Older Women with Young Men

[ConsiderateBeast]

I've sex with a few women who were older than me. One of the delights -- or, perhaps, one of the things that made it erotic, at least for me -- was cumming in an older lady's pussy. Maybe because it's been considered somewhat taboo for a younger man to have sex with an older lady. Not sure. Just my observation and my .02 cents.

Taboos are wonderful aren't they? They really drive such lust and love across them. Maybe, in some way, that's what they are for...

 

[Ramone45]

My son's friend from college was doing an externship close to our home. He stayed with us for a couple of months. My wife fucked him during that time. She said it was amazing. She LOVED his young hard cock.

 

[dz2681]

My son's friend from college was doing an externship close to our home. He stayed with us for a couple of months. My wife fucked him during that time. She said it was amazing. She LOVED his young hard cock.

Would love to hear more on how that developed.

 

[Matt3427]

My wife sees a young man for the last 3 years. He's only 29. She loves the attention, enthusiasm and energy. It's also a great escape from home and work life.

 

[Ramone45]

Would love to hear more on how that developed.

Well, he was a nice, fit young guy, About 22 yo. I worked an evening shift at the time, which gave them an opportunity. You know, it kind of justt happens. She was nice to him and he enjoyed the attention. They gradually grew closer and just gradually broke down boundaries. She started by "accidentally" letting him see her naked. Then nature took over.

 

[knowhergne]

Well, he was a nice, fit young guy, About 22 yo. I worked an evening shift at the time, which gave them an opportunity. You know, it kind of justt happens. She was nice to him and he enjoyed the attention. They gradually grew closer and just gradually broke down boundaries. She started by "accidentally" letting him see her naked. Then nature took over.

Pro move by her, very nice!!!

 

[dz2681]

Well, he was a nice, fit young guy, About 22 yo. I worked an evening shift at the time, which gave them an opportunity. You know, it kind of justt happens. She was nice to him and he enjoyed the attention. They gradually grew closer and just gradually broke down boundaries. She started by "accidentally" letting him see her naked. Then nature took over.

Very hot, were you two into sharing her before she got with him?

 

[AZsurfer45]

Being 45, decent looking and single has opened a lot of doors for me with older women. Not sure why, but on the dating apps, older women fall into my lap.

I swipe because I’m attracted to their mature curves and they swipe because they like my younger body. With the age difference, 10, 15, 20 years it’s obvious from the start that an actual relationship is off the table, but there is still shared desire to connect. Conversation veers flirty and soon enough they are sending me naughty photos and we end up fucking. It’s what we both wanted from the start and if we can be honest about that, then why not?

I probably have about 5 women all older than me that I’ve hooked up with in the past 6 months and who I could call to come over and visit when the mood strikes. Over summer I had a nice rotation where I was banging one each week. Literally swing by, we fuck for an hour, then lay side by side and catch up on what’s new since last time I came, then I get dressed and leave.

Older women are easy sex if you play your cards right. Had one enticing me to come over this morning actually. lol They love taking stud cock. And I love being their supply.

 

[Seasider62]

I fucked an 83 year old married woman when I was 35

 

[Seasider62]

Also love masterbating and fantasising about my wife Sarah having sex with a much younger man

 

[drobert44]

I fucked an 83 year old married woman when I was 35

Gosh, I fucked a hot 80 year old dame, hard to satisfy her

 

[Seasider62]

She went all night, what a horny lady. Took several loads from me

 

[apom]

I like guys who happen to be younger than I am, but how old is "older?"

 

[drobert44]

My 80 year old dame is 4 months older than me.

 

[Seasider62]

I like guys who happen to be younger than I am, but how old is "older?"

A day older is older

 

[TrishaParker]

My wife, age 44, does enjoy younger men.

I’m 41 same here, good that I live in a university town

 

[Iwatchedher]

Young people often have an energy, a thirst for life and a curiostity that can be missing in some older ones. Those are all attractive traits in themselves - it doesn't have to be about anything maternal or physical.

Yes, LoneMilf, you is so right. My wife had an affair [with my eager encouragement] with a much younger man when she was in her mid 40's and he was in his early 20s. She had been quite promiscuous [well, very promiscuous tbh] as a young woman in her teens and 20s, but had 'settled down' in her early 30s when our two kids came along. We still had plenty of good sex together but she had not had other partners [at least, not that she told me about!] for about 15 years when a young man called Phil appeared in our life as a drum teacher to our younger son. She fell head over heels in lust with him from the first meeting, and maybe fell a little bit in love with him as well. She went after him in true Cougar style and they had a lot of sex together for about 6 months until he had to move away to continue his studies. She was, I might add, in very good shape and very attractive, so it is not hard to explain Phil's eager responses to my wife's advances.

Kate and I talked quite a bit, both at the time and later, about what she found so sexually appealing about Phil. Partly it was physical: he was a beautiful young man, handsome and fit with a lithe slender nicely-muscled young body, and she was honest enough to tell me that she loved touching him and holding his body against hers and feeling his youthful strength and suppleness as he fucked her. Also, he was charming, funny , creative and very talented.

