New Member Introductions

[Henry]

Welcome to all newer members

 

[OTCurve]

Hi everyone,

I'm a rather quiet 44 year old guy. I like writing, but it always seems to end up erotic (go figure)?? I've read some stories on this site and wow, there are some good authors here, and a great community, so I figured it was time to leave the shadows and say howdy.

Howdy.

 

[Vlish83]

fresh meat lol That needs your advice

Hi everyone, new member long time reader.
I'm 29, live in Australia. Here is my dilemma.
Was with my ex partner since i was 19, broke up around 12 months ago.
In the past 4 months i have started seeing a guy that I've known for a few years ( through work ) and always got along well with. Everything is going smashing apart from one thing......... I cant make him cum!!!
Now i have had lots of sex but not experience because *Dean (new guy) is only my second partner.
We have some hot as hell kinky sex and I've pulled out all my best moves and he has only managed to cum once inside me unaided. *Dean is 23 and has not had a relationship since he was 17, so his reasoning is that he has just gotten so used to making himself cum for so long he finds it hard to keep his consentration while we fuk.
Could this be true? Or is it me? Because "my best moves" worked well on my ex but may be doing nothing for *Dean.
Any tips,tricks or advice would be great.

V
X

 

[SexyLitForAll]

Hi everyone, new member long time reader.
I'm 29, live in Australia. Here is my dilemma.
Any tips,tricks or advice would be great.
X

Well, here's my take...I don't think its anything you are doing (or not). It sounds like he could be very nervous and not self-assured, being in a new relationship after so many years. It may take time for him to adjust. Perhaps more foreplay with his cock will help, getting him off with your hands and mouth. Also, I wonder if he masturbates; perhaps if he practiced on himself that would help.

By the way - judging from your picture, I must say you certainly have the goods to get any man off!

 

[Byron999]

Hi everyone, new member long time reader.
I'm 29, live in Australia. Here is my dilemma.

Any tips,tricks or advice would be great.

V
X

Hi VLish - Welcome to Lit

You may find the article in this link useful

http://www.health.am/sex/more/treatment_of_male_orgasmic_disorder/

PM or IM if you want me to point you to other sources of information (sorry but I can't do so publicly on the site).

 

[OTCurve]

Hi Vlish,

It could be nerves on his part, insecurity maybe (beautiful women can have that effect) so why not let biology give it a try?

Don't let him please himself, while you tease and tantalize him for a few days. Then go for it!

(careful not to go overboard, your pic makes me think you tease and tantalize just by being in the same room!)

 

[hippygirl]

hey

hi,
i use to write story's a while ago and im hoping to return to writing i am looking for some guidance to help me become a better writer can anyone lend me a hand

 

[j737373]

My first post

Recently joined looking for some fun chats and hot stories.
This is my 1st post.

Luv,
Jay

 

[Hubee]

Don't use you best moves

Hi everyone, new member long time reader.
I'm 29, live in Australia. Here is my dilemma.
Was with my ex partner since i was 19, broke up around 12 months ago.
In the past 4 months i have started seeing a guy that I've known for a few years ( through work ) and always got along well with. Everything is going smashing apart from one thing......... I cant make him cum!!!
Now i have had lots of sex but not experience because *Dean (new guy) is only my second partner.
We have some hot as hell kinky sex and I've pulled out all my best moves and he has only managed to cum once inside me unaided. *Dean is 23 and has not had a relationship since he was 17, so his reasoning is that he has just gotten so used to making himself cum for so long he finds it hard to keep his consentration while we fuk.
Could this be true? Or is it me? Because "my best moves" worked well on my ex but may be doing nothing for *Dean.
Any tips,tricks or advice would be great.

V
X

I think he might be suffering a little from performance anxiety. If you focus too much on 'making him cum' and he knows that is what you are doing then it makes it less likely to happen.

Just get in bed together and fool around. Think sensual rather than sexy. Lightly stroke and tickle each other and focus on what responses you get, follow the feedback.

