). If you want to talk mail me. I may not be all knowing yet but I will gladly help when and if I can. I am always trying to talk to my sister about what her role is and how she would be punished less if she would just listen...lol....she is a bit too spunky at times and gets into hot water with our Master.
Tweetyb76
Briana_Rae
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I've been reading BDSM stories here on Literotica.com for over 3 yrs now & just joined the site - just saying hello. I'm not into the extreme but I do crave a guy who can live up to all his big talk. Too many 'all talk / no action' guys out there & the other extreme is usually TOO extreme for me so just checking things out here.
I've been reading BDSM stories here on Literotica.com for over 3 yrs now & just joined the site - just saying hello. I'm not into the extreme but I do crave a guy who can live up to all his big talk. Too many 'all talk / no action' guys out there & the other extreme is usually TOO extreme for me so just checking things out here.
LanceWrite
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I'm a Northern California writer who works in the creative media. Long, long ago - I 'discovered' my Dominant side while indulging in a fling with a student. It was her need to be submissive, that released that persona. In a way, I owe her a debt for that discovery - as we quickly pushed boundaries that - at the time - were new to both of us.
Off and on over the years, the D/s lifestyle has been part of my life. Sometimes I 'leave' it for years. It's been dormant for almost a decade.
Last year, an encounter with a married woman who I sensed needed the release awakened "SIR".
I've come to accept that he will always be a part of my psyche. He informs much of my creative energy - so I'm disinclined to lock him away again.
I found this board through another writer's forum. Enjoying what I'm reading so far. Love to exchange PMs with any subs who would like to discuss their own inner drives. I am especially interested in hearing from Subs who found their submission through early encounters with authority figures. Teachers, coaches, etc.
Off and on over the years, the D/s lifestyle has been part of my life. Sometimes I 'leave' it for years. It's been dormant for almost a decade.
Last year, an encounter with a married woman who I sensed needed the release awakened "SIR".
I've come to accept that he will always be a part of my psyche. He informs much of my creative energy - so I'm disinclined to lock him away again.
I found this board through another writer's forum. Enjoying what I'm reading so far. Love to exchange PMs with any subs who would like to discuss their own inner drives. I am especially interested in hearing from Subs who found their submission through early encounters with authority figures. Teachers, coaches, etc.
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Greetings & salutations from a newbie
Tho I do not subscribe to the slave/Master ethos, I deeply enjoy restraint, 'tortures', toy/device use. Perhaps BSM without the D? Plus I enjoy both roles depending on my mood and need at a given moment. Being/doing nipple play, tied & stretched, forced acts and such are high on my activities list. TMI?
Tho I do not subscribe to the slave/Master ethos, I deeply enjoy restraint, 'tortures', toy/device use. Perhaps BSM without the D? Plus I enjoy both roles depending on my mood and need at a given moment. Being/doing nipple play, tied & stretched, forced acts and such are high on my activities list. TMI?
DothanMistress
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New to the site
I have been a fan of this site for a while, but have never been to the forums until now! I am enjoying myself so far! I currently live in Dothan, Al and love it here! I am a lifestyle Domme that Loves to write!
I have been a fan of this site for a while, but have never been to the forums until now! I am enjoying myself so far! I currently live in Dothan, Al and love it here! I am a lifestyle Domme that Loves to write!
DothanMistress
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Well thank you FurryFury! I am enjoying myself so far!!
anythinggoes11
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Saying Hi!
27m from Australia, as the name suggests up for anything so ANYTHING GOES!!! New to lit so keen to be taught! Drop me a line if you keen...
27m from Australia, as the name suggests up for anything so ANYTHING GOES!!! New to lit so keen to be taught! Drop me a line if you keen...
myselfn505
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new here also and also feel the same...anything goes.. welcum!
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