Question for bi men: Are you a top or a bottom?

robbie_boy1 said:
i am a bottom. I don't see how being a bottom means you have to eat male ass perhaps i am missing something...

I guess I missed this post when I first made comments. I personally think eating ass is more a role for a considerate top to perform on a clean bottom. I can get hard just eating a clean ass - just thinking of what else will soon be in there and enjoying the textures of the opening. It also functions to help lubricate the bottom and loosen him up.

Unfortunately, I don't rim that often because unfortunately, lots of times my partner and I have sex on the fly and he hasn't showered and done an extra job of cleaning. I love him, but love doesn't mean you have to get gross.
 
Bottom

I am a total bottom. I have no real desire to fuck another man in the ass but I can't wait to take a hard hot cock in mine. I love sucking cock and having mine own cock sucked but I rarely cum that way. I have cum however just from being fucked.
 
I just find buttholes to be the most beautiful things in the world - on girls or guys!

As long as theyre clean i can lick for hours.
 
Today was another reminder of just how precious bottoms are, and why I know for sure I'm a top.


Today, I had a prostate exam at the local health fair. I think the doctor is a closet bi (has a wedding ring but seems just a bit too into his profession). Anyway, it took him at least twice as long as the doctors that usually volunteer at the fair. I hated EVERY moment of the intrusion. There wasn't a single nano-second of pleasure in it. All I felt was burning and the urge to urinate. I didn't wimp out but would rather have been anywhere else. At least prostate is fine, i assume it would have hurt even more if it hadn't been ok. I've been an exclusive top since 1985, and this is just one more reminder why that was the right decision.

For those wonderful, masculine guys who are bottoms (including the man I love and am faithful to), you are truly angels on earth. You are responsible for giving SO much pleasure and I'm so thankful that for you there is something other than just pain for your contribution.
 
I'm versatle, love sucking and being sucked, but have never had a guy screw me.
I have been fantasizing for ages now of being screwed by a guy so much so that I want to try it out.
 
I've never had anal with a guy, but I definitely want to top soon. I would like to work my way up to being a bottom sometime. The thought really turns me on.
 
I am versatile, I like both being atop and a bottom. Girth has been my major prevention of me taking the top roll as the guys I have been with have not wanted to for fear of pain :(
 
Depends on the partner (or partners) and the situation, but I definitely prefer bottom. There is nothing like the feel of a long hard cock in my ass. My preference began early in life when my ass was the center of attention in an all-male foursome.

Many years ago I had a long term relationship with a married couple. While I loved having his cock inside me (8 inches and very thick), his wife had this thing about seeing him getting fucked. Whenever she was a participant, I was always on top, and I loved it. However, when he and I were alone we both preferred him fucking me.

Drew
 
BiDrew42 said:
Depends on the partner (or partners) and the situation, but I definitely prefer bottom. There is nothing like the feel of a long hard cock in my ass. My preference began early in life when my ass was the center of attention in an all-male foursome.

Many years ago I had a long term relationship with a married couple. While I loved having his cock inside me (8 inches and very thick), his wife had this thing about seeing him getting fucked. Whenever she was a participant, I was always on top, and I loved it. However, when he and I were alone we both preferred him fucking me.

Drew

Wow. That sounds like the best of both worlds.
 
Top or bottom?

I am definitely a bottom type. I've had men fucking me from a very early age and can't seem to get enough of it at times.
 
BiDrew42's mention of his gang bang, reminded me on a time a "friend" I had had the pleasue of sucking off a couple of times invited me over to his house for another cocksucking session, but when I got there it wasn't just his cock. It was six cocks! And they weren't interested in blow jobs. It was my ass they wanted; it was my ass they got. And it wasn't six times that my ass was fucked. A couple of guys came back for seconds. They wore my ass out! I was exhausted and I was sore, but I came three times while being fucked and still went home with a hard on.
 
A view from the bottom side

none2_none2 said:
Today, I had a prostate exam at the local health fair. I think the doctor is a closet bi (has a wedding ring but seems just a bit too into his profession). Anyway, it took him at least twice as long as the doctors that usually volunteer at the fair. I hated EVERY moment of the intrusion. There wasn't a single nano-second of pleasure in it. All I felt was burning and the urge to urinate. I didn't wimp out but would rather have been anywhere else. At least prostate is fine, i assume it would have hurt even more if it hadn't been ok. I've been an exclusive top since 1985, and this is just one more reminder why that was the right decision.

For those wonderful, masculine guys who are bottoms (including the man I love and am faithful to), you are truly angels on earth. You are responsible for giving SO much pleasure and I'm so thankful that for you there is something other than just pain for your contribution.

Thank you None2 for your contribution.

I am a bottom bisexual man, and have been with my male parter for the last 14 yeare, our woman coming into our lives 4 yrs after I met him. From the beginning, I was bottom, I must confess, it wasn't an easy decision. Society has shaped us males to be the dominants, but when I found in my situation that I wasn't, I got a bit confused. Thankfully, my partner was gentle in guiding me to my real self, and I have bottomed for him ever since.

As you may assume, we are in a long term relationship, and I attribute this to the roles we have assumed in our relationship, both in and out of bed.

It fulfills me to satisfy him sexually and emotionally.

I guess some guys are borned different ways.

Maz.
 
i'm totally a bottom, but i would change places after a good fuck and return the favor...
 
I dont care

I dont care. Id like it mutual, would love a dick in my ass but I need to fuck an ass. Mutual sucking and rimming is a must too. Butt who's bein gchosy, sex is sex
 
I've only been with a couple guys once. I was picked up hitch hiking in California by a red pick up truck with camper shell on it. The two guys started showing me porno books, we all got erections. It was summer so they suggested we all get a little more comfortable and less hot by stripping down. We did. Next thing I knew, I had my dick in this guys ass and his buddy had on in mine. I was 20 at the time and very inexperienced, but it was awesome! Because I was in the Navy I never saw them again and that was my only experience.

To answer your question - I think I'd love to be a bottom and also learn to suck dick too.
 
I'm still curious but since most of my curiosity involves me being submissive, sucking cock, and getting fucked i'm pretty sure i'm a bottom. ;)
 
I'm pretty versatile, although probably tend more to being a top. It seems to depend on the guy and the mood, I'm probably more likely to let a guy fuck me if I've been with him before.

Never fuck on the first date...... ha ha

As for women with strap-ons, they have never really done it for me.

Transsexuals on the other hand...... yum! I think it's the feel of a real throbbing cock rather than a plastic or latex one that i find enjoyable.
 
logan69logan said:
I'm pretty versatile, although probably tend more to being a top. It seems to depend on the guy and the mood, I'm probably more likely to let a guy fuck me if I've been with him before.

Never fuck on the first date...... ha ha

As for women with strap-ons, they have never really done it for me.

Transsexuals on the other hand...... yum! I think it's the feel of a real throbbing cock rather than a plastic or latex one that i find enjoyable.

Yes, there is nothing to compare with the texture and warmth of a flesh and blood cock streching your ass and pushing inside.
 
Trend-setters

I'm beginning to notice a trend..

The majority of the guys that call themselves 'bottoms' when it comes to being with guys love to find themselves balls-deep in pussy or ass (of the female variety), asserting themselves as Dom-ish character.. Whereas they assume the role of 'bitch' and put out for just about any muscular, well-hung stud that wants to bury his cock deep in their slutty fuckhole..

BTW, I definitely qualify as being a member of the majority!
 
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