Question for women with very large breasts

[ParkerSteve66]

Why would you assume that we enjoy that?

Obviously I wasn't thinking of the negative way that comment could have been construed. I understand your question. I guess stating it did make a ASS of me. Sorry.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

I don't much care for attention of any kind from lascivious old farts.

The word "lascivious" itself suggests something offensive in nature. In my view the association that has been established between appreciation of anything below a woman's neck and a lascivious interest is a big part of what makes it potentially so offensive to women. Personally I don't see appreciation of my body as necessarily and always lascivious in nature.....but it is that way frequently enough that it is always a possibility and I can see why women will default to that assumption.

Having great tits is something to be appreciated and I am not averse to having my body appreciated, respectfully. But that usually means only involving a man who I know and trust or very specific situations. That can be subjective and somewhat variable so as an overriding guideline, if in doubt just don't. We don't owe it to me to give them a clear path to how to complete our bodies.....they owe it to us to not do anything unless we show them a clear path.

PolicyWank, you are correct, as usual. Obviously I wasn't thinking of the negative way that comment could have been construed. I guess stating it did make a ASS of me. Sorry.

When I do notice a women with a prominent bust, my behavior (looking) is definitely driven by MY thoughts of sex. I NEVER wish to make anyone feel uncomfortable. I would never enter anyone's personal "space" without permission.

From Dictionary.Com:
Use lascivious to describe a person's behavior that is driven by thoughts of sex. If someone gives you a lascivious smile, they've got only one thing in mind.

Latin-based lascivious and the Old English word lust both share the same Indo-European root las- "to be eager, wanton." The much older word lust originally meant "desire, pleasure" and over time developed to mean sexual desire. Lascivious, on the other hand, entered the English language in the early 15th century complete with the meaning "lewd, driven by sexual desire."

 

[cypressknee]

What was she before and after??
I assume the pictures you post are after
She looks great!!

I don’t know the “letter” size..but yes this picture is before and after the reduction surgery..and thank you…we both love the new boobs

 

[policywank]

PolicyWank, you are correct, as usual. Obviously I wasn't thinking of the negative way that comment could have been construed. I guess stating it did make a ASS of me. Sorry.

When I do notice a women with a prominent bust, my behavior (looking) is definitely driven by MY thoughts of sex. I NEVER wish to make anyone feel uncomfortable. I would never enter anyone's personal "space" without permission.

From Dictionary.Com:
Use lascivious to describe a person's behavior that is driven by thoughts of sex. If someone gives you a lascivious smile, they've got only one thing in mind.

Latin-based lascivious and the Old English word lust both share the same Indo-European root las- "to be eager, wanton." The much older word lust originally meant "desire, pleasure" and over time developed to mean sexual desire. Lascivious, on the other hand, entered the English language in the early 15th century complete with the meaning "lewd, driven by sexual desire."

Well I suppose that is a somewhat more favourable definition of the word lascivious than the one I found. Although I am not sure it is too much better. Lol. That said I think that human sexual urges are largely involuntary. I don't criticize men for their natural urges. What matters is what, if anything, they do about it.

The thing that you have to consider about big breasts is that hiding them is not really a viable option, so the fact that men can notice them doesn't mean a woman has made the choice to put them on display to stimulate men.

I say that in the context that in this day and age a woman should not be compelled to make wardrobe choices solely to hide herself from the male gaze. We want to be able to choose clothes that are flattering to all aspects of our being. And there is nothing intrinsically sexual in any person wanting to be well put together. If a woman chooses clothes that flatter her body it is usually just because she wants to look good for herself and her own sense of self and confidence. Even if she is looking to attract sexual attention it is probably not from just any dude who wants to drool over her.

In my opinion, it is nearly impossible to tell by looking at a woman whether or not she is interested in attracting male sexual attention. There are no universal rules to which we have agreed to submit or that anyone is entitled to impose upon us. However, I am aware of the innate response my clothing choices may induce in men. If I know that a certain look is likely to trigger men's sexual urges I don't blame them for maybe taking a second glance. But the onus is still on them to be respectful - like the Seinfeld episode, they are like the sun, look quickly then look away don't just leer at them.

In all honesty, I like to look attractive and I suppose that on some level that can't be completely separated from sexual desire. But I rarely think directly or explicitly about stimulating men when I make my wardrobe choices.

