Orgasms

So, if I'm not thread-jacking...ladies:

Multi, or one and done?
How long is the re-coup time, before s/he can even touch you?
For those ladies in their late 30's/40's, has this changed over time? Used to be multi, clitoral focused, changed to single, more intense, g-spot focused? Changed back again?
 
So, if I'm not thread-jacking...ladies:

Multi, or one and done?
How long is the re-coup time, before s/he can even touch you?
For those ladies in their late 30's/40's, has this changed over time? Used to be multi, clitoral focused, changed to single, more intense, g-spot focused? Changed back again?

Darling, it's not a single sex thread - of course you're not!

I am single so it's usually once or if it's "that" time of the month - 3 or 4 :devil:

Recoup time is zero usually because you never want orgasms to end. Who does?

I'm in my late 30's :( - well not :( but I don't like thinking of myself as old! I'm more sexually aware now than I ever was!

I used to only cum from clitoral stimulation and actually penetrative felt alien to me so I practised. And at 30 years old I had my first vaginal/g-spot orgasm! I was completely overwhelmed. Tears in my eyes and finally "got" why there was such a fuss! lol

And if it's a g-spot orgasm - touch me afterwards and I'll smack you in the face! lol

You cannot move and do not want to be touched - you just want to bask in it because it's delicious and yes they for me are much more intense x
 
Like many here, it really depends on the circumstances and the type of sex that is being engaged in. There are times when having a quickie, whether with someone or by myself, that it isn't much of one at all. Very mild. Most times it lasts about 15-20 seconds and I will stiffen up and curl my toes.

Then, on occasions when I am holding out for a very long time, that I have had orgasms so intense that they have lasted for about a minute to a minute and a half, eyes rolling up in the back of my head and almost blacking out! When this type hits, it feels like wave after wave hits me. Just when I think it is finished another wave hits me again.

What is weird is, I am a guy and I didn't think that it is normal for a guy to have an orgasm like that, but it isn't like I can talk to my male friends about it without them probably thinking I am a weirdo or something. Guys don't usually talk that way with one another. LOL

If any other man has had orgasms that intense, that last for what seems like forever, please let me know so I know I am not the only one. LOL
 
I take pride in my sexual abilities... My orgasms can range from 1-3. Foreplay does wonders and stopping right before cumming helps intensify my orgasms. As my partners usually have 2-17 orgasms or one very long continuous orgasm.. My true goal is to make a woman black out and I almost made it happen once but not yet.
 
I usually have to bury my face into a pillow, I am a moaner, a screamer.
I moan, gasp, whimper, squirt, gush, shake, curl my toes, grab the sheets, outstretch my hands...I do it all. You know I am completely finished once I sigh. I let out a small sigh when I am done. ;)

I had sex with a friend that told me she'd never had a guy be able to make her cum thru vaginal sex. I took it as a dare, and she accepted. She was fairly vocal, and started trying to convince me she wouldn't know what to look for if it happened.

Wgen it happened, she looked at me with huge eyes and just stared silent as I kept thrusting while she came. A good 15-20 seconds of this stare, then her eyes rolled back into her head. She followed the path of actions you described above and with that same sigh, she melted into the bed. The sigh-ers are rare :)
 
I had sex with a friend that told me she'd never had a guy be able to make her cum thru vaginal sex. I took it as a dare, and she accepted. She was fairly vocal, and started trying to convince me she wouldn't know what to look for if it happened.

Wgen it happened, she looked at me with huge eyes and just stared silent as I kept thrusting while she came. A good 15-20 seconds of this stare, then her eyes rolled back into her head. She followed the path of actions you described above and with that same sigh, she melted into the bed. The sigh-ers are rare :)

That's great!!!!!I never realized until my ex pointed it out. He was like, I always know you are done when you sigh, you might have 6 orgasms before that happens, but until I hear the sigh, I keep going. :D
 
Now I know, at first thought it's a bit off-putting (for some of you anyways), but bear with me.

I used to date a girl who was a squirting machine! We're talking nothing is safe in her bedroom! Now this also was in line with the fact that she had the most powerful orgasms of any woman I've ever known, and they came almost at will. It was amazing.

We'd only had sex a few times at this point, but this time I'm performing at the top of my game and she has the most powerful O yet. Meanwhile, as she's bathing me and all her belongings with her cum, she simultaneously rips the loudest fart you could imagine! Now being that I'm not uptight about these things, and that I've had my fair share of bedroom blunders, we both just giggled it off as a freak accident and and never mentioned it again. UNTIL...

