Question for the guys

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

My ideal preference? Hmmmmm well I'm relativly easygoing so most things don't bother me. The things that do attract me are; hair, I am immediatly attracted to long beautiful hair, and weight, what she weighs itself isn't the issue but how she feels about her weight. If she is comfertable with how much she weighs and isn't stressing about it then she is weighing the perfect amount. She also shouldn't be obese, not as much my preference but I wouldn't want to outlive the women I love because of weight-related health problems. Thats just about all, I'm not picky about a womens body (her mind is where my pickiness begins)

Has anyone noticed how similiar all our responces are? I thought what people were looking for would be a bit more varied then this *shrugs* just my observation

-Zergplex

 

[Spenser41]

A man doesn't have to worry about 'hurting' a bigger woman. He doesn't have to worry about breaking her. If he wants to pound the holy hell out of her in bed, she can not only take it, but she can give as good as she gets. Show me one man who doesn't think THAT is sexy as hell.

S.

YEA BABY YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OH and how I would LOVE to find a woman like that!

 

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[Ms_Lilith]

*grin* I'm a big girl, with a HUGE sexual appetite... *grin* I can take a pounding as well as I can give it... and I absolutely love a man who isn't inhibited by his.. or my.. weight..

 

[Bigg_Capone]

*grin* I'm a big girl, with a HUGE sexual appetite... *grin* I can take a pounding as well as I can give it... and I absolutely love a man who isn't inhibited by his.. or my.. weight..

Fuckin' sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet.....

 

[fille]

Wait wait wait....you want a MAXIMUM of 130 lbs yet you don't want a exercise fanatic? Is that even possible??

On retrospect noticing that you like the shorter girls.....I suppose it IS possible but extremely unlikely.

Well, I weigh 130 pounds, and I'm 5'7". And no, I am not stick thin. I wear a size 6. So this part of the list is not so unreasonable. But the whole damn list put together, wow.

 

[Rueben80]

I have seen some women that are sexy and were 5'5 and around 150-160. I though am repelled by double chins and rolls. Big boobs and big bootie can be very sex. Latino's pull this off the best. I don't know but there are a lot of girls that think they are curvey when they are really just packing 30-40 pounds. 5'5' and 180 + lbs is not curvey.

 

[jjevans]

Curvy, voluptious whatever you want to use are not a euphamism for being fat. My women don't need to have a washboard stomach, but rolls of fat are gross.
America is way too fat as it is. For all the people that say that we put too much emphasis on looks, I disagree. We need more emphasis on looks. If we put too much emphasis on looks, we wouldn't have all the diabetes and heart disease that we do.
Being and looking healthy is not "an unrealistic expectation of beauty" I understand that not everyone is a swimsuit model, I'm fine with that, I don't expect that, but have some respect for yourself.
So, I like curves, I don't like the waif look, but the curves need to be in the tits and ass, not hanging over your belt.

 

[Johnny Rockets]

I was wondering how do you guys like you girls body chubby, skinny, or what?

I love my women thick, my wife is about 5' 7" 160 and thats perfect for me

 

[Johnny Rockets]

*grin* I'm a big girl, with a HUGE sexual appetite... *grin* I can take a pounding as well as I can give it... and I absolutely love a man who isn't inhibited by his.. or my.. weight..

You, my darling I would just eat alive...you are so sexy....
I'm a bigger guy...about 250 ( mostly muscle ) and I love a woman with some meat on her bones, so to speak...beatiful pics you had...you are one FINE "big girl" (your words, not mine...to me just girl!)

 

[Ms_Lilith]

You, my darling I would just eat alive...you are so sexy....
I'm a bigger guy...about 250 ( mostly muscle ) and I love a woman with some meat on her bones, so to speak...beatiful pics you had...you are one FINE "big girl" (your words, not mine...to me just girl!)

*grin* why thank you.. I take it you've seen my thread? *blush*

Thanks!

 

[Bobmi357]

I was wondering how do you guys like you girls body chubby, skinny, or what?

To be perfectly honest I find the question itself rather offensive.

I grew up in the 70's and was raised to consider people and their feelings, not their looks. I've known some very beautiful model types that were total shrews personality wise and some BBWs that were loving caring women.

My wife is a big woman, but she's beautiful, honest and caring. She's everything I could possibly want and more. I'm lucky to have her, I don't deserve her.

In the end, in the dark of one's bedroom it shouldn't matter the size or shape of the person lying next to you sleeping. What should matter is how you feel towards that person and how they feel towards you. I sleep with a woman that loves me, that makes me feel special, above the rest of the world. It makes me feel good about myself and my relationship with her.

