midwestyankee
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Is there a point to this? I mean besides wasting my valuable electrons?
Fucking kids! Get off my LCD!
Fucking kids! Get off my LCD!
Posture is important in BDSM
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catalina_francisco
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I'm not sure I agree that erotic photography has its origins in BDSM, there is a wealth of excellent erotic photography (not porn) which has nothing at all to do with BDSM. As to posture being important enough to indicate whether someone is real or fake, once again I have to disagree. I have met fakes with excellent posture, and I have met some who have very bad posture who are far from fake...it is all rather subjective to make judgements on such a narrow area.
LOL, in fact I once met a PYL who had lots and lots of photos of his 'slave' in various wonderful poses demonstrating wonderful posture, but apart from that, he rarely saw her and she led her own life, did what she wanted, went where she wanted and only visited him if he wanted to make a couple of new pics of her in position. It answered a need for both of them....he wanted to feel he had a slave and take pics, she wanted pics of herself in popular slave poses....but for me, it would never keep me satisfied in terms of D/s or M/s.
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LOL, in fact I once met a PYL who had lots and lots of photos of his 'slave' in various wonderful poses demonstrating wonderful posture, but apart from that, he rarely saw her and she led her own life, did what she wanted, went where she wanted and only visited him if he wanted to make a couple of new pics of her in position. It answered a need for both of them....he wanted to feel he had a slave and take pics, she wanted pics of herself in popular slave poses....but for me, it would never keep me satisfied in terms of D/s or M/s.
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callinectes2
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I am pretty sure our "real lifestyle submissive" OP means plumber crack. I guess spelling isn't important for "real lifestyle submissives". Whew, good thing because Daddy busts my ass over my spelling poor all of the time.
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i guess my appologies for stirring the pot and apparently even offending people. i guess what i should say is that i specifically enjoy that sort of erotica.
instead of asking whether lasagne is a key component of italian cuisine...i will say this: i love authentic lasagne.
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The only offense I saw was the "true" submissive bit. You'll find a lot of people take offense at that one, because there is no such thing as a "true" submissive. Everybody experiences the lifestyle differently, and no one way is more wrong or right than any other.
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I'm still not understanding what one's pants slipping down has to do with posture, or why that would make them a looser.
*shrugs*
Even with the best posture, every damned pair of jeans I own slip down because of I've lost weight. And a neighbor of mine has his pant slip even with suspenders on because his back muscles bulked up weird due to his type of work.
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Same here... the really pissy part about it is that two pair are less than 6 months old and were snagged on clearance for a quarter of the original price. After a day of hiking them back up ever 3 minutes the overly frugal part of me tempted to eat something fattening.
(It's really nice to think that you'll eventually need to go get smaller pants because you've outgrown the one's you have, isn't it?)
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I'm still not understanding what one's pants slipping down has to do with posture, or why that would make them a looser.
*shrugs*
Even with the best posture, every damned pair of jeans I own slip down because of I've lost weight. And a neighbor of mine has his pant slip even with suspenders on because his back muscles bulked up weird due to his type of work.
It has nothing to do with character, BDSM, posture, race, creed, or religion. I just felt like being a bitch and pointing out her spelling error as she sat in judgment of pants and "losers" (her term, not mine).
chy_girl
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Sorry, I'm in a rather literal mood today.
Which would probably explain why I can't get the connection between posture and having your pants slip down.
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I can literally dance a kick-line with a book balanced on my head but the wii fit still tells me I have bad posture. Go figure.
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My Wii Fit tries to pit me against my husband in this really transparent passive-aggressive way...
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Are you hourglass-y? You'll find this problem with jeans with a high lycra percentage.
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Um, everyone...? Just a FYI:
Looser=MORE LOOSE. As in, these shoes were bigger than the last pair, they feel looser.
LOSER=person who sucks.
I'm shocked that never got brought up.
Surely I can't be the only Grammar Nazi around here? Did the rest of my pack go on vay-cay or something?!
Looser=MORE LOOSE. As in, these shoes were bigger than the last pair, they feel looser.
LOSER=person who sucks.
I'm shocked that never got brought up.
Surely I can't be the only Grammar Nazi around here? Did the rest of my pack go on vay-cay or something?!
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Um, everyone...? Just a FYI:
Looser=MORE LOOSE. As in, these shoes were bigger than the last pair, they feel looser.
LOSER=person who sucks.
I'm shocked that never got brought up.
The "plummercrack" was bad enough! But yes, I noticed, just wasn't in the mood to mention it.
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This made me laugh out loud.
W
where
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I don't get what you mean, can you elaborate?
No, you are wrong actually, the very earliest photographic erotica has very little to do with BDSM (though I have got one photo of a girl being whipped with a riding crop). They are mostly very static and often include voyeurism.
Later photography encompasses just the same breadth of kink as we see in mdern photographic erotica.