I think that there is a bit of unconscious assumption about how women present ourselves that links back to the time when it was up to us to dress modestly so as to avoid stimulating men. Even though we understand that is no longer acceptable we haven't quite let go of some of those unconscious assumptions. When men think of dressing to be attractive I think that they sort of like the idea of it being a turn on for women. But they think of it in an idealized way that is nothing like the attention that women get from men. If you want to get a sense of it, don't think in terms of beautiful women winking at you and giving you that come hither look. Think of ugly, fat women slovenly dressed with bad breath making lewd comments and getting in your personal space - trust me it will lose its appeal real fast. Of course, I am portraying them in that extreme way to make a point. The reality is somewhere in between. But in that reality the majority of women expressing interest in you would be ones that aren't attractive to you and are creating an awkward interaction from which you will want to flee. But if they just give you a second glance then move on respectfully, that works fine.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

Well I suppose that is a somewhat more favourable definition of the word lascivious than the one I found. Although I am not sure it is too much better. Lol. That said I think that human sexual urges are largely involuntary. I don't criticize men for their natural urges. What matters is what, if anything, they do about it.

The thing that you have to consider about big breasts is that hiding them is not really a viable option, so the fact that men can notice them doesn't mean a woman has made the choice to put them on display to stimulate men.

I say that in the context that in this day and age a woman should not be compelled to make wardrobe choices solely to hide herself from the male gaze. We want to be able to choose clothes that are flattering to all aspects of our being. And there is nothing intrinsically sexual in any person wanting to be well put together. If a woman chooses clothes that flatter her body it is usually just because she wants to look good for herself and her own sense of self and confidence. Even if she is looking to attract sexual attention it is probably not from just any dude who wants to drool over her.

In my opinion, it is nearly impossible to tell by looking at a woman whether or not she is interested in attracting male sexual attention. There are no universal rules to which we have agreed to submit or that anyone is entitled to impose upon us. However, I am aware of the innate response my clothing choices may induce in men. If I know that a certain look is likely to trigger men's sexual urges I don't blame them for maybe taking a second glance. But the onus is still on them to be respectful - like the Seinfeld episode, they are like the sun, look quickly then look away don't just leer at them.

In all honesty, I like to look attractive and I suppose that on some level that can't be completely separated from sexual desire. But I rarely think directly or explicitly about stimulating men when I make my wardrobe choices.

I think that there is a bit of unconscious assumption about how women present ourselves that links back to the time when it was up to us to dress modestly so as to avoid stimulating men. Even though we understand that is no longer acceptable we haven't quite let go of some of those unconscious assumptions. When men think of dressing to be attractive I think that they sort of like the idea of it being a turn on for women. But they think of it in an idealized way that is nothing like the attention that women get from men. If you want to get a sense of it, don't think in terms of beautiful women winking at you and giving you that come hither look. Think of ugly, fat women slovenly dressed with bad breath making lewd comments and getting in your personal space - trust me it will lose its appeal real fast. Of course, I am portraying them in that extreme way to make a point. The reality is somewhere in between. But in that reality the majority of women expressing interest in you would be ones that are attractive to you and are creating an awkward interaction from which you will want to flee. But if they just give you a second glance then move on respectfully, that works fine.

Thank you for your very thorough and thoughtful response. As a slight aside, one of the most sexy clothing that a woman can wear is a dress with only one shoulder. I find that more alluring than a strapless dress. Not sure why: maybe, in my very young years I saw history drawings of Greek or Roman women in togas. Have a great day.

 

[Hugejorgan99]

I don’t know the “letter” size..but yes this picture is before and after the reduction surgery..and thank you…we both love the new boobs

I’m jealous

 

[Hugejorgan99]

my cousin got a reduction. It looks great, but I'll wait until I'm older to that. Right now they look too good in a gown to mess with them!

I bet. Rock what you got girl!

 

[THoney269]

I love women with large or small breasts. Obviously, larger breasts (unenhanced) are softer and more squishy. And, I ASS-U-ME that many adult women with very large breasts enjoy the obvious attention they get from lascivious old farts like me.

But, what about when you were much younger. Did you see your large breasts as a good thing or a curse?

Just curious to hear from the wome on Lit.

I've always considered my top heaviness to be a curse and tried to keep the girls hidden/covered as much as possible

 

[ParkerSteve66]

I've always considered my top heaviness to be a curse and tried to keep the girls hidden/covered as much as possible

I am so sorry that your "top heaviness" was considered to be a "curse". As an Audiosmut author, I am a little surprised that you "tried to keep the girls hidden/covered as much as possible". I thoroughly enjoy the beautiful enhancement to the female body (as opposed to the male body) of voluptuous "girls".

 

[Rockwell12]

My wife likes attention from men. She already had nice average sized breasts. After having had kids in her late 30s she got breast implants. She still has a smoking hot body (she's in her early 50s) and has 32 DD breasts. She always likes attention from men and it's been mostly flattering and polite, so nothing negative.

 

[StrongMaster7]

A close male friend of mine had a sister who was a year younger than us and she had an amazing figure. She was an athlete, a sprinter, believe it or not, who had very, very large breasts. I don't know the exact size, but double-D at least. She was a pretty girl and super-nice.

