Question for Swing community: double standard on Bisexuality?

[Biorgium]

Wow - that's really interesting! I see that you addressed porn/erotica though, whereas my opening question on this thread concerned attitudes among participants at actual group sex events. Do you think anything of what you wrote would apply to these people? I suspect it might.

I must seek out some slash fiction and manga comics - they sound cool.

 

[Guest]

Wow - that's really interesting! I see that you addressed porn/erotica though, whereas my opening question on this thread concerned attitudes among participants at actual group sex events. Do you think anything of what you wrote would apply to these people? I suspect it might.

I must seek out some slash fiction and manga comics - they sound cool.

I was addressing a question that arose in the discussion rather than the original question in the opening post.

The question "do women find male on male sex interesting?" arose, which elicited assorted opinions, some of which speculated that while men found girl/girl exciting (as do many women) in general male/male was not exciting to either. I thought I'd toss in some examples of women who very much DO find male/male the hottest thing since fudge sauce on warm brownies.

There's an interesting essay online about the origins of slash at

http://www.beyonddreamspress.com/index2.htm.

 

[southernsky]

I believe I am in the minority, but I think one man is a wonderful sight, and two of the is even better. especially if they are naked. Very much especially if they are enjoying each other. Gay man porn honest to god makes me hot. Nobody ever claimed I was normal, however.

 

[senseeker]

My ex had the same fantasy ...thoughts...etc...I am not bi but I was up to negotiation..my buddy and I carefully planned an evening for her...we stripped,taunted,teased her and ...well you can guess the rest of her 30th b-day party(that was after the party)...She was thrilled and it was a lot of fun for all of us ...most of all myself as I never thought I could pull off such an event.

 

[artisticbiguy]

waiting for the DVD

I'm with CF on this... my wife and I are waiting for the DVD. We both know we'll be balling over it, and we prefer to do that much emotional outlay in the privacy of our own home.

 

[artisticbiguy]

Wow - that's really interesting! I see that you addressed porn/erotica though, whereas my opening question on this thread concerned attitudes among participants at actual group sex events. Do you think anything of what you wrote would apply to these people? I suspect it might.

That's my wife for you... she can make a much more wide reaching discussion out of something that starts so "innocently". (or not so innocently)

 

[vanelane]

We've been exploring the idea of swinging recently. We call ourselves heteroflexible because he thinks he might like to try sucking a cock, and I can get turned on by anyone under the right circumstances, for reasons already mentioned (curvy female bodies are sexy, mental/emotional connection is sexy).

We haven't actually had sex with another couple yet, but an interesting thing I have learned is that most men will say they are straight in profiles, etc., but many will admit to a bicurious side in conversations. I've made a friend who is a bimale who plays with couples and he tells me many times the "straight" man in a couple contact him looking for a private meeting. So I think it's the societal stigma at play; ie men are just as flexibly sexual as women, if they allow themselves to be.