Prostate Massage- Tips and Tricks

Aspiring to new things

Kat:

Must say, this sounds incredible, not likely to have the pleasure anytime soon, but must say it was quite arousing thinking of someone (in particular) doing that to me.

Perhaps you should start a class?
 
Maybe we should be the first two guinea pigs, I don't mind practising until I get it right.....
 
I love combining the art of fellatio or a hand job with prostate massage. I love the intensity with which a man reacts to having his warm hard penis deep within my mouth or grasped firmly in my slippery hand while the index finger of my other hand slides gently into his ass to find his pleasure center.

I've found that the key to beginning prostate massage is total relaxation combined with almost full arousal- a nice stiff erection (sometimes past the point of no return if it's more comfortable for the man versus prostate stimulaion throughout a blowjob or handjob.)

Whether one is licking, sucking or jerking, the first step is to make certain your partner is comfortable. This goes without saying but the comfort must involve access to his nether region. Legs spread and balls and landing strip exposed for stimulation prior to finger insertion. It helps to wet one's finger or lube it with the substance of choice and then begin a massage of that very tender and sensitive area between his balls and ass. Press and rub, softly and then with more pressure. Pay special attention to his balls. Tongue them. Kiss them. Lick and suck them gently. Lick and flutter your tongue as well as press it firmly into his landing strip.

Make certain he trusts you and make eye contact often, letting him know you're there for his pleasure and you're going to make him feel so delicious. Once he's ready, wet or lube your finger and gently touch his asshole. Stroke around it and rub gently. All the while, you must continue with your ministrations to his cock. You must not let it waver but arouse him even more so that his cock head is slick with pre cum, engorged and sensitive. The more aroused he is, the better the prostate massage will feel.

Tease his asshole and then pay extra special attention to his cock, balls and the landing strip, going back to his asshole and rotating so that this progresses to the point of no return.

You must also make certain that you don't have sharp nails and that your finger is sufficiently lubed. Gently insert the tip of your finger into his asshole while sucking or jerking his cock. You must continue your adoration of his hard penis while you insert your finger. He will find this combination the most pleasurable.

Press inwards with your finger and you will run right into his prostate which, when swollen with pleasure, is about the size of a walnut. Push very gently yet insistently (as I've mentioed before) in a rhythmic movement while sucking or jerking his cock. Press again and again and you'll feel his prostate swell even more. Once he is ready to orgasm, keep your finger inside and continue pushing gently while working on his penis. When he cums, he'll cum explosively and it will be intense for him.

Once his orgasm has subsided, he'll be particularly sensitive where you've placed your finger so you should withdraw gently and easily. After this, he may want to kiss and cuddle or just drift off to sleep as you will have drained him completely.

First, I have to say that you have a wonderfully descriptive and enticing style of writing. Perfect for getting the imagination to run wild with sensations and imagery of irresistibly sexy things. Reading your post was incredibly arousing!

Second, I am absolutely in awe right now, because it has been almost exactly a week since a wonderfully talented older woman did exactly this to me!

She started by kissing me, undressing me and running her hands all over my naked skin. When the clothes came off, we lingered for a while kissing and teasing each others bodies with our tongues and fingertips before she sat me down on the edge of a sofa and told me to relax. Next, she very slowly and seductively moved down by body, kissing and sucking and touching me along the way, making me relaxed and eager with anticipation at the same time. When she finally started to work on my cock, the sensation of her tongue and her lips was just incredible!

What followed was almost exactly what you described. She sucked and stroked my shaft at first, but also paid special attention to my balls and perineum, using her tongue and her fingers. She kept eye contact with me and when she wasn't sucking my shaft, she would smile this sexy, wolfish smile that just made me shiver with absolute, unadulterated lust! The moment when her tongue finally touched my asshole was just beyond words... She made sure I was nice and wet and relaxed before she started to use her fingers, sliding her index finger inside me while her lips returned to my cock. She continued to suck and stroke me while her finger slowly worked its way inside me, gradually picking up speed as I adjusted to the feeling.

