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thischainedpet
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Welcome Thischainedpet
It takes a certain number of posts to get your picture to show. I don't remember how many 1-500? Something like that.
Sorry to hear that you are so unhappy in your marriage. Does your husband know this?
I prefer to not give out too many details of my life... But, to answer your question... My husband does know I am unhappy, not the other details... But, as in most cases, there are issues that make it very difficult. Much of my unhappiness is due to the type of life I discovered I desire more than anything in this world... Which is something he does not agree with and has made that clear in the past mentions. He's very v-a-n-i-l-l-a to say the least... maybe a little kink... but not enough to count for anything. If all that makes sense. LoL.
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thischainedpet
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Oh, and thank you for the welcome FurryFury.
FurryFury
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You are welcome. Thanks for answering my question.
I'm not unhappily married but I did discover a need for kink rather late in this marriage. I see so many people who do not tell spouses what they need and just assume they won't or can't provide it. That's why I asked.
In my case, my husband is into kink a little. Mostly not MY kink but that's okay. The contract we made didn't even involve kink because I wasn't self aware enough at that time.
Thankfully, I remember why I married him and each day feel grateful he is in my life at all. We've worked out something that works for us but it's not my highest kink wish or anything like that. Still, it works.
I hope you find what works for you.
FF
I'm not unhappily married but I did discover a need for kink rather late in this marriage. I see so many people who do not tell spouses what they need and just assume they won't or can't provide it. That's why I asked.
In my case, my husband is into kink a little. Mostly not MY kink but that's okay. The contract we made didn't even involve kink because I wasn't self aware enough at that time.
Thankfully, I remember why I married him and each day feel grateful he is in my life at all. We've worked out something that works for us but it's not my highest kink wish or anything like that. Still, it works.
I hope you find what works for you.
FF
Oh, and thank you for the welcome FurryFury.
darlynd
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Hello....
I have spent such a long time on Literotica, but never visited this area of the forums, so... hello.
I was introduced to the lifestyle about 10 years ago, spent my time playing online as a sub. I met a few of my online Masters and even married one.
Sorry, subbies - marrying your Master does not a perfect marriage make.
I enjoy writing and have a couple of stories posted, many more in the vaults that I haven't decided to release, but it is all good.
I am currently divorced, but in a committed relationship who someone who has a strong sense of self and enjoys being the Man. While I have given up on the floggers and canes, it doesn't mean that the mental accuity of submission doesn't live on within me.
I finish my introduction with a quick note of suggestion - Enjoy life with passion and you will find passion in life.
~darlyn d
I have spent such a long time on Literotica, but never visited this area of the forums, so... hello.
I was introduced to the lifestyle about 10 years ago, spent my time playing online as a sub. I met a few of my online Masters and even married one.
Sorry, subbies - marrying your Master does not a perfect marriage make.
I enjoy writing and have a couple of stories posted, many more in the vaults that I haven't decided to release, but it is all good.
I am currently divorced, but in a committed relationship who someone who has a strong sense of self and enjoys being the Man. While I have given up on the floggers and canes, it doesn't mean that the mental accuity of submission doesn't live on within me.
I finish my introduction with a quick note of suggestion - Enjoy life with passion and you will find passion in life.
~darlyn d
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thischainedpet
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You are welcome. Thanks for answering my question.
I'm not unhappily married but I did discover a need for kink rather late in this marriage. I see so many people who do not tell spouses what they need and just assume they won't or can't provide it. That's why I asked.
In my case, my husband is into kink a little. Mostly not MY kink but that's okay. The contract we made didn't even involve kink because I wasn't self aware enough at that time.
Thankfully, I remember why I married him and each day feel grateful he is in my life at all. We've worked out something that works for us but it's not my highest kink wish or anything like that. Still, it works.
I hope you find what works for you.
FF
Yes, true. I wouldn't just assume... although I did for awhile, before I learned that my desires weren't strange. LoL. I've mentioned it to him awhile back, and told him what I like. He even tried a couple of small things and it was disaster in my opinion. He is not naturally sexually dominate AT ALL. He does however have some very twisted contol issues in everyday life situations. I dunno. The whole thing just has made me dislike being around him. I haven't ever come out and told him that I wanted a "lifestyle" of any sort... I figure why bother when I can't even get him to agree on the smaller, and less important, sexual things.
What I desire is very strong, I've felt it since my teen years, and will require a man that is strong in knowing it... and he is NOT. He told me once that he considers all of it to be absolutely degrading to a woman... even if it's what she so badly wants.
I got married young, and at the time was brainwashed by everyone around me that I needed to do it. So, I screwed up the first half of my life, and plan on being happy for the next half... As soon as I can do that in a responsible manner.
Ooooops... Darn it... Seems I've rambled too much. LoL.
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jennifer036
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ok, here goes.
I read literotica, been doing so for a long time. I only recently joined this discussion board. I'm not so computer savvy.
I'm a hygienist, and also do interior design.
I'm 47 and have four children and a wonderful husband. I jog obsessively.
