phone sex

Nothing hotter to me than hearing a man cum, loudly, losing control...... Sigh.

to let go with a stranger ... preferably mutually, simultaneously ... after significant foreplay and knowing how turned on the other person is by the aural stimulation ... is so ... hot. :cool:
 
Sometimes it's helpful to have cybersex - interaction via IM or even, if you can stand the clunkiness, PM - before trying phone. If someone likes your style in print, that's a pretty good, though not infallible indicator that you'll enjoy voice.
 
Sometimes some exchanges are necessary first to make sure the connection is there..and if it is..wow..the voice exchange is just incredible
 
GF and I love having phone sex. Especially when we have to go weeks without seeing each other.
 
I have had amazing phone sex. That has always been with a couple select on-line friends that i had been chatting with for a while. Have also had times when it has been awkward.

Havent done it in a while. I have came, while on the phone, for a friend who could only listen at the time
 
Hubby and I used to do this all the time when we were dating since we were a part a lot. I loved it. We still do it occasionally when he's away. :)
 
I'm not as into some aspects of phone sex... don't really like to have to think through the make believe "Imagine me doing this" especially since it can be so cliché. The thinking distracts.

BUT... I love hearing a woman's pleasure. Prefer to experience it in person, but hearing it is really nice, too. Moans arouse!

Another thing that can be fun is being sortof "sub" without the make-believe... being told what to do in real life there, all by my lonesome... how to touch, use or abuse my body in a leisurely and possibly kinky session... describing it back and moaning in pleasure, hearing her pleasure.

Otherwise, I lean more toward just enjoying talking, flirting, talking about sex and masturbating together for each other to hear.
 
Had my first real phone sex last night with an absolutely lovely woman here on lit... I still get incredibly turned on thinking about the almost 2 hours we spent together, so incredible! I was very awkward and nervous at first, but she was so kind and patient and eased me in. Can't believe I've never had an experience like that before, and really hoping to have another soon! SO personal, intimate, incredibly arousing... last night will probably keep me going for a week:)
 
It has been a loooonnnggg time since I have had phone sex.

I absolutely love it but I won't do it with just anyone.

I feel it is more intimate and special.

Very hot to hear a man tell you the things he wants to do to you and hearing him orgasm.

:devil:
 
Again, I must have some weird experiences, but I've had fantastic phone sex experiences. Heck, I had some last night with someone from lit!! I love hearing a man cum, and knowing he's cumming from me? Love it. I also love getting a man turned on by cumming for him.

No, not an invite. But just stating that I thought this was more normal than apparently it is. Maybe i'm phone easy?
How true that is Goddess Tink..... I had a long and amazing relationship with a woman miles and miles away. Phone sex was off the charts for both of us. We had this connection that was intense and fulfilling but the two things I'll always remember and cherish was that she loved my Dirty Talk and she loved hearing me cum and knowing that she was the reason and inspiration.
 
Had my first real phone sex last night with an absolutely lovely woman here on lit... I still get incredibly turned on thinking about the almost 2 hours we spent together, so incredible! I was very awkward and nervous at first, but she was so kind and patient and eased me in. Can't believe I've never had an experience like that before, and really hoping to have another soon! SO personal, intimate, incredibly arousing... last night will probably keep me going for a week:)

That sounds like my kind of phone sex, glad you experienced it!
 
I was very awkward and nervous at first, but she was so kind and patient and eased me in. SO personal, intimate, incredibly arousing... last night will probably keep me going for a week:)

Nerves are a real possibility, and people who are just trying phone or voice in whatever medium should be aware of that.

I remember the first time I had phone sex: It was great, but I freaked out afterward. It was like, My God, I did this with someone I've never even met in person! What the hell was I thinking?!

The next time we spoke on the phone, I was still feeling that way, and I started to stammer something about how maybe it wasn't a good idea to continue, but my friend sensed where I was going and very kindly told me how she'd enjoyed herself the previous time and how she'd happily curled up and gone to sleep afterward. I calmed right down, and my nervous breakup scene turned into more sex. :cool:

The first time I got on the phone with my second partner, I wasn't conflicted about the experience, but I did get stage fright, so to speak: I just got really nervous and had to talk with her awhile about non-sexual stuff while I calmed down. Fortunately, we had been in touch for quite awhile over IM and we had a good rapport.

