Not really BDSM but...

[catalina_francisco]

i would suggest talking to him about it. Perhaps he's just never thought to shave/trim short and would be more than willing to do it.


i think i actually fall into the minority of women that prefers to be completely bald but likes men hairy... Just seems more masculine to me. (i know, i know..horrible stereotype...but it's just what "trips my trigger.")

LOL, I thought I was a dying breed...I have successfully encouraged him to grow beard etc., since we have been together (and keep it), and he has grown much more body hair since we got together too and I love it. Never can understand women wanting men to wax....unless of course they are into cross dressing and then it sort of looks better.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

this isnt really bdsm but im not sure where to post

My bf recently sent me a pic of his dick, [online relationship for now] and its really hairy, and he doesnt want to shave because it itches, how can i convince him to shave it

Hmm, I sort of wonder how this is different to your wanting to be accepted for your size...if you really like him, and these days if your going to take risks by being intimate with someone it would be wise to have more than a passing fancy for them, accept them for those attributes which really are a part of their genetic makeup is my thought.

Catalina

 

[HottieMama]

LOL, I thought I was a dying breed...I have successfully encouraged him to grow beard etc., since we have been together (and keep it), and he has grown much more body hair since we got together too and I love it. Never can understand women wanting men to wax....unless of course they are into cross dressing and then it sort of looks better.

Catalina

i think waxed chests on men are one of the non-sexiest things ever. i'm sorry but nothing makes me happier that to rest my head on a man's hairy chest and softly stroke the hair with my fingers. It's soothing to me...but perhaps that also depends on the man it is attached to...

**le sigh**

 

[catalina_francisco]

i think waxed chests on men are one of the non-sexiest things ever. i'm sorry but nothing makes me happier that to rest my head on a man's hairy chest and softly stroke the hair with my fingers. It's soothing to me...but perhaps that also depends on the man it is attached to...

**le sigh**

And taking a deep breathe of that exquisite scent or male flesh and hair combined...but yes, it does depend on the man.

Catalina

 

[HottieMama]

And taking a deep breathe of that exquisite scent or male flesh and hair combined...but yes, it does depend on the man.

Catalina

Mmhhmmm...yeah...exactly....

 

[Netzach]

I thought about it. Then decided I would just viciously abuse them and underpay, and make them thank me for underpaying them so long as I didn't sue them.

I wish un-numbed dentistry on your asshole and his.

 

[rachy91]

Ok... W-O-W

Such a response to this thread, its taken me ages to read everyones comments, For the person who asked, no its not a d's relationship, i have told him im submissive and asked if he wanted to look into a d's relationship but hes kind of not commited yet, but i love him , so ill do anything even though hes not my master and dom i can deal with it (if anyone has any sites for doms, most appreciated)

I understand from many point of views that its considered or can make you feel "not manly" if you shave, so i will talk to him and maybe he will atleast trim, because its like a JUNGLE of hair with him... lol

Homburg your post made me laugh and of course your POV has nothing to do with you being hairy, But hey thats fine!!

Im NOT saying i dont like hairy guys, thats unfair but what i am saying is i dont want a JUNGLE of hair stuck in my throat

and Catalina!!! so wonderfull to see you, i went through your pic thread the other day, very nice photos! Kudos to you....atleast i think it was you annyywaay..., my other thread was probably posted becuase of the mood i was in, when My Bf is ignoring me or we just arent talking i get into those moods and think "he probably dosnt like me anyway" but he tries to convince me i am the most beautifull sexiest girl in the world, which doesnt work for Years of people telling me how ugly i am etc etc. But i do accept people for what they are, as they should me.

Thanks for the comments guys, its been helpful, and i plan to talk to him tonight

Rach

 

[Softouch911]

I started to shave after an unshaven woman wanted me to go down on her, and I had to pick hair out of my teeth ... and I enjoy oral, on her, on me ......

And then I shaved. And I found out the great news .... it makes me more sensitive!

It's a win-win for me.

One easy option to the razor ... a plain ol electric Norelco.

Just saying.
ST

 

[rachy91]

Thanks ST your comments are appreciated!!


I am actually not fully shaved, because i have a fear of shaving my lips and lower for fear of nicking myself, and guess what my bf LOVES my shave job haha, and i told him i wasnt fully and he said "well ill have to fix that when you come here" so i guess soon i will be fully shaved

 

[catalina_francisco]

Thanks ST your comments are appreciated!!


I am actually not fully shaved, because i have a fear of shaving my lips and lower for fear of nicking myself, and guess what my bf LOVES my shave job haha, and i told him i wasnt fully and he said "well ill have to fix that when you come here" so i guess soon i will be fully shaved

Epilators do a wonderful job and you don't have to touch it up for 3 weeks or so.

