Primping and Preparations

MissTaken said:
So, back on topic,

when you, as a submissive, prepare for time with your Dom/me, how much time and energy do you put into your physical appearance?

Are there other details that you tend to, i.e. meal planning, cleaning the bedroom/home, if appropriate, or whatever other cirumstance may come along?

When i use to get lucky
I would plan food that could be served and eaten in bed

Smoked fish, chesse, crakers etc.
 
being italian, my blood itself tastes like oragano, basil and rosemary. (ok, not really, but i'm making a point here!)

and if He had given me more than a few hours notice yesterday telling me that He wanted to stay the night here, i would have had time to prepare a fantastic feast. in the past, however, i've had ample time to fix something grand. i always make something different each time He stays here, and He always thanks me with an empty plate. last night, since He was sick and i had no time, i just made some potato soup with grated cheese and toasted italian bread smothered in my very special butter-garlic sauce. total preperation time - about 15 minutes.

ok, before this turns into a tupperware party or recipe swap, i'll get to the point. cooking a nice meal with love is definatly a way that i prepare for a night with Him. and He simply LOVES italian cuisine, so it works out great! ^_^
 
MissTaken said:
So, back on topic,

when you, as a submissive, prepare for time with your Dom/me, how much time and energy do you put into your physical appearance?

Are there other details that you tend to, i.e. meal planning, cleaning the bedroom/home, if appropriate, or whatever other cirumstance may come along?

When we visit, (LDR) it becomes several days of 24/7, including no work, so it's really 24/7 or 5 or however many days - we spend every single minute together, without break. I do all the mentioned bathing and shaving, but one of the things that sometimes stands out is privacy/intimacy.

I grew up in a home where privacy was a given, and I can naturally be a bit of a privacy freak and take it for granted that it's mine. Mistress grew up in a house where it would not be unusual to be seated on the toilet having a conversation with the door open. So, guess who's way someone else is learning? lol Bathroom doors will not be shut, clothing will not be worn, etc.

Unfortunately I never took an active interest in learning how to cook, though perhaps living with Mistress would be the impetus to start. Wow, wonders if bunny hires out as a caterer! ;)
 
bunny bondage said:
*glares at Richard and James* you keep your toll booth adventures to yourselves! i'll have no part in your mischevious misdoings!

Sure you will
the part of "struggling victim" :D
 
I just figured out Miss Taken's motive here. Whoever lays the best and most thorough groundwork is going to get a visit from her.

Am I right?
 
MissTaken said:
So, back on topic,

when you, as a submissive, prepare for time with your Dom/me, how much time and energy do you put into your physical appearance?

Are there other details that you tend to, i.e. meal planning, cleaning the bedroom/home, if appropriate, or whatever other cirumstance may come along?

Physical appearance was very important. I had to be properly groomed (shaved) and totally clean. I'm not quite sure how much time I actually put in, but it was considerable.

Other details, yes. Her home had to be spotless in case of guests along with the other details already put down.
 
Merelan said:
I just figured out Miss Taken's motive here. Whoever lays the best and most thorough groundwork is going to get a visit from her.

Am I right?

WOOHOO!!! Ok, the sling is going to go up in the back room. hehe. Concrete cinder block walls, and with the windows closed, my house is virtually soundproof. (unless you're inside)
 
WynEternal said:
Heh heh... well they already know about the naked in the street part... ;)

The lights were so low in the apartment, we needed to put you under the streetlight to see if you'd groomed properly :D
 
Merelan said:
I just figured out Miss Taken's motive here. Whoever lays the best and most thorough groundwork is going to get a visit from her.

Am I right?

You could be !

:)

I didn't realize there would be so many wonderfully sexy and incredible volunteers!


Now, the last time I met with a Dominant, I not only took special care to be able to present myself as he wished, but took extra time and care to clean my home, arrange certain things that might be of use...i.e. moving the toys and bondage equipment from the closet to a more accessible place, made a bit of something in the crockpot in case he became hungry, (I knew I didn't want to slave over a stove! ) and did some shopping for his favorite beverages etc.

Who says Dominants are the only ones who need to plan? :D
 
MissTaken said:
You could be !

:)

I didn't realize there would be so many wonderfully sexy and incredible volunteers!


Now, the last time I met with a Dominant, I not only took special care to be able to present myself as he wished, but took extra time and care to clean my home, arrange certain things that might be of use...i.e. moving the toys and bondage equipment from the closet to a more accessible place, made a bit of something in the crockpot in case he became hungry, (I knew I didn't want to slave over a stove! ) and did some shopping for his favorite beverages etc.

Who says Dominants are the only ones who need to plan? :D

Everything happened at Mistress' place, since I was either living on campus, or my studio was not fit for guests. Since I didn't and still don't drive, we would go to the store to to shop for anything we needed. OMG how I blushed the first time she ordered me to go with her to the grocery store without a bra on.
 
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