I was always torn because I am such a 'breast man' I wanted to stare and honestly I wanted to touch them. But I showed restraint and respect because she was so sweet and my friend's sister.

She eventually had them reduced, which has always made me sad, although I'm sure it was the right decision for her.

Just for the record, it's not a sin to be horny. It's not a sin to appreciate a beautiful person. And it's not even a sin to be attracted to a particular feature on a person such as eyes, hair, or breasts. It's wrong to treat people like things, like sex objects. It's wrong to act like a creep. It's also wrong to assume you know what motivates people with respect to how they dress.

Enough.

 

[THoney269]

wrong to treat people like things, like sex objects. It's wrong to act like a creep

This is why I tried to keep the girls covered as much as possible; I wasn't comfortable being pursued by creepy octopi who couldn't see beyond my tits

It's not a sin to appreciate a beautiful person

I completely agree..I have to point out though that a person's true beauty will outlive their looks more often than not

 

[Vitriolhack]

This is why I tried to keep the girls covered as much as possible; I wasn't comfortable being pursued by creepy octopi who couldn't see beyond my tits

I completely agree..I have to point out though that a person's true beauty will outlive their looks more often than not

I agree beauty survives long after the “ravages” of time on the flesh!

 

[Vitriolhack]

A close male friend of mine had a sister who was a year younger than us and she had an amazing figure. She was an athlete, a sprinter, believe it or not, who had very, very large breasts. I don't know the exact size, but double-D at least. She was a pretty girl and super-nice.

I was always torn because I am such a 'breast man' I wanted to stare and honestly I wanted to touch them. But I showed restraint and respect because she was so sweet and my friend's sister.

She eventually had them reduced, which has always made me sad, although I'm sure it was the right decision for her.

Just for the record, it's not a sin to be horny. It's not a sin to appreciate a beautiful person. And it's not even a sin to be attracted to a particular feature on a person such as eyes, hair, or breasts. It's wrong to treat people like things, like sex objects. It's wrong to act like a creep. It's also wrong to assume you know what motivates people with respect to how they dress.

Enough.

Very well said.

 

[stargame]

When I was at school I was teased really badly as I developed much quicker than the other girls and I had to wear a bra when none of my classmates needed to. I would have done anything to get rid of them. I hated the attention when I was a teenager and I would really implore men not to leer at young girls as it can have a really damaging effect on self esteem.
Now, that I am much older and experienced, despite the sweating, the back ache, not being able to lie on my stomach etc. I really love them and the attention they get me. I love to go without a bra in just a tight top and watch men's reactions - it is a real turn on for me when my breasts swing and my nipples are rock hard under a thin layer of fabric.
I love to have them played with and I love the feeling of power I get when I give a titty fuck and my my fuck buddy is a complete mess and completely taken over with lust for them.

I am totally swooning over you

 

[policywank]

I love women with large or small breasts. Obviously, larger breasts (unenhanced) are softer and more squishy. And, I ASS-U-ME that many adult women with very large breasts enjoy the obvious attention they get from lascivious old farts like me.

But, what about when you were much younger. Did you see your large breasts as a good thing or a curse?

Just curious to hear from the wome on Lit.

So many guys here on Lit claim to dislike breast implants, and of course, they can always tell, but it makes me wonder. Do you guys never leave the house? Maybe go to the grocery store? The gas station? Walmart? Target? It's so weird. I've never encountered a single one of you.

I find it interesting the way men seem to believe that they can easily tell when a woman has had breast enhancements. I don't think that is true. We have all observed tits that look fake because they were poorly done or overdone. But it is wrong to assume that all enhanced breasts look that way. Some are very well done so you just don't recognize them as fake.

That is especially so if the enhancement is modest. Going up a cup size or less or just generally reversing a bit of sag is going to look and feel a lot different than balloons that increase your breasts three sizes.

It's like saying you know what a criminal or a promiscuous woman looks like. No you don't. You just know what the stereotype is.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

I find it interesting the way men seem to believe that they can easily tell when a woman has had breast enhancements. I don't think that is true. We have all observed tits that look fake because they were poorly done or overdone. But it is wrong to assume that all enhanced breasts look that way. Some are very well done so you just don't recognize them as fake.

That is especially so if the enhancement is modest. Going up a cup size or less or just generally reversing a bit of sag is going to look and feel a lot different than balloons that increase your breasts three sizes.

It's like saying you know what a criminal or a promiscuous woman looks like. No you don't. You just know what the stereotype is.

Policywank: "Obviously, larger breasts (unenhanced) are softer and more squishy" is from my own personal experience.

I did not say, nor do I think: you "can easily tell when a woman has had breast enhancements"

But, the "feel" test is real, at least for me.

