Prostate Massage- Tips and Tricks

Try it lying down, silly man.



You sound so delicious. I am adoring imagining you jerking your stiff rod all over my bottom!

Thanks Kat! ;) I've got my absolutely throbbing cock in my hand right now...slowly stroking from base to tip, squeezing ever so tightly around the head before sliding back down the shaft...staring at your upturned and exposed bottom...imagining spanking, massaging and tonguing your beautiful ass!! Thinking of shooting my load all over your sexy bottom is overwhelming!!! ;)
 
awesome post

love the post. I have never messaged myself a few time and it great. I would love to have it done to me. my current lover will message my stripe once in a while which is very assrousing...
rock hard thinking about it...any fellow mn's up for this?
fred
pm me if you are.
 
Just noticed the thread... you certainly know how to please... and your technique is incredible... Thank you for sharing, I am sure some of the litsters will learn a thing or two... :rose:
 
I have had the pleasure of receiving prostate massage and can vouch for its excellence.

Two thumbs up!

(Actually, it was one index finger up if I recall)...
 
So... how do you work around this if the guy doesn't handle anal insertions very well (not talking about any gay factors here purely from a comfort point of view)
 
If he doesn't want to be penetrated, it doesn't do to try and coerce him. However, lots of pre-penetration play with fingers and tongue seem to do the trick when combined with stimulation of his cock. Something to drink, if he imbibes, sometimes helps, too. Relaxation is the key.

Ah well for myself, I was never comfortable with anyone playing around in those regions on me...I was looking at it from that point of view...
 
I'm not saying any of you guys are like this, but many of us are. To fuck our ladies in the ass is the ultimate, but we won't let them go near us. Why is that? (Pause.) Well???????

If you can't come up with a good answer, I strongly urge you to loosen up (as it were) and give it a try. It's not something I want every time, but once in awhile it is incredible. If your partner does it just right, your cum will explode out of your cock and fly across the room. And the feeling of being dominated that way -- again, don't want it always (sometimes like to dominate), but it really creates a unique bond.
 
I'm not saying any of you guys are like this, but many of us are. To fuck our ladies in the ass is the ultimate, but we won't let them go near us. Why is that? (Pause.) Well???????

Well it isn't the ultimate for me... I don't lust after it, dream it or even really see the point in it so I can't relate at all to the first part of this comment... As for the second part... I don't find it comfortable to me.. but to each his/her own...

If you can't come up with a good answer, I strongly urge you to loosen up (as it were) and give it a try. It's not something I want every time, but once in awhile it is incredible. If your partner does it just right, your cum will explode out of your cock and fly across the room. And the feeling of being dominated that way -- again, don't want it always (sometimes like to dominate), but it really creates a unique bond.

I don't need to "loosen up" and try something that I find uncomfortable.. Especially if it is something I have tried... kind of like bashing your head into a wall.. If I find that "uncomfortable" then I'm not going to do it again.. And dominating or being dominated? WTF is up with that? Okay to each thier own...

What I was interested in was a different way a partner could work around the anal play to achieve the same result...
 
Sorry, Mark.

Didn't know you'd tried it. That's a horse of a different color. We're not all wired the same, you know.

I have no clue how to get to the prostate without penetration. Anyone?
 
Didn't know you'd tried it. That's a horse of a different color. We're not all wired the same, you know.

I have no clue how to get to the prostate without penetration. Anyone?
Try feeling around right before your anus while soft, then later on when you are hard, and then you should find the location from the outside. I think from there, but with a lot more pressure that it will work. I am going to try to figure it out and report back on my handiwork. :) I have done it from inside and was amazed at the feeling, but I had my but way up with my legs up by my head. The cum just started oozing out of my semi-hard penis. It felt strange and good, partly from seeing that I wasn't completely hard. I have to go to the bathroom first otherwise I pee first, but that is something for another thread, I guess.
 
I love combining the art of fellatio or a hand job with prostate massage. I love the intensity with which a man reacts to having his warm hard penis deep within my mouth or grasped firmly in my slippery hand while the index finger of my other hand slides gently into his ass to find his pleasure center.

I've found that the key to beginning prostate massage is total relaxation combined with almost full arousal- a nice stiff erection (sometimes past the point of no return if it's more comfortable for the man versus prostate stimulaion throughout a blowjob or handjob.)

Whether one is licking, sucking or jerking, the first step is to make certain your partner is comfortable. This goes without saying but the comfort must involve access to his nether region. Legs spread and balls and landing strip exposed for stimulation prior to finger insertion. It helps to wet one's finger or lube it with the substance of choice and then begin a massage of that very tender and sensitive area between his balls and ass. Press and rub, softly and then with more pressure. Pay special attention to his balls. Tongue them. Kiss them. Lick and suck them gently. Lick and flutter your tongue as well as press it firmly into his landing strip.

Make certain he trusts you and make eye contact often, letting him know you're there for his pleasure and you're going to make him feel so delicious. Once he's ready, wet or lube your finger and gently touch his asshole. Stroke around it and rub gently. All the while, you must continue with your ministrations to his cock. You must not let it waver but arouse him even more so that his cock head is slick with pre cum, engorged and sensitive. The more aroused he is, the better the prostate massage will feel.

Tease his asshole and then pay extra special attention to his cock, balls and the landing strip, going back to his asshole and rotating so that this progresses to the point of no return.

You must also make certain that you don't have sharp nails and that your finger is sufficiently lubed. Gently insert the tip of your finger into his asshole while sucking or jerking his cock. You must continue your adoration of his hard penis while you insert your finger. He will find this combination the most pleasurable.

Press inwards with your finger and you will run right into his prostate which, when swollen with pleasure, is about the size of a walnut. Push very gently yet insistently (as I've mentioed before) in a rhythmic movement while sucking or jerking his cock. Press again and again and you'll feel his prostate swell even more. Once he is ready to orgasm, keep your finger inside and continue pushing gently while working on his penis. When he cums, he'll cum explosively and it will be intense for him.

Once his orgasm has subsided, he'll be particularly sensitive where you've placed your finger so you should withdraw gently and easily. After this, he may want to kiss and cuddle or just drift off to sleep as you will have drained him completely.
Do you know you're my sexual idol? Damn woman!
 
She knows what she talking about

I can tell you first hand that as a women, this is the hottest thing you can do for your man, and to be able to feel it throbbing when he cums is incredible. The only downside is he will be absolutely useless for the next few hours.LOL
 
If he doesn't want to be penetrated, it doesn't do to try and coerce him. However, lots of pre-penetration play with fingers and tongue seem to do the trick when combined with stimulation of his cock. Something to drink, if he imbibes, sometimes helps, too. Relaxation is the key.

I don't think I would need much persuasion.
 
WOW!! Nice description!!

Great description babe!! Your HUBBY is one incredibly lucky guy.. I have been married for over 25 years and have been subtly requesting my wife do exactly as you describe for many years.. she is getting closer with each hand job, but just isnt there yet.. I have gotten her to run her fingers over my arse, but no insertion yet.. I have suggested a vib but she still resists..... I sooo sooo long for this either with a hand job or the ultimtate would be a BJ... Like I said, your HUBBY is one very very lucky guy.. I can hope someday..!!
STG
 
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