Once communication dies...

[MasterPhoenix]

First off, this thread is a lesson in not posting whilst intoxicated... Its usually a bad bad idea... This thread is no exception...

and, I do believe you... if I didn't I wouldn't bother to ask...

I am just under three shit loads of stress myself....

 

[Sir_Winston54]

i know how it feels on both ends, and both suck. again what i don't understand is WHY after i've reassured Him every single time we talk atleast 3 or 4 times in the conversations that we have, that He STILL feels the need for reassurance, i just feel like it doesn't matter, i might as well not reassure Him anymore, because He doesn't believe my words anyway.....

Rose, you say you know how it feels on both ends? Then try to remember that someone deep in depression (if that is MP's issue at this point) often feels that s/he is "not worthy" of the reassurance given. It may well be that it's not that he doesn't believe you, but that he doesn't feel inside that he deserves to be loved. That in itself is not something you can directly help him with, but your continued reassurances can help him begin to believe in himself more when he starts whatever's necessary (therapy, additional or changed medications, whatever!) to fight his way out of this.

I like ya both, and I like the two of you emotionally/romantically together, so if there's anything either of you would like to discuss privately, my PM box is always open, and/or I can provide you with an e-mail addy or Msgr addy.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You must leave now, take what you need, you think will last.
But whatever you wish to keep, you better grab it fast.
Yonder stands your orphan with his gun,
Crying like a fire in the sun.
Look out the saints are comin' through
And it's all over now, Baby Blue.

The highway is for gamblers, better use your sense.
Take what you have gathered from coincidence.
The empty-handed painter from your streets
Is drawing crazy patterns on your sheets.
This sky, too, is folding under you
And it's all over now, Baby Blue.

All your seasick sailors, they are rowing home.
All your reindeer armies, are all going home.
The lover who just walked out your door
Has taken all his blankets from the floor.
The carpet, too, is moving under you
And it's all over now, Baby Blue.

Leave your stepping stones behind, something calls for you.
Forget the dead you've left, they will not follow you.
The vagabond who's rapping at your door
Is standing in the clothes that you once wore.
Strike another match, go start anew
And it's all over now, Baby Blue.

Bob Dylan

 

[littleone77]

First off, this thread is a lesson in not posting whilst intoxicated... Its usually a bad bad idea... This thread is no exception...

and, I do believe you... if I didn't I wouldn't bother to ask...

I am just under three shit loads of stress myself....

One could always ask the mod to make it disappear? That way it wouldn't be bumped or serve as a reminder for...drunken confussion?