phone sex

[outdoorsman69]

lol playmate darlin...soulmate requires me to get personal

Lol, good point! ***swoon*** nontheless....

 

[outdoorsman69]

But it's true. He has an accent. Women (and many men) are suckers for accents. I have several friends in the UK and they all sound different and there are times I have to ask them to repeat themselves, but I'm sure they could talk about the weather and I'd walk away with wet panties. "rain??, you mean wet? why yes, yes I am"

You might understand this being from the south and knowing women love southern accents too.

****raises hand agreeing with this statement!

Drive me crazy in an oh so good way!

 

[michael1966b]

Connection

awww that's kind of a sad truth When I want to talk on the phone/skype it's strictly for the sex. I am not looking to get personal and have that "special connection" because I'm not looking to meet you in person anyway. The connection we have IS the sex. Not to say I won't talk to a playmate further, but for the most part I'm not looking to get personal.

Shelby, let me clarify my remarks. When I say connection, I don't mean an emotional attachment, with the thought of maybe meeting in person. I mean that we are compatible. That we have similar desires. Some want imaginative role play, some just want to know someone is aroused on the other end of the phone, also masturbating and sharing that experience in all it's erotic aural magic. Some want BDSM scenarios, some want a daddy, and some do want a long term, monogamous phone relationship. It's good to know you are on the same page and have that "connection."

 

[ShelbyBubbles]

Shelby, let me clarify my remarks. When I say connection, I don't mean an emotional attachment, with the thought of maybe meeting in person. I mean that we are compatible. That we have similar desires. Some want imaginative role play, some just want to know someone is aroused on the other end of the phone, also masturbating and sharing that experience in all it's erotic aural magic. Some want BDSM scenarios, some want a daddy, and some do want a long term, monogamous phone relationship. It's good to know you are on the same page and have that "connection."

I don't think you necessarily have to clarify what you meant because when it boils down to it, you still mean somewhat of a personal/emotional connection if you're talking about wanting small talk before hand to see if you even want to go further into any play. I also understand someone's desire for a certain kind of "connection" in a genre that fits their mood for the moment...and to each their own in any said occasion. However...that connection is different. Again...I agree with you that women have their choice when it comes to finding a playmate so it's not difficult for someone like me to leave out the small talk and get right to it. I drop that "connection" by choice because to me...it gets in the way of my mood at the moment. Not to say I won't talk after playing on skype, but it's not even necessary. lol....sleeping over is optional.

 

[michael1966b]

So Shelby, are you often already playing when you initiate phone sex? Just need a little help in the end to help push you over the edge? I've talked to women on the phone in that situation, and they usually let me know right away they have NO interest in small talk, but want to get right to it. Those phone calls are always fun, spontaneous, and usually very satisfying. But those women don't usually want a long term phone relationship. Maybe it's a thrill to not know who you are going to get on the other end of the phone when you are getting close to that wonderful release!!

Sorry, just curious (and a little turned on, thinking about all this phone sex that I'm not having!!).

 

[ShelbyBubbles]

Oh no need to be sorry I'm open to questions lol. And it depends on my mood and who may be around or available as to what I'm going to do with someone. I can go long term(months, years) playing with someone and not know their personal affairs or life. If we're on at the same time and in the same mood...great. Sometimes it's a quickie...for whatever reason and sometimes it's fun to play for a long time arousing one another to the highest level possible. Without going into great personal detail, lol...every play session is different and it varies. I'm certainly not trying to offend any woman that wants a monogamous and consistent one on one phone/skype partner that she can feel a close connection with...I'm just saying, I'm not one.

 

[kingkoll]

i love phone sex.hearing a woman moaning,talking dirty is just so erotic.fantasizing of how she is touching herself,both describing how turned on we are.just so much fun

 

[Beth87]

I prefer a connection, phone sex is quite intimate and vulnerable ..for me. IMs or video when I used to do that..less so but if there wasn't a connection there wouldn't be a repeat performance. Whether it's an illusion or not, the connection stops that sex toy feeling - unless I want to feel like I am one. Even then, is rather play that out with someone there is trust with. I used to have a number of friends with benefits on here. I like the flirty, seduce my mind and body play

 

[TwistingEther]

I've done it with complete strangers looking to get off, and I've done it with people I know quite well. I have something of a voyeurism fetish, so in both cases it's been quite the experience for me - something about the performance of the sex and the way she reacts.

