Mine is 13 inches soft with 8 inch circumference.
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Mine is 13 inches soft with 8 inch circumference.
Eilan
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I know, right?
Well, the last time a guy asked me about penis size we were in a chat. I TOLD him what my mommie said when I was little: "Anything more than a mouthful is JUST WASTED!"
After about an hour in chat, I began to understand that he wanted to be told how small he was, how inadequate as a man, how he could never "satisfy" a woman. Later I discovered a whole genre in the "cuckold" scene: The gay, bi, femdom, CD, TS, "wife in control," "cuck-in-panties" stuff.
So I can't tell if you really want to be reassured, or to be told you are inadequate...
I have never had a cock that was "too small." I have only one rule about penis size: If it won't fit in my MOUTH, it doesn't go in my ASS.
After about an hour in chat, I began to understand that he wanted to be told how small he was, how inadequate as a man, how he could never "satisfy" a woman. Later I discovered a whole genre in the "cuckold" scene: The gay, bi, femdom, CD, TS, "wife in control," "cuck-in-panties" stuff.
So I can't tell if you really want to be reassured, or to be told you are inadequate...
I have never had a cock that was "too small." I have only one rule about penis size: If it won't fit in my MOUTH, it doesn't go in my ASS.
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I should probably stay out of this thread. One of the most annoyed questions I can be asked is "What's the biggest you've been with?"
My reply?
How am I suppposed to know that? What do you want me to do?
"Oh wait, here babe, before we start this, let me just pull this ruler out right...here. Yeah ok, now hold still! It'll only take a second I swear!"
Lol, I can't help it.
My reply?
How am I suppposed to know that? What do you want me to do?
"Oh wait, here babe, before we start this, let me just pull this ruler out right...here. Yeah ok, now hold still! It'll only take a second I swear!"
Lol, I can't help it.
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The answer is always, "Your cock is the biggest/girthiest/longest/most orgasm-inducing I've ever had."
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Whenever a date asks you this, hand him a prepared questionnaire that covers penile dimensions, goals and aptitudes before you let him into your apartment. If he gets to page 3 before looking up, slam the front door and turn the deadbolt. If he rings your doorbell an hour later to ask for more sheets of paper to complete the essay question, call the police.
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I'm just slightly above6in erect and have never had a complaint (at least to my face lol). Considering that is right in the realm of average, for a caucasian, its goodenough for me. I have never sweated it, nor shld anyone else. No sense stressing abt somethingyou can't change
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I'm on the small side 4 1/8" length and 3 1/8" girth.
Here's the The Authentic Women’s Penis Size Preference Chart.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/peggy/the-authentic-womens-penis-size-preference-chart
The original poster said he was 7 inches length and 1.5 - 2 inches in girth.
Must of got the girth wrong.
Here's the The Authentic Women’s Penis Size Preference Chart.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/peggy/the-authentic-womens-penis-size-preference-chart
The original poster said he was 7 inches length and 1.5 - 2 inches in girth.
Must of got the girth wrong.
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In my opinion some guys can be way too insecure about it. You want to know what a woman likes? A guy who is comfortable with himself but not arrogant. My own boyfriend refers to his penis as "delightfully average" in size and I really like that.
Especially since, being a petite girl, anything too big is going to split me into two.
Keep in mind that penises aren't the only things that come in all kinds of size. Vaginas vary just as much, so what's going to be large for one girl may not be for another.
Especially since, being a petite girl, anything too big is going to split me into two.
Keep in mind that penises aren't the only things that come in all kinds of size. Vaginas vary just as much, so what's going to be large for one girl may not be for another.
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The "average" size for a penis can vary by country and/or ethnicity. For Americans it is 5 1/2 to 6 inches.
I was with a guy who was about 4 3/4" and it was actually quite nice. I could deep throat him with no problem and he could fuck the hell out of me without hurting me at all.
Having said that I always heard that most women prefer girth over length. They like being full but without their cervix getting tapped. That can be painful.
As with everything else it is personal preference and knowing how to use what you have!
I was with a guy who was about 4 3/4" and it was actually quite nice. I could deep throat him with no problem and he could fuck the hell out of me without hurting me at all.
