Question for the guys

agreed

Fuck it, I'll post one pic. I don't know who the woman in the pic is, nor who holds the copyright to the image, but this (in build ONLY) is the type of woman I am USUALLY attracted to...






If you're attracted to thick women, you cannot tell me that she doesn't look delicious!

Totally agree with you Capone. This type of woman (among others) always gets me super aroused. Thanks for posting.
 
preference

i tend to like women who are what i call "athletically chunky"
i tend to be very..physical..in bed...not a gymnast..but i enjoy lots of rolling around..changing positions..si i enjoy a woman who im not afraid of breaking..lol
im a "thighs" guy..i love thighs that are thick..but not fatty...
geez..sounds like im ordering a roast!..lol
 

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I go for a nice figure. Not into zoftic or chubby, certainly not a bbw though never really tried, but skinny skinny is a no go as well, too thin or boney is not for me, just regular, someone who looks healthy, has a sense that they take care of themselves. There are plenty of Lit women who look just right! :)
 
i love a girl with a bit on her, more to grab an rub. especially when the boobs are big too. but even without a thicker girl a lil chubby are still beautiful an sexy
 
I always hear men online state their preferences are average to a little above-average and curvy, yet on the street, the skinny girls are turning heads. Maybe it's just in my town. When I was model-thin, I can say I turned more heads than now (what you'd probably call average??)

So what I'm saying is, I hear this online but not in real life practice. What gives?
 
I always hear men online state their preferences are average to a little above-average and curvy, yet on the street, the skinny girls are turning heads. Maybe it's just in my town. When I was model-thin, I can say I turned more heads than now (what you'd probably call average??)

So what I'm saying is, I hear this online but not in real life practice. What gives?

See my answer below.
 
So what I'm saying is, I hear this online but not in real life practice. What gives?

What gives is that men are visual animals and we want to look at the things we find attractive. We all have a particular body type that we're drawn to, but in reality, we'll settle for anything that will give us the time of day.

Women can sleep with whomever they want, men can only sleep with those that will let them. ;):D
 
Ok, I'll bite as well. My personal preference in women is one that is about 5ft to about 5ft 6" and about 115 to 130 or so. When I first met my wife 11 years ago she was exactly what I was looking for body wise. She was 5' 3" and about 120, with a 34D. Talk about amazing. Now after 11 years, 2 kids, working full time and putting up with me, she has put on some weight and is around 155 or so. Now her body may not be the same as it was all those years ago, but she is not only the same person, but has given me 2 wonderful children and 11 amazing years together with 9 of them being married. With all that said, I still like the way her body was then better, but I would imagine she liked mine better back then as well since I have gained about 30 lbs since we met.
 
I was wondering how do you guys like you girls body chubby, skinny, or what?

I like thin but not boney thin some bigger framed girls actually look pretty good too I guess it all depends on the attitude an confidence to me.
 
i love a woman with a bit extra on her, but all in the right places and she knows how to look after herself
 
I think it depends on the girl. I am more attracted to the chunky ones. I dont really like to call them that because I dont feel they are. I am not attracted to really skinny or really big. I hope this helps
 
Love 'em all

I think skinny girls can look really good when they're dressed, not so good naked, that's why they turn heads, but who has a relationship with an image rather than a person?

Personally I like woman to have tone to their bodies and generally that excludes the extremes; apart from that, much more interested in what's between their ears, that gets me going between my legs!! :D
 
I find this thread very fascinating, and am very interested in all of the replies from the men.


Right now I am 5'3 and weigh 145 lbs. I guess you can say I have an "hourglass" figure, although it's a little more bottom heavy. Anyways, when I was with my ex he used to always tell me that men only liked smaller women, so when we were together I never weighed more than 115lbs. Don't get me wrong, I still felt feminine being smaller, but if I gained any weight he would poke at my stomach and tell me I was getting fat.

What I find works best for me is wearing clothes that fit the body I have. If I see a bigger woman walking around in clothes that are too small on her, my first thought isn't "Wow, what a confident woman" it's "She's not comfortable in her skin." If I wear clothes that fit me, regardless of my size, I feel sexy and womanly. And I do try to work out, but that's more for health issues and toning. If it causes me to lose weight, that's fine too, but it's not a priority.

ETA: Although when I was skinnier I did always hate hearing women saying "Men like REAL women. Just because a woman has smaller boobs, or a nonexistent ass does not make her any less of a woman. Just thought I'd throw that out there
 
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What I find works best for me is wearing clothes that fit the body I have. If I see a bigger woman walking around in clothes that are too small on her, my first thought isn't "Wow, what a confident woman" it's "She's not comfortable in her skin." If I wear clothes that fit me, regardless of my size, I feel sexy and womanly. And I do try to work out, but that's more for health issues and toning. If it causes me to lose weight, that's fine too, but it's not a priority.

ETA: Although when I was skinnier I did always hate hearing women saying "Men like REAL women. Just because a woman has smaller boobs, or a nonexistent ass does not make her any less of a woman. Just thought I'd throw that out there

First, it's good hearing the woman's perspective.

Second, I agree with you on EVERYONE wearing clothing that fits them, not 20 sizes too big or 3 sizes too small. Sexy is a person - male or female - that wears the proper sized clothing and carries themself with pride and confidence.

And lastly, anyone that says "real men" or "real women" are a particular type is an unabashed asshole! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and for anyone to infer their beliefs or preferences on another is wrong. We all have our "ideal", but rarely do we find someone who meets that criteria, and to judge someone who is not one's "ideal" is just wrong.
 
My "ideal" partner is someone who is athletic...... but what is most attractive to me is confidence in herself and someone who knows what they want. I don't care how hot you LOOK, if you are tentative or a wet noodle I don't want you in my bed. I've had the privilege of being with quite a few "4's" and "5's" on the outside looks and bodytype wise, but were ALL "10" between the ears. I love that!!
 
I'm straight but am not averse to checking out a pretty girl. :)
I think the sexiest women are thoe that have confidence in their own body.
Health should be the priority.
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I prefer my women busty with the curves that make a woman a woman. However, I can get turned on by just about in body build as long as they have confidence.
 
What I prefer

I myself prefer a woman thats got lots of curves and is chubby and has a sense of humor and is passionate and adventurous.
 
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