Opinions on period sex

[wildp]

I was never into it. Was with one woman and when that time came she was super horny. She kept messing with me and i told her no but if she didn't quit i would fuck her up the ass. She pulled my pants down and slid her ass on me reverse cowgirl style

 

[saintcero]

This is a huge turn on for me. My partner gets super horny the first two days of her period. Her flow is really heavy, so we are careful to use thick towels so we don't ruin the sheets or mattress. She was a bit shy about period sex at first, but her cravings soon overcame that. I love how slick she is - feels amazing - and love her blood on my cock. She loves the fact it gives her some relief from the cramps. I draw the line at oral, but other than it is amazing. I'm glad you brought up this topic. Its good to hear from others how they feel about this. Its not for everyone, but I"m glad it is for others besides us.

Yep. My wife would ask to get boned when the cramps would hit her. I had no problem with helping her out. Figured it was part of being a husband

 

[hanban24]

If this is somehow inappropriate or offensive please take it down.
With that being said I have a question for you denizens of desire here at Lit regarding your opinion on period sex.
I am a woman with a healthy libido but I have found in the last few years that just before my cycle starts and for the first day or so of it I am insanely aroused. I'm super sensitive and am able to climax easily and often with very little effort; by myself or with a partner (and a good orgasm helps infinitely with cramping). As such I find myself really craving sex during that time but I've found that for a great many men, and even many women, period sex is a hard limit. My husband, who by his own admission is into "some kinky shit" is on the "hell no" team, however I have a lover who doesn't give a damn and actually says I'm more responsive and quicker to orgasm then .
So what are your thoughts? Is it odd that I want sex more during "lady times" and if this is something that's a hard limit for you (male or female) would you mind sharing why.
Thanks in advance to any who respond.

I’m on an IUD and rarely have a period anymore. That being said, when I had regular periods, and even now, I don’t have any issue with having sex during my period as long as my partner doesn’t. I won’t let him go down on me but otherwise still open to anything as long as he isn’t grossed out by it.

 

[Bottomlover]

Thanks again to everyone who has taken the time to respond. Your comments are much appreciated as is your honesty and candor on the topic.
It has been interesting to note that most here do not seem to have issue with it but so many I have encountered IRL do.
If I may probe a bit further...
For those who have enjoyed it do you find anything different/better/more during this time? (I have been told I taste different, for example).

I find penetrative sex to feel a bit hotter, and oral sex varies with her comfort. Her taste is different on any given day, and does have a slight metallic taste during her period. There are days when she keeps a tampon in, and I just deal with it and pleasure her the best I can. She used to give me verbal instructions for this, and by now I've learned how to read the "string signal" and stay in her comfort zone. It's all good.

 

[saintcero]

Thanks again to everyone who has taken the time to respond. Your comments are much appreciated as is your honesty and candor on the topic.
It has been interesting to note that most here do not seem to have issue with it but so many I have encountered IRL do.
If I may probe a bit further...
For those who have enjoyed it do you find anything different/better/more during this time? (I have been told I taste different, for example).

my wife seemed to feel a bit wetter and looser for period sex. She also seemed a bit more determined during the fucking but that could just be due to wanting anything that would help with the cramping. Other than a little protection for the bed and some more involved cleanup after sex, period sex was just the same as non-period sex. The only issues with period sex are in peoples heads. get over it and fuck like bunnies [slightly bloody bunnies.]

 

[LourdMorpheus]

Back in the day when I was fucking 7-9 times a week, I was turned on by the occasional red river. Never stopped me, actually pushed me into action several times.

I always worried bout my lovers tho, because that’s when their systems were most open and vulnerable, so made double sure I was extra clean and scrubbed up.

The whole verboten thing drove me wild.

 

[STRC]

It's never a problem........both of us are "Wash & Wear"!

