Question for my fellow T-Girls/Crossressers...

[CandiCame]

You're going to have to join the campaign for gay marriage then.

Because the way the laws work here-- she is still legally male until the final operation. It's totally fucked up, but true.

See, I always wondered about that- how the "gay marriage" thing worked- if it went by sex or gender.

That right there; that's fucked up. It's not like it would be that easy to fake or anything- there are gender-psych tests and whatnot...

 

[StacyCD39]

Well, good luck to you, sweetie. Feel free to look me up if ever you need to talk.
As for your concerns about talking to a therapist - he or she will understand. If she's trained in the field, she will have encountered many shy or reticent women like us in her time. And remember, she's there to help. xxx

Thanks Jessica!

*hugs*

 

[Stella_Omega]

See, I always wondered about that- how the "gay marriage" thing worked- if it went by sex or gender.

That right there; that's fucked up. It's not like it would be that easy to fake or anything- there are gender-psych tests and whatnot...

"Gender" is not a legal entity in this country. There's no concrete proof of "gender." The courts need to keep things simple.

 

[JakeLongman]

you are all woman, stacy.

I can tell from your posts that you are truly a sweet, sensuous woman, regardless of what body you have. I'm a huge lingerie/panties/high heel fan, and I constantly beg my wife to dress for me. When she does, she's not really into it, so I don't get the whole emotional experience I am looking for. I often wonder if it would be better to hook up with a tv or ts that enjoys dressing sexy and capturing the essence of a woman...
You keep being the sweet sexy lady you are. Someday you will meet a nice man that will treat you like a princess.

 

[StacyCD39]

Thank you, Jake! It's certainly an incredible and exciting journey, but I'm happy to be here, and I'm confident that one day I'll find a man who loves me for me, what's on the inside!

 

[jackstud]

I can tell from your posts that you are truly a sweet, sensuous woman, regardless of what body you have. I'm a huge lingerie/panties/high heel fan, and I constantly beg my wife to dress for me. When she does, she's not really into it, so I don't get the whole emotional experience I am looking for. I often wonder if it would be better to hook up with a tv or ts that enjoys dressing sexy and capturing the essence of a woman...
You keep being the sweet sexy lady you are. Someday you will meet a nice man that will treat you like a princess.

Very well said Jake

 

[bluesky496]

There are some out there, myself included, who keep their crossdressing a secret, known only to those here on Lit, whether it be a fetish or something much deeper. Myself, I feel like I should have been born a woman. I don't really know how to explain it. Like, I'd be better as a woman, I guess. It just suits my personality better. Inside I feel like a woman, but on the outside I'm...wrong, if that makes any sense. I've never been the macho tough guy type, more the sensitive, giving type. I love women, but I'm totally attracted to everything about guys, too. It's something I struggle with daily, but I'm starting to accept myself for who I am, and not feel so ashamed about it.

I'm also discovering that, if given the chance, I'd happily live my life as a woman. Like, if I found a guy that was into t-girls/crossdressers, and we fell in love, I could totally live 24/7 as a woman. Completely. Panties, skirts, dresses, heels, shave my legs, everything. Like, it would give me the courage to finally go through with living as a woman.

Is there anyone else that feels like I do? For me, it's not a fetish. It's a way of connecting externally with how I really feel on the inside.

i feel the same as you honey and did in fact live for 10 yrs as a woman with a guy who sadly died but it was the best ten years of my life but i was lucky i didnt struggle to come to terms with it i just did it and to hell with anyone who didnt like such as my family who dis-owned me .