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SluttyLindsey said:
For training you must learn to obey. So, any situation can be used for orgasm denial. However, as your dom leaves you alone more he may put a vibe in you for the day with a camera and push you to your brink. This will not only help you obey, but to you appreciate orgasms more.

As for punshment it can be similar, or he could continuously edge you which is much harder to not orgasm during and if you do create further much more intense punishments.

For fun my dom has me go out in public doing errands and he controls my viberator to make me want to cum while driving and will be on the phone with me teasing me and pushing me to my limits, he will also do this out to eat, the bar or even a good spike while we walk around which he knows will push me and it’s either I cum and am humiliated so everyone knows or I must hold it together. This can also be a punishment
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Good girl! 😇
 
Jale321 said:
My Dom uses orgasm denial as training/for his pleasure for a future event. He thinks my pleasure will be greater then. I feel I am being punished. What are your thoughts?
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There are people who are really into this but for me, it’s not sex positive and feels wrong.
 
My wife and I play with this - me teasing and denying her more than anything. Usually starting with texting, then touching through the evening, and finally in the bedroom with a vibrator, bringing her close and then stopping. Sometimes though, when I want to make her cum (sometimes that night, sometimes the next day) it is extra hard for her to. I guess maybe it's sensitivity? Any thoughts?

ETA: We aren't doing full-on BDSM, but it's definitely a submissive scenario where I can take it wherever I want. And I've tried lots of different approaches, some more intense than others, and it's always been well received and fun.
 
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Orgasm denial is amazing for control because it creates an incredible sense of desperation, to the point where you're willing to do utterly humiliating things just for release, and a creative dom can always find good use for such a mood.
 
Last night I was allowed a wonderful session of pussy worship. Before it started, as I was sucking her breast, she told me how it was going to be, “I let you cum about a week ago, so tonight is just about me. I don’t want you spurting. Go and put on a panty girdle before you start eating my pussy so that you don’t have an accident in your panties.” Yes Ma’am!

This morning when I got out of the shower, she was standing in the bathroom in her bay and panties. I got an erection. She noticed, laughed, said, “You are so easy to control!”

What can I say? I need it and love her for it!
 
Hubby decides when I come. He will have me masturbate for his entertainment or play with me as I pose lewdly for him three or four times daily to keep me aroused and thinking of sex but he only allows our games to spill over into orgasm every three or four days. To make everything even more intense he doesn't tell me when I will be permitted to come so as I approach orgasm I become all nervous wondering if he will demand that I stop or not, making it more difficult for me to let go and come but also making the orgasm that much more intense when it does happen. He does not expect me to fight the orgasms, thank goodness, if I come hard he is the one who has mistimed things, my nervousness about reaching orgasm is entirely because he has become so proficient at gauging exactly when to make me stop to leave me feeling extraordinarily frustrated. It is when I fail to stop on command immediately that I get punished and there is no 'funishemnt' about this.

If hubby is feeling mean he stops and allows my frustration to begin to subside and then demands that we start over again and I know that I am probably in for several rounds of torment before he calls things to a close. The trick that I really dread, and that hubby loves, is him licking my clit and fingering me until my orgasm has just about broken and then he stops. It leaves me with something like half an orgasm and instead of feeling frustrated I feel really really disappointed afterwards. He once managed three of these in succession and after the third one I burst into floods of tears, I was quite hysterical. Fortunately he had a big stiffy by then and comforted me by rolling me onto my tummy and shafting me through a series of huge orgasms. which was exactly what I needed.

At least when hubby does allow me to come he almost always demands that I keep going until I have enjoyed multiple orgasms and I am ready to stop making my wait and teasings all so worthwhile.​
 
Angiewantsmore said:
Hubby decides when I come. He will have me masturbate for his entertainment or play with me as I pose lewdly for him three or four times daily to keep me aroused and thinking of sex but he only allows our games to spill over into orgasm every three or four days. To make everything even more intense he doesn't tell me when I will be permitted to come so as I approach orgasm I become all nervous wondering if he will demand that I stop or not, making it more difficult for me to let go and come but also making the orgasm that much more intense when it does happen. He does not expect me to fight the orgasms, thank goodness, if I come hard he is the one who has mistimed things, my nervousness about reaching orgasm is entirely because he has become so proficient at gauging exactly when to make me stop to leave me feeling extraordinarily frustrated. It is when I fail to stop on command immediately that I get punished and there is no 'funishemnt' about this.

If hubby is feeling mean he stops and allows my frustration to begin to subside and then demands that we start over again and I know that I am probably in for several rounds of torment before he calls things to a close. The trick that I really dread, and that hubby loves, is him licking my clit and fingering me until my orgasm has just about broken and then he stops. It leaves me with something like half an orgasm and instead of feeling frustrated I feel really really disappointed afterwards. He once managed three of these in succession and after the third one I burst into floods of tears, I was quite hysterical. Fortunately he had a big stiffy by then and comforted me by rolling me onto my tummy and shafting me through a series of huge orgasms. which was exactly what I needed.

