Random dirty PMs

I've sent PM's and gotten some replies, I generally try to read several posts to see if I can get a "feel" for what the recipient would like. I also read profiles first. I've had feedback, but most ladies are likely so overwhelmed they just give up replying.

I do try to bring some humor to the PM, but I feel like it can sound so forced.

On the flip side, I only think I've ever received one PM out of the blue.
 
... and The '0' post guy, no bio, and wants to chat.

Those are so damn annoying!

That's why I added I usually will read your profile and a few of your posts before responding; those with little of either may be SOL. to my profile.

I like ti match what they say about themselves to what they actually post.

If I can't get a feel for who I am talking to, I won't bother.
 
Fixing some of these

I'm also nervous and awkward...I don't know the "proper etiquette" for these things and I just feel tremendously nervous on this site and I have no idea why. In real life I'm not nearly this shy.
 
I have neither started a dirty PM or received one randomly. I have sent a PM at times to a person who either posted something intriguing or has a story that I enjoyed.
I do enjoy talking with people from everywhere, but the fear of intruding prevents me from randomly sending a dirty PM.
If, on the other hand, it is invited I will give it a shot.
 
I have neither started a dirty PM or received one randomly. I have sent a PM at times to a person who either posted something intriguing or has a story that I enjoyed.
I do enjoy talking with people from everywhere, but the fear of intruding prevents me from randomly sending a dirty PM.
If, on the other hand, it is invited I will give it a shot.

Starting off with a dirty PM is like walking up to a girl and saying "Nice tits- wanna fuck?"

Much better to be relevent to a forum conversation, and taking it from there.
 
Starting off with a dirty PM is like walking up to a girl and saying "Nice tits- wanna fuck?"

Much better to be relevent to a forum conversation, and taking it from there.

Even I'm not that awkward. 0_o
At least I don't try to be.
 
Hehe I received numerous and I had only been on the board and put my first post down for 5 minutes lol

Admittedly everyone was actually quite nice, but it did shock me how many I got
 
Starting off with a dirty PM is like walking up to a girl and saying "Nice tits- wanna fuck?"



So, women get offended when we compliment their figure?

You gals are so tough to figure out.
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There is, from the male perspective, a perception of reduced expectation when it comes to chatting up girls on a website like this. Unfortunately, some set take too much liberty with that.

Yes, we are all here to read and write naughty things. But they should still be witty and interesting.
 
I actually dont mind getting random PMs. A majority of them actually havent been that dirty to start off with, I have sent a few random PMs myself but I refuse to reply to anyone who doesnt have any posts. I like to know what kind of person in general I am talking to.
 
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