Polyrelationship troubles...

[CutieMouse]

i feel sorry for you cutiemouse.
love IS all encompassing, no matter how fucked up the individual is.
until you realize this, i pity you.
put your hand out. lay it in mine. i will not grip it, or restrict you. and i will still love you.

You sound a lot like my ex-husband - right up to the point when we opened our marriage and I found two Lovers... and he didn't.

 

[ivantheterrible]

tit for tat is it? whatever, just sounds like another superority/inferority complex reaction in your statement.
i accept the fact it is easier for a woman to find lovers than men. but you want to rub it in? simply childish.
and i can bet since your husband felt the way i did, he was looking at people's hearts, and those "lovers" you had were childish little boys who were just looking at your pussy.

 

[Netzach]

i accept the fact it is easier for a woman to find lovers than men.

It is?

Maybe if you're completely unconcerned with quality.

Good on the assuming though.

 

[ivantheterrible]

right then................rolls eyes.

 

[Homburg]

tit for tat is it? whatever, just sounds like another superority/inferority complex reaction in your statement.
i accept the fact it is easier for a woman to find lovers than men. but you want to rub it in? simply childish.
and i can bet since your husband felt the way i did, he was looking at people's hearts, and those "lovers" you had were childish little boys who were just looking at your pussy.

Way to get that "One True Way" vibe going, and be personal, insulting, take things in completely the wrong direction.

You have issues that extend far beyond your lack of comprehension of the purpose of the shift key and overly casual association with grammar and punctuation. But you apparently have the deed on love and poly, so I'll step off and not challenge your ownership of those concepts...

 

[ivantheterrible]

good, bares teeth.................

 

[Homburg]

good, bares teeth.................

That was sarcasm, ya pathetic lil weed. The only thing you own around here is a poor sense of diction.

You did make me laugh at the chihuahua-like "bares teeth" thing, so points for that

 

[Kathykitten]

Come on guys, way to hijack the thread from this gal, move it to another thread?

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Come on guys, way to hijack the thread from this gal, move it to another thread?

Yeah, the one on the GB where he challenges y'all Domly types to a week in the wild, Daniel Boone style.

 

[Primalex]

those "lovers" you had were childish little boys who were just looking at your pussy.

said the guy with his dick as avatar.

 

[kinkyknickers]

Oh come on Primalex, give Sylvia Plath a break.

 

[CutieMouse]

Come on guys, way to hijack the thread from this gal, move it to another thread?

It isn't the worst hijack ever, really... personally, I'd hate someone wandering through the thread to mistakenly think Disney's Daniel Boon over there knows what the hell he's talking about [re: polyamory, dominance, BDSM in general...]

tit for tat is it? whatever, just sounds like another superority/inferority complex reaction in your statement.

Projection much?

i accept the fact it is easier for a woman to find lovers than men. but you want to rub it in? simply childish.

Easier?

There was no "rubbing it in" - simply a comment to point out that polyamory in theory is a lot easier than polyamory in practice.

and i can bet since your husband felt the way i did, he was looking at people's hearts, and those "lovers" you had were childish little boys who were just looking at your pussy.

Actually, my ex-husband fell in love with other women (on average) 2 - 3 times a year. He had the freedom to maintain close friendships with those women, but [to my knowledge] he never actually slept with them. It didn't make the "affairs" any easier to deal with.

Interesting you should assume my Lovers were both men, or products of a fleeting relationship. The reason my ex had a problem with my polyamory was that my friends and I became Lovers based on a 7 year long relationship/friendship/close emotional connection... he couldn't handle the very situation he'd put me in for our entire 12 year marriage.

 

[BiBunny]

Oh come on Primalex, give Sylvia Plath a break.

*Grabs chest* An insult to Ms. Plath, I tell you!

I'm her biggest fan. /lit nerd mode

 

[Primalex]

Oh come on Primalex, give Sylvia Plath a break.

I have to face the truth - I don't get this one.

 

[dark_tipped_rose]

update

what exactly is the update? was there a sit-down?

 

[Kathykitten]

Well I haven't really seen any posts aimed at helping the threadcreator in a while, I call that a hijack=P Despite everyones noble intentions to enlighten the good threadreaders of course *coughs*

 

[nh23]

said the guy with his dick as avatar.

Hey! It took his mom hours to pick out that particular outfit for the pic!

 

[Kathykitten]

Wondering how this one is going for the threadstarter, if there has been any solving of the issues? Really hope you are having progress Shahla