At least when hubby does allow me to come he almost always demands that I keep going until I have enjoyed multiple orgasms and I am ready to stop making my wait and teasings all so worthwhile.​
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Every 3 or 4 days. Try being edged for weeks with no release. I'm on week 6. But the last 20 days ive been caged. Only stimulation is ass play. Also right to the edge.
 
artslut86 said:
Every 3 or 4 days. Try being edged for weeks with no release. I'm on week 6. But the last 20 days ive been caged. Only stimulation is ass play. Also right to the edge.
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Each to their own, weeks might be perfect for you but three days is quite enough to render me pliant enough to agree to just about anything hubby might want me to do. Simply stretching things out to four days is because sometimes he enjoys seeing me suffering and on day four he makes sure I do suffer.
 
I've been denied for 17 days. That was a punishment I deserved. But I had a difficult time actually cumming after that. Imagine my frustration at not being physically able to orgasm once I was allowed. I think it was a few extra days.
 
My wife controls my orgasm. Lots of edging. It’s very sexy, frustrating and addicting.

We once went 7 weeks during locktober and no nut November a few years ago.

I can’t wear a cage cuz it hurts my balls. (I’ve tried many diff types), but typically my wife lets me cum every few weeks.

It was very unusual but she let me cum 2x last week. Both were very powerful cumshots w big loads and well worth the wait.
 
Wonderer67 said:
My wife controls my orgasm. Lots of edging. It’s very sexy, frustrating and addicting.

We once went 7 weeks during locktober and no nut November a few years ago.

I can’t wear a cage cuz it hurts my balls. (I’ve tried many diff types), but typically my wife lets me cum every few weeks.

It was very unusual but she let me cum 2x last week. Both were very powerful cumshots w big loads and well worth the wait.
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Very interesting, so all cages hurt your balls?

I used to have some problems with putting the ring on but I can now pull my balls and clitty through the cage, then pop out the ball which gets stuck inwards. It's not that uncomfortable unless I put the cage on incorrectly.
 
SPARTAN047 said:
Very interesting, so all cages hurt your balls?

I used to have some problems with putting the ring on but I can now pull my balls and clitty through the cage, then pop out the ball which gets stuck inwards. It's not that uncomfortable unless I put the cage on incorrectly.
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Yeah, instaryed w the cheap
Ones on Amazon. No good.

Went to a cb6000 and it was only ok. Tried alot of different variations. Then went to the holy trainer which was better cuz more ergonomic.

bit yeah, chronic ball
Pain from it, so I stopped all together. Actually had to go to the urologist about it (didn’t say why). Had my balls ultrasounded and pelvic floor therapy.

But yeah… it’s a no go for me.

I will say that the cage made me feel sooooo submissive and controlled.

so now we just go with the honor system. My wife likes sex, so it’s a lot easier to do that. I just don’t cum (most of the time).
 
Wonderer67 said:
Yeah, instaryed w the cheap
Ones on Amazon. No good.

Went to a cb6000 and it was only ok. Tried alot of different variations. Then went to the holy trainer which was better cuz more ergonomic.

bit yeah, chronic ball
Pain from it, so I stopped all together. Actually had to go to the urologist about it (didn’t say why). Had my balls ultrasounded and pelvic floor therapy.

But yeah… it’s a no go for me.

I will say that the cage made me feel sooooo submissive and controlled.

so now we just go with the honor system. My wife likes sex, so it’s a lot easier to do that. I just don’t cum (most of the time).
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I use an Amazon cage too.
 
Vivian251 said:
I totally get where you’re coming from. When my partner first introduced orgasm denial, I felt a bit frustrated and like I was missing out. But over time, I realized it can build anticipation and excitement. It’s important to communicate how you feel—maybe even discuss boundaries or safe words. If it feels more like punishment than play, it’s worth talking about to ensure you both enjoy the experience!
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Great pt about communication.
My Domme had to pound that into me. I just say I'm fine. Then poof have a melt down.
I also now appreciate the orgasms more. The anticipation and edging is often better than the release. After which I tend to get less willing to be obedient.
 
When i first started in these forums, several people sent me dm's and said I should try this bc they thought it is what my husband wants. I was desperate to find something for us that works and so I tried it. My husband prefers to give me oral sex bc he cums too fast if we fuck. One night as I got myself positioned on the couch for him do his duty, and he was kneeling on the floor in front of me, I told him that he was not going to get to cum that night. He looked up at me in disbelief and then he nodded and just said, OK. Then he started giving me really good, tender oral. I laid back and enjoyed it, all for me. I felt like I was the ruler of our world. It was so hot, I had never been so aroused.

The next day he was the most attentive husband in the world. When that happens, I always know I am doing things right.

I think some of those people who sent me those dm's are in this thread. A big "thank you" to them. They were right.
 
LeaHaven said:
When i first started in these forums, several people sent me dm's and said I should try this bc they thought it is what my husband wants. I was desperate to find something for us that works and so I tried it. My husband prefers to give me oral sex bc he cums too fast if we fuck. One night as I got myself positioned on the couch for him do his duty, and he was kneeling on the floor in front of me, I told him that he was not going to get to cum that night. He looked up at me in disbelief and then he nodded and just said, OK. Then he started giving me really good, tender oral. I laid back and enjoyed it, all for me. I felt like I was the ruler of our world. It was so hot, I had never been so aroused.

The next day he was the most attentive husband in the world. When that happens, I always know I am doing things right.

I think some of those people who sent me those dm's are in this thread. A big "thank you" to them. They were right.
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You are giving him such a treat. I would love some femdom play.
 
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