 

[Naughtygirl201]

I was never into it. Was with one woman and when that time came she was super horny. She kept messing with me and i told her no but if she didn't quit i would fuck her up the ass. She pulled my pants down and slid her ass on me reverse cowgirl style

That's probably what she needed!

 

[BlondeAmbition4RP]

I love period sex. I get really horny immediately before and during my period from all the hormones, and having a good O does help a lot with cramps as others have said. I used to SAY I didn't want it because I was worried about it grossing guys out, but in my experience the good ones don't care one bit. Honestly at this point if a guy was grossed out by the idea of it I would probably break up with him, because periods are natural and part of me as a woman, and if that's "gross" to guys then it's a red flag that's he's probably got some misogyny issues. I don't like having a mess to deal with, but there are plenty of ways around that. The first time I tried period sex was in a pool, so no mess. Then tried putting a towel under me which worked just fine. Now I've discovered PERIOD DISKS and they are the most wonderful thing in the world! I love them for a lot of reasons, but being able to keep them in during period sex and not have to worry about ANY mess no matter the position is definitely a perk. Really allows me and my partner to cut loose since those hormones do really kinda turn me into a nympho. My witchy/spiritualist friends also tell me it's apparently an excellent time for manifesting.

 

[maydec]

As a man I have nothing against it. A girlfriend of mine loved period sex as she said that not only was she horny during that time of the month, it also helped her with cramping with the added benefit of no pregnancy worries. She also loved sex not only with me inside of her but also with her tampon inserted which in a way was a DP. She said it really felt good to be stretched out
I found it to be another delightful aspect of sex and did not mind the blood at all

 

[ChuckWolf]

If the woman (I'm in a relationship with) is on her period, I'll still (delicately) go down on her.

Not something I enjoy, but if it helps her get through that difficult time, I'm happy to do it.

 

[Passion_Breeder]

If this is somehow inappropriate or offensive please take it down.
With that being said I have a question for you denizens of desire here at Lit regarding your opinion on period sex.
I am a woman with a healthy libido but I have found in the last few years that just before my cycle starts and for the first day or so of it I am insanely aroused. I'm super sensitive and am able to climax easily and often with very little effort; by myself or with a partner (and a good orgasm helps infinitely with cramping). As such I find myself really craving sex during that time but I've found that for a great many men, and even many women, period sex is a hard limit. My husband, who by his own admission is into "some kinky shit" is on the "hell no" team, however I have a lover who doesn't give a damn and actually says I'm more responsive and quicker to orgasm then .
So what are your thoughts? Is it odd that I want sex more during "lady times" and if this is something that's a hard limit for you (male or female) would you mind sharing why.
Thanks in advance to any who respond.

No problem for me whatsoever! My lover has a BF from the "hell no" team, so I always know I can count on some extra play time while Aunt Flo is visiting. And yes, she's hyper sensitive and climaxes very easily during this time. Win-win scenario for us both... usually topped off with a deep cream pie too!

 

[Writer_FM]

I respect the fact that my wife's period is an uncomfortable time for her, so I try not to push her for sex during that week. My wife's period doesn't turn me on either. That said, I never object if she wants to have sex during her period.

 

[RaynieJ]

I've never gone out of my way to have sex while on my period, but I have done it several times when the timing falls just right. I don't have any opinion about it either way. It's more about the situation. If you both want to fuck, I say go for it. It's just a little mess, who cares?

 

[Goldenfinger]

It happens.

 

[bone251]

Past that time now. But younger I figured it happens, I don't care either way, but I want sex. I would use a washcloth to wipe my face and a towel to protect the sheets.
Some of the girl went off better. That I really enjoyed. Some of the girls liked I did not care, and that made them easier.
It is all about the girl being happy.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

The term “period sex” makes me think of having sex in historical dress. If somebody wants to cosplay as an Edwardian lady during sex who am I to take offense?

 

[Acktion]

Back in college several decades ago, I had the misfortune to fall under the influence of six lesbians (three couples). Long story that I've told and retold elsewhere. Any road, they enjoyed teasing me about earning my redwings. That is, to this day, a hard, definite "Hell, no" for me.