You are both relatively inexperienced and only been together for a while. He may not know exactly what he likes - or he likes something a little unusual (Or he thinks it is 'unusual'- probably isn't) and doesn't know how to tell you.

I don't know how open both of you are - does he know you come here? Show him some of the stories you like (you should get some fun out of this as well) and encourage him to read and tell you what he likes. Or look thru some of the picture threads and each of you comment on what you find exciting.

Let me know how you get on

(had to help a fellow Aussie)

 

[Henry]

Welcome to all newer members

 

[SaucyEroticProductions]

Hey!

Thought it might be only appropriate to post here as well.

Jasmine is my name, and i'll be the one who'll be posting here and so forth as my writing partner is more of a "silent" partner who writes and comes with story ideas grin.

I've been writing this sort of stuff for most of my youth and young adult life, but i thought it might be fun - together with a close friend - to bring some of our stories to "life" on a site such as this. So far our response has been overwhelming, and we're extremely pleased.

Just wanted to formally say hello - Hello!

Hope to hear from you all.

//Jas

 

[dicky911]

Long before I was married I used to love coming on here and reading stories - I also write but nothing ever worth posting. Today I was seeking info about g-spot orgasms and ended up back here at a place I havn't been in years and realized this might just be what I've been seeking.

I'm a student. 34. Married. Female.

I adore my husband, we have a wonderful marriage, but just an okay sex life - and admitedly for me its a little dull. The thing is he shows no interest in changing it - as in he genuinely is good with once a week missionary 20 minutes, from the time we enter the bedroom to bathroom to wash up.
I feel if the fast cum was an olympic event I have been training for it for the last 7 years. I'd be fine with the once a week if it wasn't "wam-bam thank you ma'am"
When I do occasionally suggest attempting anything different he goes along with it, but it feels like he is just placating me and it feels like to me that once he has tried anything I suggest it goes back on the shelf and we go back to the standard. I don't feel the things I'm asking him to attempt are that out there (to be honest I think some of my interests might freak him right out).
I have tried to ask him what would excite him or what would he like to try and I get a shrug.

So basically I guess I have come here to try and get some ideas on how maybe I can talk him into different things (even though I completely hate having to talk him into anything).

have you tried any kinks? or the idea of a threesome? or anal sex? - or just watching porn together?

 

[eric60red]

Long before I was married I used to love coming on here and reading stories - I also write but nothing ever worth posting. Today I was seeking info about g-spot orgasms and ended up back here at a place I havn't been in years and realized this might just be what I've been seeking.

I'm a student. 34. Married. Female.

I adore my husband, we have a wonderful marriage, but just an okay sex life - and admitedly for me its a little dull. The thing is he shows no interest in changing it - as in he genuinely is good with once a week missionary 20 minutes, from the time we enter the bedroom to bathroom to wash up.
I feel if the fast cum was an olympic event I have been training for it for the last 7 years. I'd be fine with the once a week if it wasn't "wam-bam thank you ma'am"
When I do occasionally suggest attempting anything different he goes along with it, but it feels like he is just placating me and it feels like to me that once he has tried anything I suggest it goes back on the shelf and we go back to the standard. I don't feel the things I'm asking him to attempt are that out there (to be honest I think some of my interests might freak him right out).
I have tried to ask him what would excite him or what would he like to try and I get a shrug.

So basically I guess I have come here to try and get some ideas on how maybe I can talk him into different things (even though I completely hate having to talk him into anything).

I understand completely Cornflake. You would be amazed how many feel the same way, I have helped a few ladies, if you would like to discuss just contact me

 

[Ruffian_13]

Hi everyone!

I've been lurking here for a long long time (years?), started when I was looking for erotic fiction one night, got into the stories, and eventually found the message boards. You How-To folks seem very knowledgable and friendly, so I'm looking forward to spending some more time here

 

[Henry]

Howdy and Welcome to all newer members

 

[Superman4978]

Newbie

Hey message board, newbie to the forum here. 32 year old happily married man. Looking for how to advice on MFM threesomes. I have heard horror stories and positive experiences. Just wanting honest advice on finding good partners from those who have been there and done that. Thanks!!