 

[OneHD]

LOL! If she's blowing her nails dry then someone isn't doing something right....

You got that Right Treasured .. I used to Enjoy it .. But I lost track of all my Partners .. Getting Her so Excited and listening to Her Moans of Pleasure, while
I'm enjoying Her teasing and Playing with me as I do Her .. It can be Very Pleasurable ..

 

[kingkoll]

i miss having a regular girl i can call up just for phone sex.have a strong friendship with her,no string attached,just someone to have fun with with no worries about anything else

 

[MrEd63]

i miss having a regular girl i can call up just for phone sex.have a strong friendship with her,no string attached,just someone to have fun with with no worries about anything else

Same here - I regularly used to have phone sex with a South African Lady in her 20's. Things were wonderfully dirty and intense but I haven't heard from her in months

 

[mrspank30]

I know there are women out there that enjoy playing on the phone (or Skype, Yahoo voice, etc). I've talked to them over the years!

The issues I've found are that there are 10 men for every woman wanting phone play (ladies have their pick!). Also, women really need to have a connection, or it just isn't fun. Most hate talking on the phone if there are too many expectations. Every once in awhile I'll run across the woman that is close to cumming and just wants a quick "push" on the phone to get her over the edge. But most times, the women want to feel a connection, and a sense of trust that he's not going to be an ass (mean on the phone, stalker type, cum right away and hang up before she's had her orgasm, etc).

The best times for me are when she agrees to talk with no expectation of phone sex. Then we can see if our personalities are a match. A few of these times, we hit it off, starting with small talk, got comfortable with each other, and eventually I could tell she wanted to move forward with the mutual self pleasuring. Mmmmm

Ladies, tell us about your experiences that went well!

Dead on.. To many guys try to force a connection. If there is sexual chemistry it need not be forced. In fact the opposite happens. If the chemistry happens it it erotic and overwhelming.n that is the best phone sex.

 

[justits]

I enjoy phone sex. But I don't just quickly do it with the next guy. I need some sort of chemistry between me and the guy....I need to be attracted to him on some level. The phone sex is our fantasy fuck session. Criterias need to be met.

 

[roxs12ems]

I love phone sex. I love to hear her voice, imagine her body and get lost in the fantasy we have created.

 

[kingkoll]

i agree with justtits..i like to know the person.build a friendship and take things from there.i like talking with the person and have our fun at times.exploring fantasies and our wild sides

 

[Hipshot1554]

I prefer a connection, phone sex is quite intimate and vulnerable ..for me. IMs or video when I used to do that..less so but if there wasn't a connection there wouldn't be a repeat performance. Whether it's an illusion or not, the connection stops that sex toy feeling - unless I want to feel like I am one. Even then, is rather play that out with someone there is trust with. I used to have a number of friends with benefits on here. I like the flirty, seduce my mind and body play

Perfectly said. When both minds are imagining the same things it works very well.

 

[Shadow701]

I've only had phone sex a couple times, but I always enjoyed it. Yea, the connection between the two can be crucial. Makes the imagination run wild.

 

[kingkoll]

any ladies want to share some of their phone sex stories with me?

 

[ridinghood]

Kingkoll, surely phone sex is inferior to talking and stuff, on cam?

 

[kingkoll]

cam would be fun.never did that.i do have a cam though

 

[ridinghood]

You should try it - it's like phone sex with pictures!

 

[kingkoll]

if any ladies want to go on cam with me then i'm game lol

 

[Itsahard1]

After building a connection through text, it's such a logical next step to be able to hear each other and interact in real time. Giving and sharing without the lag from posting - the immediacy is so much more arousing and exciting. Hearing each other climax has to be the best.

 

[Beth87]

I like phone sex with pictures but I don't feel either is superior from my engagement pov. But then I do enjoy watching a guy jerk off to camera and that is much easier with microphones. Though I have done just cam and text..challenging all round