Psychology of cumming in partner / partner cumming in you?

[ZfrkS62]

My wife and I decided against kids, but I didn't get snipped until a few years ago, just to make sure the window was closed. We were closing in on 40. Originally 35 was the cut off, but that came and went, and then we bought another house, and of course the pandemic got in the way. So I think it was '21 when I got it done. We didn't stop using condoms until last year, once the sperm count finally came back clear. She had also been on birth control but we rarely went unprotected. When we did, she disliked the feeling of the drainage, so once we had stopped with the condoms, that weighed on where I finished. As of late, I've been dumping it in her regardless but it has taken some time to feel ok with doing so after 20 years of not.

 

[Supersammy]

mmmm

 

[Escierto]

My wife and I decided against kids, but I didn't get snipped until a few years ago, just to make sure the window was closed. We were closing in on 40. Originally 35 was the cut off, but that came and went, and then we bought another house, and of course the pandemic got in the way. So I think it was '21 when I got it done. We didn't stop using condoms until last year, once the sperm count finally came back clear. She had also been on birth control but we rarely went unprotected. When we did, she disliked the feeling of the drainage, so once we had stopped with the condoms, that weighed on where I finished. As of late, I've been dumping it in her regardless but it has taken some time to feel ok with doing so after 20 years of not.

Are you serious? She doesn't want your cum in her? This is very unusual for a woman in my experience.

 

[wifewatcher1997]

My wife and I decided against kids, but I didn't get snipped until a few years ago, just to make sure the window was closed. We were closing in on 40. Originally 35 was the cut off, but that came and went, and then we bought another house, and of course the pandemic got in the way. So I think it was '21 when I got it done. We didn't stop using condoms until last year, once the sperm count finally came back clear. She had also been on birth control but we rarely went unprotected. When we did, she disliked the feeling of the drainage, so once we had stopped with the condoms, that weighed on where I finished. As of late, I've been dumping it in her regardless but it has taken some time to feel ok with doing so after 20 years of not.

Even after I got snipped 20+ years ago, my wife rarely lets me cum in her because of the leakage and not enjoying it. When I actually am allowed to, it feels wonderful.

 

[Bisexguy70]

A lot of it has to do with procreation. We do have orgasms but the ultimate goal is reproduction. I cant have penetrative sex with my wife anymore so I started to seek an alternative with other men. At first it was just blow jobs until I met my now FWB Mark. After the second meet, he convinced me to fuck his ass. I wasnt into it but his laid back approach convinced me to try it. Plus him jumping on my cock as i was on my back and sitting on my erect cock…how could I resist. After a few minutes I found myself cumming. His ass felt like a velvet glove and stimulated the nerves of my cock like nothing else. I shot what seemed like several streams of semen deep inside him. As I was driving down the road, my body felt such relief and completely satisfied. I normally have always masturbated and ejaculate almost every day. But after that, I didnt feel the need to seed for a few days. I had done my duty, I impregnated my lover. At least thats what my body thought and I had fulfilled my duty to procreate. I think thats why men love cumming down a throat too. The body cant distinguish between a vagina, ass or mouth. Its job when stimulated is to get the seed as deep to reach the destination of reaching the egg. As for me though, I still enjoy being cummed on. But this revalation has me swallowing more cum and letting that guy cum deep down my throat to feel like he has accomplished his duty to procreate(even though this is 100% not going to get me pregnant). Ive not done much as a bottom but fantasize about guys cumming in my ass a lot.

 

[Escierto]

I have posted this before but it seems appropriate in light of the previous post.

For a long time I fantasized that my trans girlfriend was impregnating me when she ejaculated her cum in my ass. I was always embarrassed about it but one day I decided to go ahead and share my fantasy with her. When I told her, she laughed and said that she had the exact same fantasy! So there we were as she fucked me, both of us imagining that she was impregnating me.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Part must be gratification.

 

[Lady2020]

I'm trying to avoid the answer from guys that yes, physically it feels better to cum inside someone than not.

This is more of a psychological question of why. Women, if you like your partner cumming inside you, why? Is it a thrill of the risk of pregnancy? Is it feeling like a woman? The sense of completing naturally? A feeling of attachment? Is it mostly because your partner wants it? Something else?

For men, is it the feeling of power or control? Or is it mostly a physical feeling rather than emotional?

Geeze. Maybe biology?

 

[Goldenfinger]

Geeze. Maybe biology?

I do think biology has a lot to do with it. But I also think there’s a little more to it. Me and my wife engage in some role reversal and she had shown interest in this also.

 

[Escierto]

I do think biology has a lot to do with it. But I also think there’s a little more to it. Me and my wife engage in some role reversal and she had shown interest in this also.

I like this. Does she use anything on you?

 

[Goldenfinger]

I like this. Does she use anything on you?

She does. We have bought a few different ejaculating dildos that fit her harness. The first one was cumbersome, you squeezed the balls to suck up whatever you put in it then when you’re ready you have to squeeze them to ejaculate. It was awkward, tough to squeeze while she was in me. I gave oral with it and anything that came out tasted like nasty plastic.

Toy two was a syringe type. It held a lot. It was less cumbersome but the tube was fucking long and we got tangled in it and pulled the tube out. It was kinda comical it was a real overflow situation. I ended up shortening the tube but she still had to pay attention. So I thought we were done.