I'm enjoying this board a lot so far. This is a bit of an escape.
I read literotica, been doing so for a long time. I only recently joined this discussion board. I'm not so computer savvy.
I'm a hygienist, and also do interior design.
I'm 47 and have four children and a wonderful husband. I jog obsessively.
I'm enjoying this board a lot so far. This is a bit of an escape.
want24nik8
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Welcome to Lit, Jennifer!
jennifer036
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Thanks. I need to do all that stuff like avatars and signatures and stuff. But I'm not so good at this stuff.
want24nik8
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Well, the av part's not too bad - you just need a picture on your computer somewhere.... I should talk, I don't have one myself yet...
jennifer036
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and did i mention my computer is slow, crap, and crashes?
want24nik8
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Mine's not that speedy either
hey noob here, dont really know all the terms so if i make a mistake please be kind
im a straight 20 yr old guy and kind of a bipolar with bdsm
when it comes to typical regular sex im very controlling and dominating, i love a woman that will suck my cock like im the king. i also love making a woman taste herself off of me (whether it be my fingers cock or mouth covered in her juice)
and i love a woman thatll take a verbal punishment too
BUT i am very turned on by a woman thats willin to take me by the balls (literally) and slap me/them around a bit
but whether im ownin a chick or gettin my balls owned im into slappin scratchin bitin and all that fun stuff
feel free to pm me anytime
im a straight 20 yr old guy and kind of a bipolar with bdsm
when it comes to typical regular sex im very controlling and dominating, i love a woman that will suck my cock like im the king. i also love making a woman taste herself off of me (whether it be my fingers cock or mouth covered in her juice)
and i love a woman thatll take a verbal punishment too
BUT i am very turned on by a woman thats willin to take me by the balls (literally) and slap me/them around a bit
but whether im ownin a chick or gettin my balls owned im into slappin scratchin bitin and all that fun stuff
feel free to pm me anytime
FurryFury
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I understand. I wish you and your men well.
FF
FF
Yes, true. I wouldn't just assume... although I did for awhile, before I learned that my desires weren't strange. LoL. I've mentioned it to him awhile back, and told him what I like. He even tried a couple of small things and it was disaster in my opinion. He is not naturally sexually dominate AT ALL. He does however have some very twisted contol issues in everyday life situations. I dunno. The whole thing just has made me dislike being around him. I haven't ever come out and told him that I wanted a "lifestyle" of any sort... I figure why bother when I can't even get him to agree on the smaller, and less important, sexual things.
What I desire is very strong, I've felt it since my teen years, and will require a man that is strong in knowing it... and he is NOT. He told me once that he considers all of it to be absolutely degrading to a woman... even if it's what she so badly wants.
I got married young, and at the time was brainwashed by everyone around me that I needed to do it. So, I screwed up the first half of my life, and plan on being happy for the next half... As soon as I can do that in a responsible manner.
Ooooops... Darn it... Seems I've rambled too much. LoL. I might be looking at one of these... -----> :caning:
Do I mind...?
FurryFury
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Your av won't work until you post a certain amount something like 100 - 500 posts I think?
thischainedpet
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Soooo... I need some suggestions please... Who has the best smutty, pain-infested, with some degradation stories here on Lit that I can get to reading??? I see many links on your signatures. I've been reading the boards for several months, but haven't got to the writings much. I have a Nook Color that is full of it, but I love reading other's online writings even more sometimes. 
I see many links on your signatures. I've been reading the boards for several months, but haven't got to the writings much. I have a Nook Color that is full of it, but I love reading other's online writings even more sometimes. 
OldGuy1026
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Soooo... I need some suggestions please... Who has the best smutty, pain-infested, with some degradation stories here on Lit that I can get to reading???
Okay I'll bite, take a look at the series.
Inskolaren
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New here.
A 37 year old Dom from Sweden. Been active for maby 15-20 years or so and now run a swedish forum for BDSM people in sweden.
I plan on hanging out here and maby post some pictures and toughts from my adventures.
Should I post BDSM pictures in the amateur section for pictures?
Hope you all having a great day.
A 37 year old Dom from Sweden. Been active for maby 15-20 years or so and now run a swedish forum for BDSM people in sweden.
I plan on hanging out here and maby post some pictures and toughts from my adventures.
Should I post BDSM pictures in the amateur section for pictures?
Hope you all having a great day.
butterfly_flip
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Hi everyone
Whilst not particularly new to Lit, I've only recently ventured into this part of the forum.
I came to Lit to explore my sexuality, to try to find an identity for myself after coming out of an horrible relationship.
I came here hoping that I'd be able to express myself freely, yet I curiously find myself tongue tied alot of the time
Anyway, I wanted to come over and say Hi
Whilst not particularly new to Lit, I've only recently ventured into this part of the forum.
I came to Lit to explore my sexuality, to try to find an identity for myself after coming out of an horrible relationship.
I came here hoping that I'd be able to express myself freely, yet I curiously find myself tongue tied alot of the time
Anyway, I wanted to come over and say Hi
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