Having said that I always heard that most women prefer girth over length. They like being full but without their cervix getting tapped. That can be painful.
As with everything else it is personal preference and knowing how to use what you have!
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I am about the same (except that my diameter is about 1.5´´), and never had any complaints so far. Does this help?
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Mine isn't thick. About like a beer can. But man, it's loooong!!!
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I've always wondered what the girls talk about when I leave the room.
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A little advice, confidence is sexy. And one way to be confidence is to learn about the bodies you want to make love to so you can rely on skill instead of penis size.
My wife is 4' 9" and 85 pounds. Our three kids were all by c-section so she has not had her vagina stretched by childbirth.
My penis is just barely 3 inches when fully erect, and about 1.5 inches when soft. It is thick for it's length...5 inches around. And it fits her just great! It is perfect for oral in her tiny mouth and hand jobs from her little hands.
However, it is too short for doggie and anal. When she wants that for playtime, I wear a strap-on....which gets interesting because my petite pecker wants attention at the same time.
To say the least, my dimunitive dick has taught us to enjoy a wide array of intimate, sensual, and erotic activities! We are both confident and assertive with our needs, and flexible with our explorations.
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This post makes me feel great! I doubt I will ever have more than 3 inches. It does seem thick though. My wife loves it so I am very happy.
I also use a strap on and it is a blast since I can come while using it. Variety is the spice of life!
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While this seems to be a constant question, ladies please understand men are insecure. It's more about nature and how we are programed. In the animal world, which we are part of, there is competition to procreate.
So since we don't typically come with brightly colored feathers it's a item of concern. If you think about mating rituals, most of us do them anyway, how we look, dance, talk, height, weight , physique and interact in general are all done in the animal kingdom, so have some patience humor us and no matter what any if us say think or hear, we are all at some level and some point insecure.
It can deflate our ego a bit to think that the woman you are with might be thinking of some fabulous alpha male in her past as opposed to the person in the moment. One of the ways we bolster ourselves is to think that we are the best lover and that our attributes are superior in every way.
But really we all know the truth... there is always someone bigger better and more able in most things in life, so when we ask - be nice if you can.
I mean really, do men ever ask, "are we the smartest male you have ever been with?"
Oh and mine is just a little smaller than you or I want it to be but hopefully it will do.
So since we don't typically come with brightly colored feathers it's a item of concern. If you think about mating rituals, most of us do them anyway, how we look, dance, talk, height, weight , physique and interact in general are all done in the animal kingdom, so have some patience humor us and no matter what any if us say think or hear, we are all at some level and some point insecure.
It can deflate our ego a bit to think that the woman you are with might be thinking of some fabulous alpha male in her past as opposed to the person in the moment. One of the ways we bolster ourselves is to think that we are the best lover and that our attributes are superior in every way.
But really we all know the truth... there is always someone bigger better and more able in most things in life, so when we ask - be nice if you can.
I mean really, do men ever ask, "are we the smartest male you have ever been with?"
Oh and mine is just a little smaller than you or I want it to be but hopefully it will do.
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I was self conscious about my small size. My length is a hair over 4" and my girth is a tiny 3 1/8".
Now that we are in a wife slut/cuckold lifestyle I'm very happy and not insecure about being small. So much of a turn on for me that my wife is taking two bigger cocks.
Now that we are in a wife slut/cuckold lifestyle I'm very happy and not insecure about being small. So much of a turn on for me that my wife is taking two bigger cocks.
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Are you new around these parts?**shocked an "is my penis big enough" thread reached pg 2**
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I have to agree, that bigger is not always better. All they want to do is "make you take it", and not give you any of the pleasure you want /need.