Toy three, my wife found a remote squinting dildo. It does all sorts of stuff. It just has this little remote and you push the button and it starts ejaculating. She likes it and it’s easy to use. The only draw back is it sounds like an old electric super soaker. If she pegging me you can’t hear it. Only with outside the body activity.

I posted this before, but her actions when she cums she mostly mimics how I cum in her. She’s vocal where I’m not but I find that interesting.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife says that after more than two years of having men cum inside a condom while she was in college, the act of me entering her bareback and filling her with cum was an amazing experience. She felt like it was almost like my love pouring into her. Of course, it was our wedding night and I had sex with her seven times in all. So I asked about later on, after we had been married a long time. She said having me cum inside her made her feel like she had satisfied me and that was her goal.

 

[Escierto]

She does. We have bought a few different ejaculating dildos that fit her harness. The first one was cumbersome, you squeezed the balls to suck up whatever you put in it then when you’re ready you have to squeeze them to ejaculate. It was awkward, tough to squeeze while she was in me. I gave oral with it and anything that came out tasted like nasty plastic.

Toy two was a syringe type. It held a lot. It was less cumbersome but the tube was fucking long and we got tangled in it and pulled the tube out. It was kinda comical it was a real overflow situation. I ended up shortening the tube but she still had to pay attention. So I thought we were done.

Toy three, my wife found a remote squinting dildo. It does all sorts of stuff. It just has this little remote and you push the button and it starts ejaculating. She likes it and it’s easy to use. The only draw back is it sounds like an old electric super soaker. If she pegging me you can’t hear it. Only with outside the body activity.

I posted this before, but her actions when she cums she mostly mimics how I cum in her. She’s vocal where I’m not but I find that interesting.

Very informative post.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Very informative post.

I try

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

In my case, I spent soooo many years trying to conceive, so having cum inside me was essential.
But, now? I've developed tokophobia (fear of getting pregnant basically)..
I don't trust condoms. I don't trust pulling out.
I can't use birth control.

I only trust a man's cum if he's been "fixed"..
Cum else where on my body.. Not in my pussy.

 

[Luv2bnaked4u]

Feeling his weight on my body, as he finds his rhythm, then his body starts to tense, listening to his breathing, or grunting, then his body tenses and jerks as he cums inside me. Whew what a feeling of accomplishment.
Now if he wants to pull out and squirt somewhere else he is more than welcome. But I won’t deny him my pussy.
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[NehaGin]

Are you serious? She doesn't want your cum in her? This is very unusual for a woman in my experience.

One more for your count - I much prefer in my mouth.

 

[WAISTEDDOWN]

I'm trying to avoid the answer from guys that yes, physically it feels better to cum inside someone than not.

This is more of a psychological question of why. Women, if you like your partner cumming inside you, why? Is it a thrill of the risk of pregnancy? Is it feeling like a woman? The sense of completing naturally? A feeling of attachment? Is it mostly because your partner wants it? Something else?

For men, is it the feeling of power or control? Or is it mostly a physical feeling rather than emotional?

I've thought about this for less than a day but, for most of it.
Feeling a throbbing & twitching dick inside of me once all other movement has ended is sexy.
Cum dripping out & down my leg is sexy.
Your desire to indulge in fucking me is best noted with a weakness to pull out after all efforts have left you spent. Fall onto me as I wrap my arms and legs around you - after all, you made me cum 10 minutes ago.



Sorry - I got a bit carried away

Having a child that looks like us will forever be a reminder of your miraculous ability to tame me

 

[Rockymtnman]

Never thought about it beyond it feels really good.

 

[Bbl87]

I only trust a man's cum if he's been "fixed"..
Cum else where on my body.. Not in my pussy.

I've really thought since I got snipped, if I ever did end up on the market, it might be an asset for exactly that reason.

 

[NehaGin]

I've really thought since I got snipped, if I ever did end up on the market, it might be an asset for exactly that reason.

Don't forget to get tested first. Otherwise both of you might get a big surprise...

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I love being cummed in. It makes me feel very feminine and sexy. This is probably the biology talking, but if a guy were to fill me up with a big load, I'd take it as he trusts me enough to be the bearer of his offspring. I also like it when cum leaks out of me during the day. Reminds me of all the fun I just had.

 

[Wonderer67]

I had a very long session with my wife this morning in several positions: spoons, then missionary, then missionary off the side of the bed, then she rode me female superior. Then back to missionary….

My wife has a big day of gardening ahead of her (she’s a professional gardener) and I wanted to fill her full of my cum and have it leak out all day as she was working….

 

[NehaGin]

I had a very long session with my wife this morning in several positions: spoons, then missionary, then missionary off the side of the bed, then she rode me female superior. Then back to missionary….

My wife has a big day of gardening ahead of her (she’s a professional gardener) and I wanted to fill her full of my cum and have it leak out all day as she was working….

Nice dream!
Now think about how it will feel to spend the whole day in wet panties. Yes, it looks sexy in pictures or to show off on camera, but there will be a hell to pay if she actually spends an extended period of time like that. That's what the showers are for.

 

[Wonderer67]

Nice dream!
Now think about how it will feel to spend the whole day in wet panties. Yes, it looks sexy in pictures or to show off on camera, but there will be a hell to pay if she actually spends an extended period of time like that. That's what the showers are for.

EXACTLY! She’s far too practical for that.

She’s wet anyway. She nixed the idea. She controls my orgasms and I didn’t cum today at all. But the thought and psychology was nice! And she plays along really well.

Some women do like it tho. (My ex enjoyed it)