This kept up for a good thirty minutes or so. She would take me to the brink and then slow down to bring me back, over and over again. The sexiest thing about the experience was looking her in the eye and seeing how much she enjoyed it! My god, the passion and effortless eroticism that this stunning woman could convey by sucking a cock was unlike anything I have ever experienced before! I loved every second of it, right up until the moment I finally exploded into her waiting, eager mouth.

No doubt you understand completely when I say that it was the most intense and overwhelming orgasm I have ever felt. My body lifted off the couch, every muscle in my body convulsed at once and my mind was utterly blank for what seemed like an eternity! In reality it may have been close to a minute. Now I know what it means when they say that the moment of orgasm is a glimpse of Nirvana... I was in heaven for that eternity!

When I finally calmed down, I was exhausted... But I smiled at her with the sort of smile bred only from complete contentment, and I kissed her, tasting myself on her tongue.

The most beautifully erotic experience in my young life, bar none.
 
If no one's mentioned it, you should look into something called the Aneros. Google it (I won't post a link, don't know if that's allowed). It's a prostate massage device, and if you have a lot of patience, an open mind, and a willingness to experiment, learning to use it properly is a very personal and pleasurable journey. I can have anal orgasms for up to an hour using it, you just learn to ride waves of prostate triggered pleasure. Then having a woman suck your cock at the end will produce the most complete, emptying, thorough orgasm you've ever felt.

It's not for everyone, but I do highly recommend it. It takes the male orgasm and male sexual pleasure capacity and increases it exponentially.

-R

I'm definitely going to have to look this up. I have had a regular vibrator used on me before, but it was perfectly straight and didn't do a whole lot to stimulate the prostate. Still a really nice feeling, but explosive by no means.
 
reading this makes me feel like an anorexic watching the food network. It all looks and sounds so good but I know I won't be having any.
 
Hope I didn't kill this thread. It's really one of my favorite fantasies.
 
I'd like to see this thread kept alive as well. If not because I love experiencing this incredible technique, than for Katbound's extremely hot description of it.
 
Reverse Cowgirl

I love combining the art of fellatio or a hand job with prostate massage. I love the intensity with which a man reacts to having his warm hard penis deep within my mouth or grasped firmly in my slippery hand while the index finger of my other hand slides gently into his ass to find his pleasure center.

I've found that the key to beginning prostate massage is total relaxation combined with almost full arousal- a nice stiff erection (sometimes past the point of no return if it's more comfortable for the man versus prostate stimulaion throughout a blowjob or handjob.)

Whether one is licking, sucking or jerking, the first step is to make certain your partner is comfortable. This goes without saying but the comfort must involve access to his nether region. Legs spread and balls and landing strip exposed for stimulation prior to finger insertion. It helps to wet one's finger or lube it with the substance of choice and then begin a massage of that very tender and sensitive area between his balls and ass. Press and rub, softly and then with more pressure. Pay special attention to his balls. Tongue them. Kiss them. Lick and suck them gently. Lick and flutter your tongue as well as press it firmly into his landing strip.

Make certain he trusts you and make eye contact often, letting him know you're there for his pleasure and you're going to make him feel so delicious. Once he's ready, wet or lube your finger and gently touch his asshole. Stroke around it and rub gently. All the while, you must continue with your ministrations to his cock. You must not let it waver but arouse him even more so that his cock head is slick with pre cum, engorged and sensitive. The more aroused he is, the better the prostate massage will feel.

Tease his asshole and then pay extra special attention to his cock, balls and the landing strip, going back to his asshole and rotating so that this progresses to the point of no return.

You must also make certain that you don't have sharp nails and that your finger is sufficiently lubed. Gently insert the tip of your finger into his asshole while sucking or jerking his cock. You must continue your adoration of his hard penis while you insert your finger. He will find this combination the most pleasurable.

Press inwards with your finger and you will run right into his prostate which, when swollen with pleasure, is about the size of a walnut. Push very gently yet insistently (as I've mentioed before) in a rhythmic movement while sucking or jerking his cock. Press again and again and you'll feel his prostate swell even more. Once he is ready to orgasm, keep your finger inside and continue pushing gently while working on his penis. When he cums, he'll cum explosively and it will be intense for him.

