Pegging upgrade to Shemale ? Would you do it ?

[Escierto]

No one is saying that.. and it's unfair to characterize it that way.

What's being said by some straight people is that if a person is otherwise convincingly feminine that having a penis would not be a deal breaker for a sexual relationship.

As I said - and I'm sure this is true for many - I was attracted to the opposite gender around 8-9 years old, which was long before I had any knowledge of the differences in genitalia. And at no point was I ever shown a picture of a dick and of a vagina and asked, "okay, so which appeals to you?" No.. I was drawn to girls' visible expressed femininity and all that includes.. Softer facial features, higher voice, different smell (pheramones?), different shaped butt, smaller, prettier feet.... And so on. . So my sexual attraction toward women is not necessarily rooted in what kind of genitals they have. ..It so happens that EVERY single person I've ever had sex with had a vagina, and yes, they were all very feminine women. But if I were single and found myself attracted to the femininity of a Trans woman, I'd be fine with her having a dick.

As for belief that my enjoying being pegged makes me bi-sexual. Please explain? ..Is it the depth of penetration that defines it? Is it the girth of the object? ..If a woman sticks a finger tip in a guys ass during a blowjob and he enjoys it, does that mean he's at least a teeny weeny bit bi-sexual? What about women who enjoy anal penetration? What does your slide rule of gender and sexual norms say about that?

Well said. For many guys, obviously you and me, there is a big attraction to femininity even before you know anything about the birds and the bees. When I see my girlfriend, I just see the femininity that is so attractive. Who even thinks genitals when you see a pretty woman? You just think, "She is so appealing to me."

 

[Escierto]

Well said. For many guys, obviously you and me, there is a big attraction to femininity even before you know anything about the birds and the bees. When I see my girlfriend, I just see the femininity that is so attractive. Who even thinks genitals when you see a pretty woman? You just think, "She is so appealing to me."

In fact, there is not even really a thought process. It's just a sensation or an emotion or feeling of being drawn to someone. It is simply desire.

 

[andthighbootsforall]

In fact, there is not even really a thought process. It's just a sensation or an emotion or feeling of being drawn to someone. Just desire.

I’m picturing being at a bar, having a few drinks and being attracted to her. She catches my eye, her legs are beautiful and she is sexy as hell. Do I know? Do I suspect it, or am I clueless? By k owing their is mystery and intrigue. We leave and I’m horny as hell. I want her so bad that I am uncontrollably shaking. We kiss and I slowly remove her top and suck on her nipples. She goes down on me and gives me a most impressive blow job. She pushes me to the bed and moves her crotch towards me and I know I’m going to be eating pussy in a moment. I’m hot and my cock wants to burst. She pulls her panties to the side and I am presented with a beautifully shaved cock. Answer: I’m taking that thing all the way down my throat and making love to it. I’m letting it fuck me till I can’t stand it. At some point it just became sex between two individuals. Maybe someday….

 

[Escierto]

For some reason, I just noticed the title of the thread, "Pegging upgrade..." I chuckled and thought to myself, "Oh, it's an upgrade all right!" Like moving up to first class from economy.

 

[magic_rat]

No one is saying that.. and it's unfair to characterize it that way.

I was talking generally, about hundreds of other threads, not this one specifically.

What's being said by some straight men is that if a person is otherwise convincingly feminine that having a penis would not be a deal breaker for a sexual relationship.

And nor should it be.

And I reject your contention that makes me bi-sexual, and not because I find the label offensive, it's just not accurate.

All fair comments.

As to your belief that my enjoying being pegged makes me bi-sexual. Please explain. ..Is it the depth of penetration that defines it? Is it the girth of the object? ..If a woman sticks the tip of her pinky in a guys ass during a blowjob and he enjoys it, does that mean he's at least a teeny weeny bit bi-sexual?

I think sexuality is a sliding scale. I think to be 100% straight or 100% gay is probably a rarity. But that's just my take.

What about women who enjoy some sort of anal penetration from a man? What does your slide rule of gender and sexual norms say about that?

It says god bless 'em! But women who enjoy anal are a separate issue - the subject is men who enjoy an ostensibly homosexual act (sucking cock or sodomy) but (maybe?) legitimise it by having a woman as a surrogate.

From a psychological standpoint it's a fascinating subject.

Does it mean they'd be just as fine w/ anal penetration from a women? What if they tell you the wouldn't be? Would you presume them to be in denial about their bisexuality?

Sorry Wizard, but it's back to Hogwarts for you for remedial Sex Education.

I shall continue to explore!

The best thing about having outspoken opinions is that it opens up subjects for discussion. Long may it be so.

 

[LMWM321]

The best thing about having outspoken opinions is that it opens up subjects for discussion. Long may it be so.

I still disagree with much of your post but I agree with the above statement and appreciate you're not being so thin-skinned as to take offense to my Hogwarts comment. ..But when you call yourself "The Grand Wizard of Fuck" you sorta gotta expect it.

 

[magic_rat]

I still disagree with much of your post but I agree with the above statement and appreciate you're not being so thin-skinned as to take offense to my Hogwarts comment. ..But when you call yourself "The Grand Wizard of Fuck" you sorta gotta expect it.

I'm 62. I have the skin of a rhino and it's always good to dive in and argue the toss with like-minded and intelligent folk.

The Grand Wizard of Fuck title has been earned the hard way from several years of swinging and by being a genuinely disgustingly perverted old man. Don't diss the Wizz!

 

[cuckold01]

I would love to try a shemale that is my favorite fetish

 

[eroticbum]

Hell Yeah I would upgrade to a beautiful shemale. Pretty woman face, nice breasts, no facial hair or shaving needed.
She could choose to be top or bottom, 69 would be fun. She'd be just as capable for HJ's , BJ's , etc
Could I be with a shemale instead of a woman - why not? If she's into anal for both, who needs a pussy!

 

[easyoff]

In a heartbeat

 

[subdudeme13]

Is a a chick with a dick different than a Shemale. There are some I have seen that could have me easily, especially the Domme ones. Best kiss I ever had was a Shemale and I didn't even know it at the time till I met her friends. They were all hot in one way or another, some obviously gay. That was a long time ago.