Non-sexual intimacy

[Corbie]

I hear you. I finally left an unhappy relationship of 17 years about 4 years ago. No kids, thank goodness. The sex was very vanilla and boring; eventually it turned into a sexless relationship. Now, what I crave is cuddling and romantic closeness more than the sex itself. As I’m getting older, my libido has lessened. What’s more important for me now is closeness. Can anybody else relate?

I could do with cuddling right now and the sex isn't necessary.

 

[Corbie]

Bounce up

 

[cutebak3r512]

I believe most people just need a hug and to just feel seen! And I know for myself that sometimes I come here just to talk and connect in a place where you aren't expected to be someone for everyone else .

 

[Sconnie69]

I believe most people just need a hug and to just feel seen! And I know for myself that sometimes I come here just to talk and connect in a place where you aren't expected to be someone for everyone else .

Well said. I like that.

 

[Boat1]

I'm setting this up for a discussion on Non-sexual Intimacy.

At 58, I have one lady I've known since first grade... Whenever and wherever we see each other, we make a beeline to each other and share the longest, tightest embrace.
It's almost like a "pheromone connection."
It doesn't matter if spouses are present or not, whether it's a class reunion, a funeral, a grandchildrens' sporting event... We will have an embrace that's tight enough and long enough to make people uncomfortable, as evidenced by having had her friends pull us apart before.
In Jr. High, I remember covering her body with mine, as a tornado passed over our school... We've never had sex together, but the intimacy we share is mutually priceless to us.

 

[Corbie]

At 58, I have one lady I've known since first grade... Whenever and wherever we see each other, we make a beeline to each other and share the longest, tightest embrace.
It's almost like a "pheromone connection."
It doesn't matter if spouses are present or not, whether it's a class reunion, a funeral, a grandchildrens' sporting event... We will have an embrace that's tight enough and long enough to make people uncomfortable, as evidenced by having had her friends pull us apart before.
In Jr. High, I remember covering her body with mine, as a tornado passed over our school... We've never had sex together, but the intimacy we share is mutually priceless to us.

That's wonderful.

 

[Corbie]

I moved this weekend. My landlord has to sell the house I was renting from her. She was kind enough to offer me a room in her basement. It's better than nothing for the time being.

I'm feeling very small, lost and alone here also.

I'd love some hugs, but those won't be anytime soon, if ever.

A friend once said waking up in bed next to someone you love/care about is more intimate than sex. I believe that.

 

[Dom70]

I know this is a porn site and all, but I know a lot of us come here because of loneliness.

As much as I post wild comments on a lot of pictures, the thing I could use most right now is just some hugging and touching. No fucking or anything.

Ditto

 

[penshockey1983]

I moved this weekend. My landlord has to sell the house I was renting from her. She was kind enough to offer me a room in her basement. It's better than nothing for the time being.

I'm feeling very small, lost and alone here also.

I'd love some hugs, but those won't be anytime soon, if ever.

A friend once said waking up in bed next to someone you love/care about is more intimate than sex. I believe that.

That last paragraph is so true. There's something intimate about laying there and just touching each other and getting ready for your day.

 

[Boat1]

That last paragraph is so true. There's something intimate about laying there and just touching each other and getting ready for your day.

My Goddess Wife doesn't snore, She "purrs" ever so lightly and beautifully... I can't describe how much I love laying there, holding, spooning, and petting her... listening to her breathe, both, before I go to sleep and when I wake up....
It's as pleasing to me as anything else we do!

 

[Corbie]

Really need some hugs right now.