And it is not always about the size, if they can manuver it around in you, hit your spots, that is what matters, to me at least
And it is not always about the size, if they can manuver it around in you, hit your spots, that is what matters, to me at least
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I'm not small, or porn star big either, going at it from different angles, from behind or with legs over the shoulders, you can usu induce a gasp! Mind you, I've seen a lot of women on here say they enjoy a really huge one, the feeling of being filled, so obv it doesn't go for everyone
Most of the thing about penis size is based on male's ideas of sex and competitiveness....have seen plenty of cocks, had sex with some of them, and from experience most men overstate their dimensions. Part of the answer is cock size is 'measurable', whereas how good someone is in bed is subjective. A women friend of mine told me a story, there was a guy she and a friend of hers had dated, had sex with...my friend said the guy had a pretty nice sized cock but frankly in bed was a dud, had no creativity, came really fast, was basically a cross between inexperienced and a jerk..meanwhile her friend went around bragging about how good he was in bed, that his big cock was great...and my friend said it was the girl bragging about one thing she could, his size *lol*. I also kind of wonder in the same vein about women (or men) who are 'size queens' if because they themselves are not very experienced in bed or aren't good at getting what they want. A large cock I would hazard a guess, based on my own limited experience, can make up for lack of technique, but part of sex is the woman knowing what works for her and getting it....
Yeah, there are limits with cock size, if you aren't endowed particularly well anal or doggie style can be hard, especially if your wife is not petite or is more plus sized, but there are ways to use strapons. More importantly, there are a ton of ways to get off, ways to make it incredible. A man can use his fingers to give a simultaneous vaginal and clitoral orgasm or use that to 'prime the pump' then finish of with whatever he has, the whole body is an erogenous zone, and I would be willing to lay money that a woman would find it a lot more pleasurable to have someone who spent time working on their erogenous zones, targeting the sweet spots, and otherwise giving her pleasure building up to vaginal sex then having some oaf with a 10" cock stick it in her mouth then slam it in her vagina and get off......
I also think it is more of a male thing for a very different reason. When I was attempting transition for a number of years (before 'reverting back' for a number of reasons), I had my encounters with men (and in my limited experience, while a large cock can be fun, without technique it is basically a living dildo), and the funny part was when chatting guys up on IM, etc, or at a club, often the first question they would ask me is how big my 'stuff' was (cute way to put it, right?) and then tell me how big theirs was....like, I am all dolled up, probably like a slut, the guy is hitting on me, I am obviously wanting to get fucked, etc, and they are asking me how big I am? I realize a lot of these guys are closet queens looking to have me fuck them and so forth, but even with the ones who wanted to fuck me they asked me that, and it was like WTF? (Some guys didn't ask that about me, but most of them talked about their size.......). It to me is very much a male thing, and it also is why most of the LW stories on cheating wives focus on big dicks and such, because they are written by men who make a big deal out of it.....makes me grateful that my primary relationship stayed intact through a very stupid period in my life (not the transition, trying to fool around, not that I did much), because I realize just how ridiculous some things are
Yeah, there are limits with cock size, if you aren't endowed particularly well anal or doggie style can be hard, especially if your wife is not petite or is more plus sized, but there are ways to use strapons. More importantly, there are a ton of ways to get off, ways to make it incredible. A man can use his fingers to give a simultaneous vaginal and clitoral orgasm or use that to 'prime the pump' then finish of with whatever he has, the whole body is an erogenous zone, and I would be willing to lay money that a woman would find it a lot more pleasurable to have someone who spent time working on their erogenous zones, targeting the sweet spots, and otherwise giving her pleasure building up to vaginal sex then having some oaf with a 10" cock stick it in her mouth then slam it in her vagina and get off......
I also think it is more of a male thing for a very different reason. When I was attempting transition for a number of years (before 'reverting back' for a number of reasons), I had my encounters with men (and in my limited experience, while a large cock can be fun, without technique it is basically a living dildo), and the funny part was when chatting guys up on IM, etc, or at a club, often the first question they would ask me is how big my 'stuff' was (cute way to put it, right?) and then tell me how big theirs was....like, I am all dolled up, probably like a slut, the guy is hitting on me, I am obviously wanting to get fucked, etc, and they are asking me how big I am? I realize a lot of these guys are closet queens looking to have me fuck them and so forth, but even with the ones who wanted to fuck me they asked me that, and it was like WTF? (Some guys didn't ask that about me, but most of them talked about their size.......). It to me is very much a male thing, and it also is why most of the LW stories on cheating wives focus on big dicks and such, because they are written by men who make a big deal out of it.....makes me grateful that my primary relationship stayed intact through a very stupid period in my life (not the transition, trying to fool around, not that I did much), because I realize just how ridiculous some things are