We decide to get mildly kinky one night and I tie her to the bed. At this point I had never gone down on her before. She said enjoys it very much but her squirting made most guys uncomfortable so she discouraged me my first attempt. Knowing how into it I was, she allowed this time. Well I guess I hit the right spot cause wouldn't ya know... I get a massive cumshot to the face along with yet another deafening fart!

So now I know, something happens inside her when orgasms are the most intense that makes her have absolutely no control over that bodily function! (God knows it could be worse!). So at this point I have to either accept it or risk humiliating her and tell her I cant sleep with her anymore because she farts when she cums! Since I'm not a shallow guy and she was an amazing chick, it really didnt bother me one bit so I stuck around. In fact it was kinda nice having a built-in performance indicator.

My motto was if she's not farting... I'm doing something wrong.
 
Normally I am very quiet, big deep breaths and the occasionally little moan as though escaping. I've noticed I am very sensitive on my sides; stroking me down my side will make me shiver like hell, drives me insane. Can barely think?

When tiny? Well.. you'll have to find out
 
since i am a full virgin *nope not even a kiss!* i have very slight orgasms that are light enough to put me to sleep but every once in a while i have a harder one *not that hard though* and my legs start to squirm a lot like i should be hugging and tightening on a guy! lol but no guy there equals me quite sad lol. i am not loud i make almost no sound but my eyes do seem to roll lol
 
I really hate anonymity. Reading these posts I need to know who's talking - male, female, straight, whatever, and how old, how experienced. I am male, pretty nearly straight, and one thing I have learned is that if a woman makes a lot of noise she ain't come. When I was little I used to believe that when a woman had got through moaning and even yelling then I could relax. Boy was I wrong; so I set out to learn how to tell.

As for myself, I tend to grunt (I think).
 
If I'm on my own then I'm quiet, it just happens. If its intercourse, still fairly quiet but tend to clutch at partner as I cum. If its a handjob or blowjob I always have really intense orgasms-toes curling, grabbing at bed clothes, chair handles, hair etc, crying out with pleasure, often swearing.
 
I usually breath heavy I have my eyes close sometime but sometime I stare into my mans eyes, but when he positions himself and pump a certain that hits my spot my eyes toll back to my head and my eyes close but when Im exsploding I moan loud breath heavy and grab my mans sides. He says I bust his hear drums and yell oh my god yes.
 
When masturbating at home and I'm not alone I just breathe heavily. Takes a huge amount of effort not to moan. When I am alone my breathing gets heavy and I let out some small moans and then one long one.

When me and my bf are together and not alone, same as above. Heavy breathing and I sometimes have to bite the pillow to stop myself screaming.

When we know we're completely alone we both relax and let loose. I can be very very loud sometimes depending on the position.
 
When I orgasm, I am very loud. I cry out, moan, tremble, shake, I can feel myself flooding juices everywhere, my clit throbbing...

yeah, I got the dog next door barking on more than one occassion...
 
I forgot to mention that I can squirt too. When I'm cumming like that I'm very very loud. I scream and moan and writhe around, I bite the pillow, my eyes roll back in my head.. It's so intense. I've done it both from being fingered and while being fucked.
 
I can be different when I orgasm, sometimes I'm silent if I'm masturbating alone, but if I'm fucking or talking with someone, I'm quite loud and the orgasm goes on for 10-20 seconds. Actually I feel the orgasm before the ejaculation. I love to just sit in the feeling of the orgasm as it builds to ejaculation. My loudness consists of my breathing, and sort of really loud grunting, and sometimes almost yelling. I'm not sure that I have described it that well. Probably better to ask someone who has heard me. And the noises seem to have evolved over time, getting more intense.

And sometimes I have small orgasms without ejaculation which are nice.
 
I forgot to mention that I can squirt too. When I'm cumming like that I'm very very loud. I scream and moan and writhe around, I bite the pillow, my eyes roll back in my head.. It's so intense. I've done it both from being fingered and while being fucked.

Your boyfriend is a lucky man :)
 
When I orgasm, I am very loud. I cry out, moan, tremble, shake, I can feel myself flooding juices everywhere, my clit throbbing...

yeah, I got the dog next door barking on more than one occassion...

:) that`s so funny that the dog joins in.....
 
Thank you. :eek:

In another post you asked how you could make your guy cum while sucking him off....I suggest you give him your other posts here to read while you work on him with your lips, mouth and tongue....that ought to do it....
 
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