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Pachanga32
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sirensiren said:
I am a 30 year old male and I agree with this statement. I could not describe my dream girls figure. Sometimes I like them bigger other times slender other times athletic. I will say I am into nice legs with a matching ass. No matter what the size. If they match, I am all good.
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It's about passion
Body size is somewhat immaterial, although I do like a woman to be a bit curvaceous... I like passion, responsiveness, and imagination! Large, sensitive nipples are nice tho
Body size is somewhat immaterial, although I do like a woman to be a bit curvaceous... I like passion, responsiveness, and imagination! Large, sensitive nipples are nice tho
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Luke_25 said:
Agreed. Hot pregnant women are very nice.
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If I were to describe my dreamgirl, physically, she would have looooong jet-black hair, fair skin, and be somewhere in the neighborhood of 5'1, skinny as a rail, and flat as a board. Yes, I LOVE the Olive Oyl type.
That being said, those things are great to fantasize about, but they mean absolutely NOTHING if her mind isn't beautiful. I'd be perfectly content with a woman of any height, color, style, and (almost) any body-type if it means she's intelligent, thoughtful, and loving.
That being said, those things are great to fantasize about, but they mean absolutely NOTHING if her mind isn't beautiful. I'd be perfectly content with a woman of any height, color, style, and (almost) any body-type if it means she's intelligent, thoughtful, and loving.
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Ideal woman has nothing to do with body type. I want a woman who enjoys her sensuality. I have seen some bigger sexy women on her that ooze sex.Women who are on the other end of the spectrum worry me, because I am 6'3" and 260+ lbs. Ineed a woman who can handle that much man. 
Eyes are my favorite! I love a pair of eyes that you can see into.
Eyes are my favorite! I love a pair of eyes that you can see into.
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I like chubbier women.
I like a woman who is carrying enough weight to have a nice bust and nice hips, but not chubby enough for it to cause any health problems.
My wife is on the chubbier side even though she is super atheletic. Its just her build type. She has a waist hip ratio of .7 however which is the same kind of hour glass figure famous pinups and women like Marilyn Monroe had.
So while she's on the thicker side... she's really healthy.
For those of you who would care: when a woman's waist hip ratio approaches 1 (i.e. she's got 40 inch hips and a 40 inch waist) her chances of getting diabetes, heart disease, and a host of other ailments sky rockets.
I like a woman who is carrying enough weight to have a nice bust and nice hips, but not chubby enough for it to cause any health problems.
My wife is on the chubbier side even though she is super atheletic. Its just her build type. She has a waist hip ratio of .7 however which is the same kind of hour glass figure famous pinups and women like Marilyn Monroe had.
So while she's on the thicker side... she's really healthy.
For those of you who would care: when a woman's waist hip ratio approaches 1 (i.e. she's got 40 inch hips and a 40 inch waist) her chances of getting diabetes, heart disease, and a host of other ailments sky rockets.
I love my wife, period. If you showed me a picture of her when I was single, I would never think I would have such feelings for that person. So looks really don't matter for me (she IS pretty, though).
As for a girl in a magazine or people-watching in the mall - I vary. I sometimes like the busty, curvy type with a bit of baby fat - but I tend to go for the tall, skinny (small boobs) type.
Don't tell my wife I look at other women, though.
As for a girl in a magazine or people-watching in the mall - I vary. I sometimes like the busty, curvy type with a bit of baby fat - but I tend to go for the tall, skinny (small boobs) type.
Don't tell my wife I look at other women, though.
Chubby versus skinny
I like several of the other posters here have had the pleasure of being with some women that were skinny and some that chubby. Looks are superficial but there are other aspects that are quite real.
The realness is that I don't like women that are to skinny because when having intercourse sometimes there was not enough padding around the hips or rear and this left me pretty sore. On the other hand when a lady has too much padding it can sometimes limit what can and can not physically be done. Being with a bigger woman has been better for me but it really just depends on the lady's attitude.
I like several of the other posters here have had the pleasure of being with some women that were skinny and some that chubby. Looks are superficial but there are other aspects that are quite real.
The realness is that I don't like women that are to skinny because when having intercourse sometimes there was not enough padding around the hips or rear and this left me pretty sore. On the other hand when a lady has too much padding it can sometimes limit what can and can not physically be done. Being with a bigger woman has been better for me but it really just depends on the lady's attitude.
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Interesting question and I suppose the answers will vary to the same degree as the triggers for any given woman’s internal “on switch”. As for me, I have been with a few women and have been attracted to each for some unique reason. I know some traits draw my immediate attention, but since I seldom act based on short-term impulses it is the specific woman that fully engages my desire.
Visual triggers for me:
So although a conscious and sub-conscious checklist or litany of body parts may spark an immediate reaction from me I only act based on knowing the person behind the Foster Grants. One important factor in my attraction to a woman is if she finds herself sexy: big, petite, pale, dark, big breasted or small, long hair or short, etc. Confidence, intelligence, and most importantly humor are keys to me. A genuine smile that shines through her mouth, eyes, and body language is sexy on any body. I have grown extremely attracted to woman who I did not find particularly physically drawn to initially. It is purely the strength of their personality, abilities, or success that makes my eyes see beauty and my mind understand how lucky I am to be with them.
That’s my two cents on a seemingly simple question.
Now to the women reading here - As you read this please us what lights your fire in a man?
Interesting question and I suppose the answers will vary to the same degree as the triggers for any given woman’s internal “on switch”. As for me, I have been with a few women and have been attracted to each for some unique reason. I know some traits draw my immediate attention, but since I seldom act based on short-term impulses it is the specific woman that fully engages my desire.
Visual triggers for me:
- Hair in general – long is nice but there is something about clean shiny hair of all types
- Skin color – I have always been attracted to extremes: very dark to very pale and there is also something discovery like in very ethnic women of all varieties.