Shape and size are transitory things. You may find yourself with a svelte 110lb lover one day, and 10 yrs later and three kids she's a harried overweight mother of three. But she's still the same person inside.

What attracts people together may be physical characteristics, but what keeps us together goes far deeper than their shape or weight. And that my friends is what is important.

 

[Johnny Rockets]

*grin* why thank you.. I take it you've seen my thread? *blush*

Thanks!

Of course...didn't mean to make you blush...but you are one beautiful woman...some guy out there is damn lucky...

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Re: Re: Question for the guys

To be perfectly honest I find the question itself rather offensive.

PSSST! Bob. The question, as I read it, came from someone who was feeling insecure about their weight, and was seeking some reassurance. She wasn't trying to be cruel, but wanted to discover if larger women are considered desirable, probably as a way to boost her own self-confidence. But then, that is my interpretation.

 

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[Ms_Lilith]

Of course...didn't mean to make you blush...but you are one beautiful woman...some guy out there is damn lucky...

*grin* Thank you. I'm just as lucky to have him, though.

 

[Johnny Rockets]

*grin* Thank you. I'm just as lucky to have him, though.

Ya damn right...I'd never let my woman post pics (even pics as classy as yours!)

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Ya damn right...I'd never let my woman post pics (even pics as classy as yours!)

Y'know, I hear that a lot. He's just very secure that I love Him, and he enjoys my body enough to share it, in this way, with others. *shrug* I don't really see what the issue is, but then, that's how I think.

 

[sheath]

Re: Re: Question for the guys

In the end, in the dark of one's bedroom it shouldn't matter the size or shape of the person lying next to you sleeping. What should matter is how you feel towards that person and how they feel towards you. I sleep with a woman that loves me, that makes me feel special, above the rest of the world. It makes me feel good about myself and my relationship with her.

Seems to me, Bobmi understands what love is all about.

S.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

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Seems to me, Bobmi understands what love is all about.

S.

What I find so interesting is that so many men on Lit seem to understand what love is all about. As someone that is new on the dating scene, it has restored my faith that I'll find a good decent man out there. Very impressive.

 

[Bobmi357]

Re: Re: Re: Question for the guys

PSSST! Bob. The question, as I read it, came from someone who was feeling insecure about their weight, and was seeking some reassurance. She wasn't trying to be cruel, but wanted to discover if larger women are considered desirable, probably as a way to boost her own self-confidence. But then, that is my interpretation.

You're probably right Vix. It just bothered me because we should be above such petty issues.

Physical charactistics might be what first catches the eye. But what keeps us together goes far deeper than whats on the outside.

As a big guy myself, I know too well the pain of growing up in a society that looks at us larger people and puts us down. Its one of the few still acceptable forms of discrimination. Heavier people have more problems finding work because we don't "present" the right image.

Skinny or heavy, there is someone out there for everyone. And Ladies, believe it or not, if you look, you can find guys that will treat you as you deserve to be treated. It took me 12 years of a crappy marriage and a terrible depression before I realized that there is someone out there that wanted to be loved by me and would return that love.

If the original poster meant it in the context you suggest Vixen, then I heartily apologize to her. Shape, weight, hair color, eye color, whatever, its not the packaging that counts, its the attitude and a willingness to love that counts.

 

[sheath]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Question for the guys

What I find so interesting is that so many men on Lit seem to understand what love is all about. As someone that is new on the dating scene, it has restored my faith that I'll find a good decent man out there. Very impressive.

You're absolutely right.

So far as being new to the dating scene...I am as well, in a way, and I have met the MOST amazing men through lit. My best friend, who means the world to me, is the first man who pops to mind. I met him when he responded with feedback to one of my stories.

Besides him, I have met nothing but incredible, responsible and loving men through literotica. And if there are so many of them HERE, then surely there are just as many of them out THERE.

They do exist. Lit proves it.

S.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Question for the guys

You're absolutely right.

So far as being new to the dating scene...I am as well, in a way, and I have met the MOST amazing men through lit. My best friend, who means the world to me, is the first man who pops to mind. I met him when he responded with feedback to one of my stories.

Besides him, I have met nothing but incredible, responsible and loving men through literotica. And if there are so many of them HERE, then surely there are just as many of them out THERE.

They do exist. Lit proves it.

S.

It certainly doesn't take long to realize how great the guys here are, the women too. I'm sure I'll make some great friends over time. Lynne.

 

[Bigg_Capone]

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It certainly doesn't take long to realize how great the guys here are, the women too. I'm sure I'll make some great friends over time. Lynne.

You can just about count on it. I feel the same way. The site gives me hope I guess. I dunno if that sounds corny or stupid or whatever, but it's the truth. There are truly a lot of great people on this site.

 

[redfunguy]

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