woman_inside
Really Really Experienced
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I think it's the fantasy of being "made" to do what you secretly already desire. The humiliation and loss of control adds anticipation and spice. i have a fantasy about being in a dark room and people grab me and undress me. they fuck me and tell me i'm a sissy, and then they mock me. The loss of control, coupled with the fantasy taking over from reality, is intoxicating.
It's an interesting point though in my case only part of it. My fantasies did change from before I had sex with men to after, probably because I no longer "had" to be "made" to have sex with a man as I'd done it voluntarily. Before losing my gay virginity I had fantasies of being abducted, tied up, dressed up as a woman and fucked, while afterwards my fantasies switched more to submission scenarios without physically being restrained.