- Body Shape – Thin flexible woman to large curvy women all stimulate me eye if they are neat and move smoothly, I have always been more turned on by a large nipple regardless of breast size. I would agree with the guys who think woman who are preggers are the epitome of sensual (however, there are some woman whose body seems to revolt at this condition and they actually look under extreme stress when preggers)
So although a conscious and sub-conscious checklist or litany of body parts may spark an immediate reaction from me I only act based on knowing the person behind the Foster Grants. One important factor in my attraction to a woman is if she finds herself sexy: big, petite, pale, dark, big breasted or small, long hair or short, etc. Confidence, intelligence, and most importantly humor are keys to me. A genuine smile that shines through her mouth, eyes, and body language is sexy on any body. I have grown extremely attracted to woman who I did not find particularly physically drawn to initially. It is purely the strength of their personality, abilities, or success that makes my eyes see beauty and my mind understand how lucky I am to be with them.
That’s my two cents on a seemingly simple question.
Now to the women reading here - As you read this please us what lights your fire in a man?
Megan_69 said:
For me, 99% of my physical attraction has nothing to do with size/shape or what she's wearing (wearing yes, but I"ll get to that in a moment). It has EVERYTHING to do with her attitude. My wife still asks me that question "if I were big and fat would you still love me?" I keep explaining the same thing over and over again. What makes her attracitve to me is when she desires me, that is, when she is attracted to me. A guy wants nothing more than to feel loved unconditionally by his woman. If she were to put on lingerie FOR ME (because I know how much she hates it) then I would feel extra special because I know she's going out of her comfort zone to love me.
This is why I can't really get into porn. I know in my mind the girls arn't doing it for me, they are doing it for the pay check.
To me, its much more important for the girl to be real. I love looking at the threads here on Lit and reading what the authors write about when they are taking their own pictures and sharing with us. To me, that really makes the connection between sex and intimacy in my mind. Thats why I can look at any woman here on Lit, big, small, tall or short, and still get off because I know she's real and can read her responses in her own thread.
I hope I've answered your question and made some sort of sense here.
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Well, I am a woman with some curves. Some guys say it doesn't matter what kind of body a woman has, but let's get real here.
If a man has a chance to choose, believe me, he will choose the "trophy girlfriend or wife". Why? Because he can. Sad but true
If a man has a chance to choose, believe me, he will choose the "trophy girlfriend or wife". Why? Because he can. Sad but true
My thoughts
First of all, sexy =/= pretty. There are plenty of women with aesthetically pleasing bodies who are as sexy as a potato, and lots of women who don't fit the normal definitions of pretty who ooze slinky, nasty, sweaty, fun sex.
Second, it's also about the mind. A beautiful woman is wonderful, but I'll overlook a lot of physical imperfection if I'm dazzled by a woman's wit and sensual imagination. Likewise, a pretty girl with nice cans who's as dumb as a post....maybe back in high school, but not now.
Third, there is no age limit (well, okay, a legal one at the bottom end). Wendy Malick is in her fifties and still hot. Likewise Renee Russo, Jane Seymour and others. Hell, Halle Berry is 40, and she's just hitting her stride. And who could forget 60 year old Cher? Very attractive lady (but NOT sexy...see above).
Fourth, it is possible to be too skinny. In fact, it's as easy to be too skinny as it is too heavy. Grossly overweight people turn me off because it says something about their lifestyle. Skinny people, same thing. If you're somewhere in the middle, odds are good you're a lot more attractive than you think you are.
Personally, I think people are way too hard on themselves, trying to be some picture from a magazine. If you want to meet members of the opposite sex, dress nicely, go where the people are, talk to them and smile a lot.
My $.02.
J
First of all, sexy =/= pretty. There are plenty of women with aesthetically pleasing bodies who are as sexy as a potato, and lots of women who don't fit the normal definitions of pretty who ooze slinky, nasty, sweaty, fun sex.
Second, it's also about the mind. A beautiful woman is wonderful, but I'll overlook a lot of physical imperfection if I'm dazzled by a woman's wit and sensual imagination. Likewise, a pretty girl with nice cans who's as dumb as a post....maybe back in high school, but not now.
Third, there is no age limit (well, okay, a legal one at the bottom end). Wendy Malick is in her fifties and still hot. Likewise Renee Russo, Jane Seymour and others. Hell, Halle Berry is 40, and she's just hitting her stride. And who could forget 60 year old Cher? Very attractive lady (but NOT sexy...see above).
Fourth, it is possible to be too skinny. In fact, it's as easy to be too skinny as it is too heavy. Grossly overweight people turn me off because it says something about their lifestyle. Skinny people, same thing. If you're somewhere in the middle, odds are good you're a lot more attractive than you think you are.
Personally, I think people are way too hard on themselves, trying to be some picture from a magazine. If you want to meet members of the opposite sex, dress nicely, go where the people are, talk to them and smile a lot.
My $.02.
J
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hm. I think what turns me on in women is:
Confidence in their body more than the body itself.
And physical responsiveness. But I think the two go hand in hand.
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Confidence in their body more than the body itself.
And physical responsiveness. But I think the two go hand in hand.
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Body size is overrated mostly most of us are a product of genes passed down in history what is really important is ability to hold a conversation a good sense of humor and a decent heart which means not getting upset when someone disagrees with you life is too short to worry about being on the same wavelength on every issue more important to be on same wavelength on important things
Body size is overrated mostly most of us are a product of genes passed down in history what is really important is ability to hold a conversation a good sense of humor and a decent heart which means not getting upset when someone disagrees with you life is too short to worry about being on the same wavelength on every issue more important to be on same wavelength on important things