But, "blooding my sword?"

First time I ever took my late wife was in her flow. Surprised her that I was willing. She didn't orgasm that time. (It took me two weeks to train her to orgasm with me. She claimed she never had with anyone else, but only by herself.) However, her cramps weren't near as bad, she said.

We were together for two and half decades until her death, and when she was still able (ovarian cysts, ruptured ovarian cysts, a full hysterectomy, and eventually spinal damage) the only difference was we paused long enough to put a towel down under her hips. I don't recall her ever saying her orgasms were better or more intense or anything. But, she swore it helped with the cramps. And called me "roto rooter" since she swore they were shorter, too. (She could stretch up to nine days if we didn't. Typically four or five if we did.)

**shrug** It's not a big deal to me. But, it's purely up to her (whichever "her" we might be discussing). Some went with it once they found out I didn't mind. Others were "Hell, no. Call me in a week." The ones that did... Well, to be blunt, I'm an aficionado of the "forced multi orgasm" (as opposed to orgasm denial) and, frankly, I'm just that damn good that I really couldn't tell you if they orgasmed any quicker or any better on or off. But, they typically claimed it eased the cramps and shortened the term.

 

[jehoram]

The term “period sex” makes me think of having sex in historical dress. If somebody wants to cosplay as an Edwardian lady during sex who am I to take offense?

I think I'd go for Italian Renaissance. You game?

 

[de_valmont]

I love every real smell and taste on a woman, so of course this sometimes spicy one.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

MrKQ didn't like the idea, but we ended up in a long-distance relationship which synched with my periods. When faced with a choice of me-with-period or no sex for another two weeks, he got over it pretty quickly. Like within a couple hours... Throw some old towels on the bed and it's fine.

 

[DarkWhispers2U]

I don't know why, but I tend to be super horny the two weeks a month that I'm bleeding: during ovulation and menstruation. Husband is a hard 'NO' on period sex, anal sex, sex of any kind really these days. He doesn't like me masturbating when he's around either, and he's home all the time now. Once in a blue moon he will finger me, but definitely not if there's any blood, which, unfortunately, eliminates half the month. *sigh*

 

[Ozfetishguy]

Thanks again to everyone who has taken the time to respond. Your comments are much appreciated as is your honesty and candor on the topic.
It has been interesting to note that most here do not seem to have issue with it but so many I have encountered IRL do.
If I may probe a bit further...
For those who have enjoyed it do you find anything different/better/more during this time? (I have been told I taste different, for example).

My love of period sex was the result of having a girlfriend who was very horny at that time of the month. Unfortunately, it's not a topic you can discuss with someone you've just met, lol. On the other hand, I remember seeing some posts from women on an internet forum saying they would like to have more sex during their period, but they were worried about their partner's reaction if they raised the subject.

Unless it's a heavy day, PIV sex doesn't feel that much different, but the taste is different. I'd describe it as more metallic - not something that bothers me, but others may not agree.

 

[ukcouple4play]

As a guy I have always really, really enjoyed period sex. But then I openly admit I have a thing for bodily fluids, or more specifically bodily fluids associated with genitals... As for what I like about it, for me the 'mess' is a turn on, but also the different feel of a very slick, wet vagina is just so, so good.

My wife has always been self-conscious about period sex but she's a horny lady and never took much persuading - she'd just apologise every time and say 'I'm sorry if I make a mess', even after me telling her I actually got off on that aspect I don't know how many times. Over the last couple of years, though, she has shied away from period sex more and more. Mostly to do with switching to a moon cup, so getting the ting out is a hassle for her.

 

[KatieDoes]

It’s a hard no for me. Not due to ‘grossness’ but due to debilitating cramping and endometriosis. I’ve had an IUD for a few years, so it’s no longer a concern. But the absolute last thing I wanted during that time was anyone touching me.