But -- and this is where I find your comment above so apt - Kate said that what really drew him to her was precisely that he had that 'thirst for life', that openness to ideas and experiences, that sense of potential not yet realised, of a wide-open world of possibilities which, as a mature woman with a marriage, a big job, two children and all the rest of it she found intoxicating. Through him she was reliving or re-savouring her own 'time of possibilities' before she'd made the choices which framed her life. Not that she regretted those choices... she just loved that being with Phil and giving herself to him gave her back a sense of her younger self which, as we all know, can be a pretty potent urge for anyone at that age. People talk of a 'mid-life crisis' but I dont think slightly dismissive phrase does justice to what is a complex and importnat phase in anyone's life. And it was perhaps characteristic of Kate, for whom her vibrant sexuality had been such an important part of her own youthful 'time of possibilities' that her way of processing this moment was to enjoy fucking and being fucked.

 

[SoReadyNow]

Can't speak for others, but I'll say that as an older woman I've been very pleasantly surprised at how many younger men approach me on dating apps. Didn't much consider that possibility when I first got on the apps, but enough younger men sought me out (especially on Feeld) that I began to see a pattern.

And I'm not talking about unshowered, video-gaming, basement-dwelling incels, either. These guys are ... mmm. "Delectable" doesn't even begin to cover it. And here's why I like them (a lot): They are not stuck in the kinds of ruts where men my age too often wallow. I recently turned 70, and grew very very bored very very quickly with listening to men drone on over about their golf handicaps, their horrible bosses, their "crazy" ex-wives (red flag, run!), their favorite cars of yore, their investment strategies, their aches and pains. So many of them apparently stopped listening to any music made after 1985. So many of them still use words like "broads," "chicks, "gals." In short, stasis. And I'm not having any of it.

I have a few current, younger FWBs whom I adore. (The youngest is 48, oldest is 59. I won't consider men in their 20s or early 30s because A) I'm not a licensed daycare provider, and B) I don't feel people that young are interpersonally interesting enough yet.) Sexually, my FWBs are scorching-hot as hell -- so eager to please, so attentive, so playful and fun in bed. Do I salivate over their incredible, beautiful, well-tended, vibrant, sexy AF bodies? Oh, you bet. But that's not the whole of it.

We also enjoy fabulous, nourishing conversation (we talk about books we're reading, politics, the deepest emotions in our lives, their kids, my kids). We are excellent *friends,* and that is a huge part of it all, too. I will enjoy practicing ENM, and the company of these wonderful men, as long as our relationships last.

Now, do I want to find My Person one day? Probably. And that likely won't -- can't -- be anyone way way younger than me. (I mean, I'm 70 -- how does my relationship with my 48-year-old lover look in 15 years? Yeahhhh, more caretaker than lover -- not for me, thanks, and undoubtedly not at all for them, either.) But finding someone in my relative age group who isn't in a primary relationship with their recliner? That's not going to be easy... Carpe diem, I say.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I was with four older married women before I was ever with a woman my own age. Husbands were aware for three of them and the fourth was on a trial seperation. The feeling I got from each was that it was just sex. No expectations, no games, an escape from the every day with someone who had a little stamina.

 

[LadyJen7]

Young people often have an energy, a thirst for life and a curiostity that can be missing in some older ones. Those are all attractive traits in themselves - it doesn't have to be about anything maternal or physical.

I think most adults think of themselves as younger than they actually are. Is it so strange if we are attracted to people that match our self-image rather than the calendar years?

Interesting and true.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

Will note, I spent 10 years with a woman 17 years older than me, and it was the best sex of my life. I learned a lot from her, and she from me, believe it or not. I was her first anal experience, for example.

We tried that a few years in. She was curious and trusted me.

I have been the first time experience for several women in that way, and I was happy to be of help and bring them a new experience, safely and comfortably.

 

[HotWifeOC]

Yes, LoneMilf, you is so right. My wife had an affair [with my eager encouragement] with a much younger man when she was in her mid 40's and he was in his early 20s. She had been quite promiscuous [well, very promiscuous tbh] as a young woman in her teens and 20s, but had 'settled down' in her early 30s when our two kids came along. We still had plenty of good sex together but she had not had other partners [at least, not that she told me about!] for about 15 years when a young man called Phil appeared in our life as a drum teacher to our younger son. She fell head over heels in lust with him from the first meeting, and maybe fell a little bit in love with him as well. She went after him in true Cougar style and they had a lot of sex together for about 6 months until he had to move away to continue his studies. She was, I might add, in very good shape and very attractive, so it is not hard to explain Phil's eager responses to my wife's advances.

Kate and I talked quite a bit, both at the time and later, about what she found so sexually appealing about Phil. Partly it was physical: he was a beautiful young man, handsome and fit with a lithe slender nicely-muscled young body, and she was honest enough to tell me that she loved touching him and holding his body against hers and feeling his youthful strength and suppleness as he fucked her. Also, he was charming, funny , creative and very talented.

But -- and this is where I find your comment above so apt - Kate said that what really drew him to her was precisely that he had that 'thirst for life', that openness to ideas and experiences, that sense of potential not yet realised, of a wide-open world of possibilities which, as a mature woman with a marriage, a big job, two children and all the rest of it she found intoxicating. Through him she was reliving or re-savouring her own 'time of possibilities' before she'd made the choices which framed her life. Not that she regretted those choices... she just loved that being with Phil and giving herself to him gave her back a sense of her younger self which, as we all know, can be a pretty potent urge for anyone at that age. People talk of a 'mid-life crisis' but I dont think slightly dismissive phrase does justice to what is a complex and importnat phase in anyone's life. And it was perhaps characteristic of Kate, for whom her vibrant sexuality had been such an important part of her own youthful 'time of possibilities' that her way of processing this moment was to enjoy fucking and being fucked.

 

[Sign54]

Eh... I''d be fine dating an older woman. I am not Leonardo DiCaprio.