Prayers and thoughts needed.

[EJFan]

very relieved to hear of this quoll... and happy for you both.

 

[bobsgirl]

i'd like to request prayers and thoughts for a good friend. i won't name my friend, but suffice it to say that this person posts here and i think would benefit from it.

ed

You got it, ed.


quoll, that is very welcome news. Sending good thoughts your way.

 

[silverwhisper]

thanks, BG. :>

ed

 

[Guest]

 

[Sarojaede]

Update.
Latest ultrasound shows no sign of placental trauma, baby size is good, and mother feeling calm (phew).
We'll take this one day at a time, but right now I can stop holding my breath.

That is good news, Quoll.

 

[silverwhisper]

thanks, scaly: you're a good man. :>

[claps scaly on the shoulder]

ed

 

[EJFan]

i never saw the original post... sorry SW. i hope your friend feels the good thoughts coming from all of us.

and what waggles said is absolutely true... you're a good guy (for a gamer )

 

[silverwhisper]

it's OK, EJ: that can happen on HT cafe. thanks: i know they're appreciated.

you're a good guy too...for a vinick supporter. :>

ed

 

[Quoll]

Thank you everyone for all your replies and support, it's going to be a long haul but they are in the best place they can be.
Now if anybody knows how to cure three guys who are terribly missing the woman in their lives my boys and I would greatly appreciate it.*sigh*



SW, you would be one of the nicest trout smackers I know, I hope all works out well for your friend.

 

[Guest]

 

[silverwhisper]

quoll, you're a class act: despite the emotional roller coaster tour you've been on, you had the time to offer a few words of comfort. thanks.

i like scaly's idea: i think it's great! hey, if you have a camcorder, what about a video postcard?

wait a sec: three kids? i suppose i should just assume you have one, huh? :>

quoll, how old are the boys?

ed

 

[Leah57]

Quoll - thoughts and prayers with you and your family. Glad to hear that things have stabilized for now. Keep in touch as often as you can.

Ed - Thoughts and prayers for your friend also.

 

[Ladybird]

Thank you everyone for all your replies and support, it's going to be a long haul but they are in the best place they can be.
Now if anybody knows how to cure three guys who are terribly missing the woman in their lives my boys and I would greatly appreciate it.*sigh*

Quoll, does this mean she won't be home now until the babe is born?

No doubt your house seems empty now my friend, so fill it with love, laughter and music.

Prayers for all of you...

 

[Ladybird]

i'd like to request prayers and thoughts for a good friend. i won't name my friend, but suffice it to say that this person posts here and i think would benefit from it.

ed

Ed, you only have to ask and it will happen. Your friend will be remembered and held close as I send love and strength.

 

[Guest]

 

[Quoll]

In the last few days Poss has had some pain and dizzyness as well as more bleeding/fluid loss, at this stage they are at a bit of a loss to explain fully the cause of any of these, possibly changes in blood pressure meds and insulin are the cause of the dizzyness. As I said earlier the placenta does not seem to be the cause of the bleeding, in fact they are not able to tell for certain just how much blood loss is occurring as there is also an amount of amniotic fluid present. All her blood test have come come back clear of any infection and the baby is doing fine.
At the first sign of either a distressed baby, infection or heavy blood loss the baby will be delivered. At present it, (we have no idea of the sex) is continuing to grow and flourish.
Well that's about as clinical as I can make it, if you want the emotional version I'm scared shitless, but then again I always am where she is concerned.
We have pretty much come to accept the fact that barring some miraculous timing I will miss the birth, not happy about it, but their safety is more important to me than anything else.


EJFan
BobsGirl
Eilan
Scalywag
Silverwhisper
Ladybird
Pleasteasme
Wicked Woman
Sarojaede
Noor
Midwestyankee
Leah57
Cymbline
VermilionSkye
Saucyminx
Cathleen
Verbiwhore
Not just a list of names, but an incomplete list of friends, some old, some new, but all with something in common, kindness and compassion and a willingness to help others. Thank You.

To answer a few questions:

Ladybird She will be there until the baby is able to breathe and feed comfortably, however long that takes, but at least a month at this stage.

Tease & Silver. Two boys aged 9 and 4 1/2

Thank you for all your suggestions, hopefully once we get ourselves into some sort of routine we can implement all of them, (I'll have to beg, buy, borrow or steal a video camera).
I'm trying hard not to upset the boys routines too much, but there are only so many hours in the day/night so some things have to go.
We will be going down to see her this weekend which will be good for all of us.
Hard to believe this has only been going on for a few days, it already feels like a lifetime.
I'll update when I can, thanks again for all your support.

 

[silverwhisper]

quoll, i will continue to keep you and yours in my thoughts daily. and i believe i can speak for the others when i say both that and that while i understand that you're appreciative, well...

...of-fucking-course we're here for you, man!

i have one request: try to make some time when you can, just to let yourself be you, be fearful. unless i miss my guess, you're repressing everything and presenting a brave front to your boys. you are probably overdue for a good half hour or so of letting yourself not do that. i won't speak for the others, but that's the thanks i would appreciate.

[hugs quoll]

leah, ladybird: on behalf of my friend, my deepest thanks. :>

ed

 

[Guest]

 

[EJFan]

...Well that's about as clinical as I can make it, if you want the emotional version I'm scared shitless, but then again I always am where she is concerned.
We have pretty much come to accept the fact that barring some miraculous timing I will miss the birth, not happy about it, but their safety is more important to me than anything else.

i'm sorry to hear of the ongoing drama and uncertainty but it's good to know they're in the best place they can be. thank you for the continued updates.

that's a great thought you have quoll... i know you'd love nothing more than to be there with them but you're right. they're safe and that's the most important thing. this child is in great shape with the love and care you both have exhibited.

wishes for peace and wellness to you all.

 

[Eilan]

 

[Leah57]

Quoll - thanks for the updated info on the Mrs and the family. You will all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. My grandson was born @ 32 weeks, and you'd never know it now by looking at him! As Ed said... take/make some time for just YOU, too.

Ed - you're quite welcome..... that's what friends are for....

 

[Ladybird]

Still holding you and your family close to me Quoll....

 

[Verbiwhore]

Family Quoll are in my thoughts.

 

[pleasteasme]

quoll, I hope that everything goes smooth from here on out with Mrs. & lil quoll. My continued thoughts and prayers are sent to your family. Please, keep us informed when the time permits. By the way, don't forget to take care of yourself too!

 

[wicked woman]

The weekend is almost here in Oz. Enjoy your time together quoll.