Panty Peelers?

if I'm spending time alone with someone I've likely already decided to sleep with them, so unless they fuck up big time I look forward to and accept any sort of display or item meant to charm me.

i really like when someone I am interested in shows me personal attention, though.
 
I would say my most effective panty-remover is just to be a nice, sweet, decent man. I do have a weakness for geeky types, but the main thing is to be nice.

Rude, arrogant, self-centered "bad boy" types turn me cold.
 
I would say my most effective panty-remover is just to be a nice, sweet, decent man. I do have a weakness for geeky types, but the main thing is to be nice.

Rude, arrogant, self-centered "bad boy" types turn me cold.


Ditto this! To add a little extra to nice, sweet, decent and preferably geeky - sincere, flirtatious and up for the chase. Persistent. Having a personal passion also helps. People have perfected the art of not giving a fuck, and it's kind of off-putting.
 
People have perfected the art of not giving a fuck, and it's kind of off-putting.

It puts me off, too. I hear people say things like "well, I don't care what people think of me", and that's sad. What's needed in the world is more connection between people, not less. It doesn't mean you allow someone else to control your life, it means you consider the feelings of the people around you. An attitude of "I do what I want and everyone else can just fuck off" is terribly immature and in the long run hurts you more than it does them.
 
It puts me off, too. I hear people say things like "well, I don't care what people think of me", and that's sad. What's needed in the world is more connection between people, not less. It doesn't mean you allow someone else to control your life, it means you consider the feelings of the people around you. An attitude of "I do what I want and everyone else can just fuck off" is terribly immature and in the long run hurts you more than it does them.

Well said, MILFSauce. It is so refreshing to find someone speaking plainly and honestly, stating the patently true. It can be so depressing to find yourself trying to communicate with someone who, for whatever reason, appears to have no sense of empathy. Why, or how, can anyone expect such a person to be a good lover? All they can think of is themselves. I believe that a good lover is one who has such empathy, who is so well connected to you and your needs that he/she can almost feel the same things as you when they are talking to you, touching you, kissing you. That sort of connection is the real panty peeler and that only comes with natural intelligence and empathy.
 
I believe that a good lover is one who has such empathy, who is so well connected to you and your needs that he/she can almost feel the same things as you when they are talking to you, touching you, kissing you. That sort of connection is the real panty peeler and that only comes with natural intelligence and empathy.

I love you because I know no other way

than this: where I does not exist, nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.
 
But at least you'll be stoned with yr panties off.

Back when I was a regular smoker, getting high with a guy was definitely a panty peeler. Between the laughing and the music, I'd eventually ponder how much I'd enjoy an orgasm, and if a potential partner were present, he'd probably at least have a chance. It happened enough times that the advice of 'share some weed with her' would clearly increase one's chances of getting laid. (Much more often, though, I'd get high before bedtime and then masturbate to wild flights of fantasies.)
 
Back when I was a regular smoker, getting high with a guy was definitely a panty peeler. Between the laughing and the music, I'd eventually ponder how much I'd enjoy an orgasm, and if a potential partner were present, he'd probably at least have a chance. It happened enough times that the advice of 'share some weed with her' would clearly increase one's chances of getting laid. (Much more often, though, I'd get high before bedtime and then masturbate to wild flights of fantasies.)

When I was younger and got stoned before a bang, I could last for over an hour.
The girl I was with at the time was a lightweight when it came to smoking but she loved to fuck. Good times...

Now, sadly, I'm lucky if I last 10 minutes. But I always try to get her off first.
 
My panties drop so fast for older men who know what they want and aren't afraid to tell you they want it. Mmmmmm!
 
This question is inherently flawed, though.

It assumes that there is some magical combination of words and behaviors that a guy can do that will guarantee sex.

it's like they're trying to figure out the cheat code to the video game that is women.

The fact is, there is no code, because there's no game. we're people. you have to buckle down and actually talk to us and learn who we are. and maybe we're interested... and maybe we're not. and you just have to suck it up, because we're ALLOWED to not be interested.

but I will tell you the #1 thing that GUARANTEES you won't be getting any from me: if I get even a SLIGHT notion that you're trying to figure out how to game me.

I second this.
 
Also odd, I think, is that sometimes when a guy corrects me when I'm wrong about something and does it in a kind and helpful manner, he has unwittingly begun the process of getting my panties off. It may very well not happen, of course, and he is quite probably unaware that he did anything of the sort, but he did grease the skids a bit.

This happened the other day. We disagreed on something, and then he showed me that he was right. I don't like being wrong, but I do like to become right. It's weird even to me, but this guy went from being just a random guy to being someone that I began pondering as a possible sex partner. I'm sure he had no idea.
 
This happened the other day. We disagreed on something, and then he showed me that he was right. I don't like being wrong, but I do like to become right. It's weird even to me, but this guy went from being just a random guy to being someone that I began pondering as a possible sex partner. I'm sure he had no idea.

Was it just the way he showed you?
 
I just had a moment with hubby. Picture this. We are lying on the bed, kids in front of TV.... Occupied. It's raining and we are relaxing. He says that he would like to empty his balls. I say is the intention to be mutually beneficial and he says no! It got him No Where! I was horny but camp levels miffed that he would just be thinking of himself. Fucker missed out.ow I'll go and masturbate to satisfy my needs, I'm not missing out because he wanted to be a dick!
 
Confidence, but not arrogance.

This has been the key to my success. The nights that I'm on my "A" game and feeling ten feet tall it's not a matter of if the panties will drop, it's whose going to be dropping them. But it is a fine line to walk. I do get carried away and crossover to being arrogant and watch the conversation come to a screeching halt.
 
Playing music for me. Be it strumming a guitar or sharing a song with me that brings me to his/her mind. 100% panty peeler.
 
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