Question about the building blocks of BDSM

[Desdemona]

I didn't read the question as being about the choice between mental or physical sex. I saw it as an assertion that all BDSM included mental power exchange. "It's all about power exchange and trust. Everything else is frosting."

I think there's going to be a mental aspect in everything we do sexually (well, possibly excluding necrophilia.) So there's no option to exclude that.

I bet that even the necrophiliac gets off on thinking about the twisted, taboo aspects of what they do. So, I suspect there is a mental aspect for them as well. I don't want to delve into this (necrophilia) line of thought too deeply. It's creepy. Off to take a shower now.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I bet that even the necrophiliac gets off on thinking about the twisted, taboo aspects of what they do. So, I suspect there is a mental aspect for them as well. I don't want to delve into this (necrophilia) line of thought too deeply. It's creepy. Off to take a shower now.

LOL, I once dated an American guy in my vanilla days who had a strong fantasy along those lines, He wanted to role-play it so I thought I would try for his sake....he wasn't very happy as at the time it just made me go into hysterical giggles that nothing would stop....not exactly how he envisioned a good corpse behaving.

Catalina

 

[Desdemona]

LOL, I once dated an American guy in my vanilla days who had a strong fantasy along those lines, He wanted to role-play it so I thought I would try for his sake....he wasn't very happy as at the time it just made me go into hysterical giggles that nothing would stop....not exactly how he envisioned a good corpse behaving.

Catalina

Somehow I'm not surprised. I wouldn't make a good corpse either, if someone were to be able to convince me to try. I'd be laughing just like you were.

 

[Pure]

Along similar lines, anyone experience something visceral at the
early scene in Kill Bill where the deeply comatose are rented out for sex, (with certain conditions, like 'no bruising')?

 

[h_i_s]

i agree 100%.
Make love to my mind, & my body may cum, yet it's my entire soul which will scream out, "AGAIN! AGAIN! AGAIN! pleeeeeeeeease.....".

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