Anyway, the moral is, remember that we're all human: Sometimes you have to give yourself or your partner a break.
 
When I first got really into chat rooms while I was in college I made some very attractive friends in other countries and had some phenomenal phone sex with a few of them, staying up until all hours of the night for time zones to allow at times too.
One of them phone sexed me while she had me on speaker and I got to assist her best female, who was in the room with her eating her out, in getting her off. I actually met one or two of them in person too and it was amazing to get to experience in reality what had sometimes been multi year long online relationships.
That was awesome.
 
It has been a loooonnnggg time since I have had phone sex.

I absolutely love it but I won't do it with just anyone.

I feel it is more intimate and special.

Very hot to hear a man tell you the things he wants to do to you and hearing him orgasm.

:devil:

And the reverse is true, there is something enormously erotic, sensual and yet naughty and slightly kinky, about hearing a woman orgasm as you speak.... Knowing your words have helped her reach that peak, hearing her descriptions of how she is working up, its amazing! To cum for her, maybe even with her, is a real pleasure. However, most memorable was the call I took in the quiet of a First Class rail carriage early one morning. My lover at the time explained in great detail what was in where, what she was imagining and crashed to a noisy climax... I hid a bulge for quite some time, but could not hide the smile on my face.

Alas we are no longer in touch, and I am now out of practice!
 
Skinny I totally agree with you , knowing she is 'turned on' and really enjoying it ..
 
I love how her voice becomes huskier as she becomes aroused...you can almost hear her biting her lip...
 
And the reverse is true, there is something enormously erotic, sensual and yet naughty and slightly kinky, about hearing a woman orgasm as you speak.... Knowing your words have helped her reach that peak, hearing her descriptions of how she is working up, its amazing! To cum for her, maybe even with her, is a real pleasure. However, most memorable was the call I took in the quiet of a First Class rail carriage early one morning. My lover at the time explained in great detail what was in where, what she was imagining and crashed to a noisy climax... I hid a bulge for quite some time, but could not hide the smile on my face.

Alas we are no longer in touch, and I am now out of practice!

*smiles softly*

Yes.

The lovers that have had me over the phone have loved to hear me climax.
 
There is such a thing isn't there.... A sex voice. I definitely have one too ! :)

Well I am sure everyone does. :p

I just meant I remembered it by his post.

That I have the normal everyday voice which is my mom wife friend voice and then the other one...

the uber sexy I have to have you lover please take me oh god yes baby right there don't stop oh I am cumming voice.

:)
 
Well I am sure everyone does. :p

I just meant I remembered it by his post.

That I have the normal everyday voice which is my mom wife friend voice and then the other one...

the uber sexy I have to have you lover please take me oh god yes baby right there don't stop oh I am cumming voice.

:)

And that was the one she used as the ticket collector stopped by..... Right after she told me, huskily, groaning, oozing sexuality, which plug she had just lodged firmly in her ass before she began the slow climb to a gasping climax.

I do miss those calls....!
 
And that was the one she used as the ticket collector stopped by..... Right after she told me, huskily, groaning, oozing sexuality, which plug she had just lodged firmly in her ass before she began the slow climb to a gasping climax.

I do miss those calls....!

Here to tell you everyone doesn't lol. Having a make me cum voice is something noticed by people when it's there. Everyone may try....particularly in phone sex land but a lot miss.
 
And that was the one she used as the ticket collector stopped by..... Right after she told me, huskily, groaning, oozing sexuality, which plug she had just lodged firmly in her ass before she began the slow climb to a gasping climax.

I do miss those calls....!

That does sound awesome though :)
 
Really want to try it

Im 18 and I would love to have phone sex with a woman, I have never done it before and I have the house to myself tomorrow Morning. Anyone up for it? :)
 
Well I am sure everyone does. :p

I just meant I remembered it by his post.

That I have the normal everyday voice which is my mom wife friend voice and then the other one...

the uber sexy I have to have you lover please take me oh god yes baby right there don't stop oh I am cumming voice.

:)

I definitely want to hear the second voice.
 
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