Question for both men and women

[Beck31]

That is good that a lot of you don't feel nervous. For me insecurities take over. True they would not be getting naked if they did not like you but still.

 

[HeyAll]

I do. As mentioned, especially if the person is really athletic with an amazing body. And just as much if you really think highly of that person.

If you're doing it with a slob or a hooker, who cares.

 

[shanier]

I have insecurities; they just aren't affected by being nude/getting naked.

 

[amofiga]

Nicely stated; and I envy your self esteem!

I keep trying to keep that framework in mind but still feel self conscious about being naked in front of others, more so those I do not know well but even a little with even with my spouse.

You are right about looks though, none of us are perfect.....

It's much easier to be physically naked than it is to be emotionally naked. Letting someone see your naked body isn't as tough as letting them see your naked soul.

 

[Beck31]

Yes. Well said Amofiga.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Getting naked has never been a problem for me. In fact, in group settings I'm almost always the first one to lose my clothes.

 

[Cdgurlguy]

I can't get naked fast enough and I always want to let my partner know how great they look and how much I'm looking forward to each other sexually.

 

[Beck31]

I occasionally have my insecurities take over. I worried at that time that I might not be what she was expecting and wind up disapointing her. I guess she felt the same.

 

[NaturistLouise]

Getting Naked

Have you ever been nervous to get naked in front of your lover?

The first time hubby and I got naked (well before we were married!), it was my idea to get completely nude. The main emotion was horniness, not nervousness. lol

Since then we have become nudists and thousands of people have seen me nude. My picture thread will show you that I don't have the media's ideal body which is ridiculous to try to copy. As long as you have good body acceptance and live a healthy lifestyle, that is all that matters.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I am always terrified.

*nods*

But as a somewhat Toppish sort of boi/girl~well one doesn't show that. One just runs the fuck or the scene and ignores how scared they are..

For me though, it isn't about my shape so much as it is the fact that I am completely body conscious concerning the reams of scars I have in odd places...

(My back, my thighs, my ass, my belly...)most of these are survivor badges but it doesn't make getting nude any easier.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

Have you ever been nervous to get naked in front of your lover?

nope... why should i

 

[BiTodd]

Always nervous, in a good way. I don't have body hangups like most people.

 

[lynn-23]

I don't really get nervous, but it is still always a thrill to be naked in front of him.