Prostate stimulation

[mike_always_horny]

So what to do when you have a man open and accepting of anal play and it does nothing for him... Not my tongue, fingers, plug, various toys... Strap on failed... Needed a bigger toy (didn't factor in the toy length and my thick thighs hitting him first...)

However, I don't see much sense in doing anymore since it does zip for him.

Thoughts?

I'd just keep trying until you hit his prostate. If and when you do, he will fucking explode!

 

[jakereeder22]

Fjshhs

 

[funluvinaj]

I'd just keep trying until you hit his prostate. If and when you do, he will fucking explode!

So you believe that I've just not found his sweet spot yet?

I have gf's (mostly of the platonic variety) who have never had g spot orgasms... Is it the same for men... Can be elusive?

 

[funluvinaj]

Congratulations on being open to trying to explore this fantastic form of pleasure. I myself use an Aneros helix and have personally found that my pleasure and intensity of orgasms has increased as I have become more familiar with my body and strengthened the PC and sphincter muscles you use to self stimulate with the toy. Sometimes there is what many call a rewording period wherein you are getting the prostate used to receiving stimulation and getting your body more open to responding to this form of pleasure. Keep at it and I am sure you will enjoy and reap great benefits. I am still surprising myself by the intensity of my orgasms and sheer volume of ejaculate from prostate play. Try to think about this as a journey and don't expect amazing results right away. Some people are lucky and gifted in that they have great results right away, but for others it may take longer to achieve some of the greater rewards. Just like anything else, practice makes perfect. Don't be afraid to experiment and definitely check out tammyw's thread on here for a lot of other tips and shared experiences.

I was thinking about getting the helix for my guy and just asking him to experiment with it solo (we are involved long distance) so that next time we are together I can try to pleasure him again this way

Is the helix a good beginner? I got confused reading at the aneros site.

 

[CuriousFF]

Wife and I tried this for the first time this weekend. OMG!!!!!!!! Can not wait for the kids to stay at their grandparents again. I was unable to stifle the loud moans.

 

[mike_always_horny]

So you believe that I've just not found his sweet spot yet?

I have gf's (mostly of the platonic variety) who have never had g spot orgasms... Is it the same for men... Can be elusive?

I can only speak from experience. The first time I masturbated by stimulating my prostate, I came immediately upon first touch. Just like that. BAM! My body was shaking, I had never ever experience anything like it.

 

[jakereeder22]

VxbznsjH

 

[adambom]

I wish I could convince my man to let me do this for him. My ex used to say that I changed his sex life completely when I tried this on him. But sadly my man is a very closed minded, old fashioned, 90-year-old acting man. And his reply has always been "exit only". So I stopped asking him.

That's too bad! You are lovely & sexy.