Once his orgasm has subsided, he'll be particularly sensitive where you've placed your finger so you should withdraw gently and easily. After this, he may want to kiss and cuddle or just drift off to sleep as you will have drained him completely.

Very, very good post kat. For some reason my jeans just got tighter, I can't begin to fathom why.
Ever try this during intercourse? The best position I found was reverse cowgril, my ex and I used to do this. She'd get on top facing my feet, then reach back and with a couple fingers hit the magic spot. I mean she'd ride pretty slowly, but apparently the super hard cock and loads of come felt really good for her. Also worked, albeit slightly more carefully, if she took me anally in the same position. Great post though, you sound like fun.
 
I love combining the art of fellatio or a hand job with prostate massage. I love the intensity with which a man reacts to having his warm hard penis deep within my mouth or grasped firmly in my slippery hand while the index finger of my other hand slides gently into his ass to find his pleasure center.

I've found that the key to beginning prostate massage is total relaxation combined with almost full arousal- a nice stiff erection (sometimes past the point of no return if it's more comfortable for the man versus prostate stimulaion throughout a blowjob or handjob.)

Whether one is licking, sucking or jerking, the first step is to make certain your partner is comfortable. This goes without saying but the comfort must involve access to his nether region. Legs spread and balls and landing strip exposed for stimulation prior to finger insertion. It helps to wet one's finger or lube it with the substance of choice and then begin a massage of that very tender and sensitive area between his balls and ass. Press and rub, softly and then with more pressure. Pay special attention to his balls. Tongue them. Kiss them. Lick and suck them gently. Lick and flutter your tongue as well as press it firmly into his landing strip.

Make certain he trusts you and make eye contact often, letting him know you're there for his pleasure and you're going to make him feel so delicious. Once he's ready, wet or lube your finger and gently touch his asshole. Stroke around it and rub gently. All the while, you must continue with your ministrations to his cock. You must not let it waver but arouse him even more so that his cock head is slick with pre cum, engorged and sensitive. The more aroused he is, the better the prostate massage will feel.

Tease his asshole and then pay extra special attention to his cock, balls and the landing strip, going back to his asshole and rotating so that this progresses to the point of no return.

You must also make certain that you don't have sharp nails and that your finger is sufficiently lubed. Gently insert the tip of your finger into his asshole while sucking or jerking his cock. You must continue your adoration of his hard penis while you insert your finger. He will find this combination the most pleasurable.

Press inwards with your finger and you will run right into his prostate which, when swollen with pleasure, is about the size of a walnut. Push very gently yet insistently (as I've mentioed before) in a rhythmic movement while sucking or jerking his cock. Press again and again and you'll feel his prostate swell even more. Once he is ready to orgasm, keep your finger inside and continue pushing gently while working on his penis. When he cums, he'll cum explosively and it will be intense for him.

Once his orgasm has subsided, he'll be particularly sensitive where you've placed your finger so you should withdraw gently and easily. After this, he may want to kiss and cuddle or just drift off to sleep as you will have drained him completely.

Well fuck me Kat (please, please!), how did I miss this little gem of a post. Nearly split my pants I got hard so quick when I started reading - I love how you describe it. You really are a dream woman.

I play this way by myself, both with my fingers and with toys, and it's always good, but it's unbelievable when my wife does it to me while blowing me. Can't get enough of it.

Do you like to do your man with toys and/or a strap-on too?
 
kat been a while since i have had it done but your description is so so true.
Once i learnt to relax and enjoy it i cdan honestly say that i leaked more than i ever thought possible and when i finally came ( i was teased for a long time) i could almost feel it pumping from my balls and i was completely drained.

Ah the memories i wish you were down under kat do you need a ticket ?:devil:
 
Kat, WOW, I'm amazed at how incredible your description and instructions are on this subject. Let's just say I'm very intrigued about this after reading your How-TO

While i doubt i will find someone who would try that on me, I'm just mentally gone by it...
 
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