Catalina

 

[rachy91]

Epilators do a wonderful job and you don't have to touch it up for 3 weeks or so.

Catalina

Whats an Epilator ? I have the interests of a male, and such so i know nothing of make up or shave stuff or w/e or fashion, i buy what fits and looks good and i buy the bare neccesities

 

[catalina_francisco]

Whats an Epilator ? I have the interests of a male, and such so i know nothing of make up or shave stuff or w/e or fashion, i buy what fits and looks good and i buy the bare neccesities

Electrical device which plucks the hairs out.

Catalina

 

[rachy91]

Electrical device which plucks the hairs out.

Catalina

Ooh, and how much do they set you back?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Ooh, and how much do they set you back?

From memory, in Brissie about $50, though it varies depending on size, brand, features etc.

Catalina

 

[rachy91]

From memory, in Brissie about $50, though it varies depending on size, brand, features etc.

Catalina

Well ill be down there soon, so i might have to invetigate

 

[Homburg]

I wish un-numbed dentistry on your asshole and his.

I read that three times before I could get the image of dentistry, numbed or not, being performed on my rectum, out of my mind. *shudder* Fuck, that was disturbing.

Luckily I made the proper mental associations and realised that this was a very cold thought indeed, and thus that I had a deep appreciation for it. After the dire insult done to my most sensitive of bits, my mind was too awash with rancor to come up with a proper curse. It has taken two years, but now you have given me the exact invective with which to fling towards that fucking butcher.

Now if I could just scrub the memory of dental tools meeting my bum out of my brain....

 

[Homburg]

Homburg your post made me laugh and of course your POV has nothing to do with you being hairy, But hey thats fine!!

Absolutely. Glad to see that you are a woman of refinement and breeding. And I'm not even slightly enjoying the very well-written and beautiful posts by the lovely and cultured ladies that appreciate the special joys of laying with a Man of the Hirsute persuasion.

Not at all =)

--

And take great care with the mention of epilators. I know that I've had nightmares involving those things. *shudder*

 

[rachy91]

And take great care with the mention of epilators. I know that I've had nightmares involving those things. *shudder*

*rasises eyebrow* Oh realy, maybe you should share

Oh and we all believe you about not even slightly enjoying the ladies posts ;P

 

[EmpressFi]

I dont mind a little hair.. in fact.. I'm with the woman who gains great comfort from a hairy chest... but I'm also ok with someone with a smooth chest.. it's the heart that counts..

to play devil's advocate here.. I've been wondering what the reaction would have been if a man had asked for advice on convincing his woman to shave herself down there after she'd told him she didnt want to because it itches.. would it have still been as supportive or would there been more of the "it's her body, you should respect her wishes"

 

[myinnerslut]

i think the response would have been about the same. you my have even gotten more responses since there are statistically more women then men on this site

 

[Homburg]

*rasises eyebrow* Oh realy, maybe you should share

Oh and we all believe you about not even slightly enjoying the ladies posts ;P

Share? Goodness, no! There's enough fodder out there for the Dommes of the world to use on their boys. They don't need my help, and they certainly don't need help from my lockbox of personal terrors =)

And not even slightly. Not the teensiest bit.

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to play devil's advocate here.. I've been wondering what the reaction would have been if a man had asked for advice on convincing his woman to shave herself down there after she'd told him she didnt want to because it itches.. would it have still been as supportive or would there been more of the "it's her body, you should respect her wishes"

I'm a total hypocrite here. While I categorically refuse to shave or depilate (though I do trim), I want my women shaved, period. And I am thoroughly unashamed of the double standard. I'm the Dom, I am allowed to have double standards

 

[Netzach]

I read that three times before I could get the image of dentistry, numbed or not, being performed on my rectum, out of my mind. *shudder* Fuck, that was disturbing.

Luckily I made the proper mental associations and realised that this was a very cold thought indeed, and thus that I had a deep appreciation for it. After the dire insult done to my most sensitive of bits, my mind was too awash with rancor to come up with a proper curse. It has taken two years, but now you have given me the exact invective with which to fling towards that fucking butcher.

Now if I could just scrub the memory of dental tools meeting my bum out of my brain....

Oh dear, now that I re-read it....

well you got what I meant.

 

[rachy91]

I'm the Dom, I am allowed to have double standards

Well you are but it still sucks!! *sticks tounge out* Do any of the women here shave their arms? just random question

 

[Netzach]

Well you are but it still sucks!! *sticks tounge out* Do any of the women here shave their arms? just random question

I shave only my labia, but I won the hairless freak genetic lottery.

 

[rachy91]

I shave only my labia, but I won the hairless freak genetic lottery.

im sorry but EW dont you shave your legs or arms? D: i coudnt stand not shaving my legs, they get so black and dirty (the hairs )

But whatever floats your boat!!