 

[bikoukumori]

Hi. I've been enjoying the stories on the main site for the past few months. Now while I have enjoyed a fair amount, I've found quite a few that could benefit with some editing, leaving me to mentally edit for better understanding. I may not have a lot of professional experience but you try to live in the same house as an english major who shoves knowledge down your throat while helping with school reports. It kinda rubs off regardless of whether you want it to. So here I am, offering editing services while at the same time working on my own story. Hopefully the editing will allow me some familiarity with the submission process and how italics are accepted/used by learning through the actual process of others rather than the faqs. I'm not much of a fan of faqs. I've had some experience with computer programming thanks to a high school class plus I've spent the past few years on a similar forum and thus know the [letter]methods[/letter] of html quite well to the point where I manually input them rather than click buttons.
I'm a bit curious how much the forum interacts with activities done on the main site.

Edit
Came across a few articles after look at the writers' resources page. The two I looked at however used <> instead of [] without any notification which is the proper method or if substitutions were used to show/explain the method. Clarification on which is right or should I go with my gut and experience that says [] is proper?

 

[eric60red]

Literotica do I understand offer to edit any stories that are submitted to them.
They are always looking for new editors. I enjoy them no matter what is wrong in spelling or grammer as long as they are exciting and stimulating. Cant stop I need to cum

 

[rainbowpagan]

Im new to this forum and would like to know how i can post a story??
Im a happily married lesbian that finally came out of the closet after having been married to two men,i also have children im 43 and have been happily married for almost 2 years

 

[tntenniswhiz]

Morning Lit Community!

My name is greg, and have been visiting lit for the stories for years as a guest. loved the creativity, and probably an eroticism that was missing from my personal sex life. it seems quite a few folks here have a similar experience to me, love the person to whom i'm married but frustrated with the sex life. if you can't tell from my id, i'm a tennis guy, working to build the tennis community in my area through teaching ect. haven't seen many members talking bout tennis, maybe i can change that...lots of good sex happens after that last set!!!

i've been reading thru quite a few threads the last couple of weeks since officially joining the community and am amazed at how impressive this community is. i don't want that to sound "elitist", but didn't know that like me, perv doesn't mean ignorant!!! lol

anyway, i'm thrilled to have joined the community,

 

[eric60red]

Im new to this forum and would like to know how i can post a story??
Im a happily married lesbian that finally came out of the closet after having been married to two men,i also have children im 43 and have been happily married for almost 2 years

Welcome rainbow, go to the main menu and click on stories, they give instructions on how to post stories.

Now I am sorry but I am confused, Yur a lesbian who has been married twice, and has come out of the closet, you say happily married for 2 years, now is that to one of the guys, or is it a 3rd person yur married to? Im just curious

 

[jujuloves]

Hello peeps. I'm very new to online sites. Not sure I can keep up but I intend to give it a good try. I'm 44, loove sex, colorful fantasy life, open, naturally happy female.

 

[eric60red]

Hello peeps. I'm very new to online sites. Not sure I can keep up but I intend to give it a good try. I'm 44, loove sex, colorful fantasy life, open, naturally happy female.

Welcum juju, we hope yur stay will be a happy one, if you need a hand to show you around give me a wink

 

[Sand_Storm]

Hello Internet!
My name is Matt, and I've been reading this site for about 2 years now. Only recently built up the courage to post a submission, which has been fairly received for my first effort.
Happily in a relationship with a wonderful and open-minded woman, and currently studying Literature, Creative Writing, Mandarin Chinese and French via correspondence.
I live in South Africa, which is a beautiful country even if it is a backwards 3rd-World technological blackhole that is bordering on a banana republican. Come visit though, we have nice views.
Good to be here, and I really hope my stories will be well received.

 

[babyannne]

I guess I have to start here....

Hi I'm Anne.