 

[policywank]

Policywank: "Obviously, larger breasts (unenhanced) are softer and more squishy" is from my own personal experience.

I did not say, nor do I think: you "can easily tell when a woman has had breast enhancements"

But, the "feel" test is real, at least for me.

I didn't mean for that to come across as accusing, but as a more general comment.

Certainly the implants have a different feel than natural breast tissue. But similar to the appearance dynamics the difference in the actual feel of the breast will be substantially affected by what proportion of the breast is implant. The breasts of a woman who has implants to go from an A cup to a C cup will not feel natural. Meanwhile I know a woman who went from a D cup to a DD cup (primarily to address some sag rather than to be bigger) and I can barely notice any change in the feel (yes she let me feel her up, lol).

 

[jaF0]

I find it interesting the way men seem to believe that they can easily tell when a woman has had breast enhancements. I don't think that is true. We have all observed tits that look fake because they were poorly done or overdone. But it is wrong to assume that all enhanced breasts look that way. Some are very well done so you just don't recognize them as fake.

I didn't mean for that to come across as accusing, but as a more general comment.

Certainly the implants have a different feel than natural breast tissue. But similar to the appearance dynamics the difference in the actual feel of the breast will be substantially affected by what proportion of the breast is implant. The breasts of a woman who has implants to go from an A cup to a C cup will not feel natural. Meanwhile I know a woman who went from a D cup to a DD cup (primarily to address some sag rather than to be bigger) and I can barely notice any change in the feel (yes she let me feel her up, lol).

When I see this conversation, I think of an episode of 'Becker'

Bob and Jake are sitting at the counter, Bob thumbing through a girly mag (like he often did.) He makes some comment about real or fake and Reggie asks 'Are you saying you can tell if they're real or fake just by looking at a picture?' Bob starts point out pictures saying, 'real, fake, real, fake, fake, real, Real Fake!'

But yeah, the good jobs are much less obvious than the bad jobs.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

I didn't mean for that to come across as accusing, but as a more general comment.

Certainly the implants have a different feel than natural breast tissue. But similar to the appearance dynamics the difference in the actual feel of the breast will be substantially affected by what proportion of the breast is implant. The breasts of a woman who has implants to go from an A cup to a C cup will not feel natural. Meanwhile I know a woman who went from a D cup to a DD cup (primarily to address some sag rather than to be bigger) and I can barely notice any change in the feel (yes she let me feel her up, lol).

I understand exactly what you mean. The women that I know had implants, had breasts that were too "perfect" for their ages.

No jiggle when they walk and no sag at all. As a nudist, I can easily tell fake boobs on a 40 or 50 year old woman. (Not implying "all". Just that on a nude woman there are certain "tells".)

 

[Mikethick57]

So many guys here on Lit claim to dislike breast implants, and of course, they can always tell, but it makes me wonder. Do you guys never leave the house? Maybe go to the grocery store? The gas station? Walmart? Target? It's so weird. I've never encountered a single one of you.

Funny, whenever i go out i just see dudes that look like me!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I used to be a D cup for many years, and got lots of attention for my breasts.
I actually loved the comments, lol..
When I was 19, I had a couple mesh see through T-shirts I used to wear in the summer with sexy bras.. So I flaunted my tits when I could.

Now I'm bigger, a DD-DDD.
I love my breasts even more..
So much, I have my own thread devoted to pics of them for anyone to view

 

[ParkerSteve66]

I used to be a D cup for many years, and got lots of attention for my breasts.
I actually loved the comments, lol..
When I was 19, I had a couple mesh see through T-shirts I used to wear in the summer with sexy bras.. So I flaunted my tits when I could.

Now I'm bigger, a DD-DDD.
I love my breasts even more..
So much, I have my own thread devoted to pics of them for anyone to view

And where is that thread?

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

And where is that thread?

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/my-tits.1568792/

 

[LauraLO]

Until now I have never gotten emotional reading through a thread...literally have tears rolling down my cheeks and onto my boobs. I guess I'm one of the few larger breasted women that always sees humor with my boobs...how many tops have I soaked with my tears...+1 right now. How many tops have I stained with food that drops from a fork or a hand held food item right smack on one of my girls....but I've never been ashamed of them. Now if you are talking gigantomastia, then I understand and I'd be first in line for a reduction...I'm sadden for those women...truly. Yes, as a girl hitting puberty there were the nudges and accidental bumps, copped feels and looks from boys and that crap but by end of high school andinto college and as an adult woman my DD cups have never been an embarrassment to me...NEVER. The only major issue is that some bras I'm a 32D but most Im DD so the time spent shopping I end up trying on way too many but it's fun.
As to the original (I think it was the original question or statement)...once comfortable in myself and who I am, I do dress for other women and love love love when I catch them glancing my way...yes I still blush.