Oral Sex Question

[Ventoso]

LOVE LOVE LOVE BJ

You are too far from me ...

Are you never travelling to Europe????

 

[Sweet Marie]

When I find myself attracted to a guy, one of the first thoughts that enters my mind is how much I want to suck him off. There is just something about the smell and taste of an aroused cock that makes me absolutely wild. And it is such a rush to hear the moans of pleasure when I go down on him. I can get off on that far more easily than when oral sex is being performed on me. Perhaps I just don't relax enough to enjoy it, but having my pussy licked really doesn't do it for me. It can feel quite nice, but it's not ecstacy producing. A good finger fuck, however.....mmmmmmm

 

[Ventoso]

I am very sorry for you, Sweet Marie!

Lay down and relax! Feel the guy licking, sucking and finger fucking you and concentrate in your own feelings and pleasure! Don't worry, there is always enough time to suck him ...

Take your time ...!

 

[SweetBrat73]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE giving blow jobs.



giving a blow job is such an easy way to give a man maximum pleasure. i get wet hearing a man moan when i'm down on my knees (not a lot of guys seem to be very vocal, so it's a treat when they actually make noise!). i guess it's the feeling of power over his orgasm that gets me off (what can i say? i'm a control freak).

Yeah I have to agree that when a man moans it's great!!! Makes it all worth it I'm not a control freak though Well maybe when it comes to giving blows jobs...if I weren't in control I'd probably never be allowed to breath again

 

[thesatinrose]

I have a question for you. . .

You said that you could give your beloved two or three orgasms when going down on her, "if she's up to it". First, are you certain that she's really having them? I don't mean to say otherwise, it just occurs to me that too many men don't know how to really tell a woman has achieved orgasm.

Lack of interest in bj, especially when she indicates she enjoys doing it, lends itself to the question, Is she really getting hers? Sounds like you've been together for a number of years, and if she didn't enjoy it, why would she lie about it?

Perhaps she needs some spice, do you discuss fantasies? Do you read erotica to one another?

With regard to some of the replies from women that have partners that refuse to have desert. Poor men. But besides that do you know why they won't? And how much to do you shave? Do they perhaps not understand what it is that you like, specificly? Here's an idea, masterbate in front of them, and tell them, I want your tounge to move on me like this, and show them. Bottom line, you're absolutely right, if they're not givin' they're not gettin.

I am not looking for answers to any of the above questions, and I don't know it all, shucks, probably don't know half of it, just offering suggestions. . . please take it if it adds value . . . leave it if it doesn't.

Good luck, and happy hunting!

 

[Babydoll5272]

My two cents worth

Personally I do not care to really give BJ although I kind of feel it my duty or requirement to give him one since he gave me so much pleasure!

DOLL

 

[Guest]

I think it is the fact that you have such control in oral sex that makes me love doing it. TEASE, TEASE, TEASE to please.

 

[baskb1]

bj

first start the blow job then spin around for some 69 and if he does not produce stop the blow!!!!!!!!!!1

 

[Mystical]

It depends on the mood actually for me. I hate being asked to do it that is when I feel it is more a chore then anything else. But if I am initaiting love making with my hubby I will do it gladly and I love to.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

with the right man oral sex can be

HEAVEN!!!! i love watching my lover get off and of course he's such a darling cause he i think it would kill him if he couldn't repay the favour and of course he does it hrs and hrs of going down on me

 

[Guest]

The only time I hate Giving my man BJ, is when he asks for it all the time. and he doesn't return the favor.

 

[cyn1959]

That's what makes me angry, when he wants me to give him oral pleasure but then won't return the loving...because it is so good and I think he'd like it if he'd just try! I told him that's what I want for christmas...to have him love me like this, we can do the "69" and make that tree even more special. sigh. there is nothing like wanting to be deprived of oral sex; after so many years, it's getting to be an obsession. He doesn't even use his hands...

So I got this great idea and bought a reall long vibrator, it's great, I use it when he's putting it in from the side, or if I'm on my hands and knees....this has made some difference. But still not the same!

 

[HotnMature]

A radio personality once said that there's a reason they call it a job, and that's because women treat it as a chore, or something they have to do to get a man. Once women have a man, they will quite doing this chore.

I'm curious, do women perceive this task as a chore or job. Not something they really want to do?

I really enjoy performing on my wife and I always give her an orgasm during sex. But, it's been several years since she has "returned the favor."

I understand that everybody has different tastes. Just curious if oral sex is something that people prefer not to do at all.

Just an informal poll.

Well I just have to put my two cents worth in here......

I consider "giving head" an art, I love doing it, there is a certain sense of control with it, and it has always been my belief that when giving head there is never another time when you have a man's full and undivided attention as when you have his dick in your mouth.

Personally speaking, LOL believe it or not, I have studied every technique, I pay close attention to his every move, every breath, and every twitch and act accordingly. Maybe it's my need to be the best, but I love it, a job, a chore, no way, but........ control, power...........yes definitely and I love it!!!!!!

and that's my 2 cents worth