Real Life Meet ups

I have not hooked up with any one but have met one person..it was awkward the first time. She hooked up with some one else on lit and we just became friends even though i have fantasies about her.
 
I have not hooked up with any one but have met one person..it was awkward the first time. She hooked up with some one else on lit and we just became friends even though i have fantasies about her.



was it just not a good match? or did something happen? did you go there intending to hook up with her?
 
I met up with a Lady from Lit and we've been together ever since :) (2 1/2 yrs)
 
a quick update for those following...

I did talk to hubby this morning and he told me he doesn't mind as long as I stay safe. Basically left it up to me to decide. But only with the one guy he already knows! So this is NOT an open invite!! LOL!!
 
This may sound silly from across the Atlantic but I really hope it happens for you. Am I the only one finds this almost a Lit romance? Well, it's the most romantic thing I've read on Lit!
 
I wouldn't call it romantic necessarily, but it is a guy that I'm really into.
 
Has anyone ever met in real life someone they first met here on Lit? I'm sure some people have, but am more interested in how common it is.

No, but I'm still a newbie here. It is an intriguing thought though. I wouldn't be against it if I met the right guy, but there would have to be a time of online vetting before I would be comfortable with a face to face meeting. That's just me.
 
No, but I'm still a newbie here. It is an intriguing thought though. I wouldn't be against it if I met the right guy, but there would have to be a time of online vetting before I would be comfortable with a face to face meeting. That's just me.

I have always found a person personality comes across much better when you develop an online "relationship" You do tend to find out things, especially in the beginning of teh 'vetting'! Definitely a must in my book as well...
 
This thread does lead to some interesting ideas about actually meeting up with someone from Lit and instead of just flirting and talking about, actually get down to the real thing. I wonder if the sex would be better because there was no fear of commitment, simply two fuck buddies simply fucking?
 
This thread does lead to some interesting ideas about actually meeting up with someone from Lit and instead of just flirting and talking about, actually get down to the real thing. I wonder if the sex would be better because there was no fear of commitment, simply two fuck buddies simply fucking?

You think that leads to better? Hmm
 
Nice

a quick update for those following...

I did talk to hubby this morning and he told me he doesn't mind as long as I stay safe. Basically left it up to me to decide. But only with the one guy he already knows! So this is NOT an open invite!! LOL!!


Thats is so cool!!!!!!!!
 
You think that leads to better? Hmm



I actually rather enjoy the flirting and playing around. it's so fun and builds the anticipation sooooo much! for me, that's one of the best parts of the entire thing.
 
We have to differentiate between real life relationships and cyber relationships. Most guys are far more likely to flirt on line than in real life. Flirting is the life blood of Lit.
I think that if two people meet on Lit and build up a relationship then it seems fitting, if everyone knows the grounds rule, that they should get it on it the opportunity is available.
 
Yes, I've meet up with one Litster and it was a very nice couple of days. We did some touristy things and played a lot. The clothes didn't stay on long when we first reached our hotel room! No regrets at all!
 
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